Do women also need lovers?

There is often a saying in the world that "an infatuated woman breaks her heart". I am not a feminist. I don't think women are more spoony and men are more fickle. I don't think "liking the new and hating the old" is a man's patent. Who is not horny? Everyone loves beauty, and both men and women are lustful. Men looking for a mistress can be said to have high-sounding reasons, which can be said to be physical and psychological needs. Then, from the perspective of equality between men and women, from the perspective of women's physiology and psychology, comprehensively considering factors such as morality, ethics and reputation, does a woman have her reasons for finding a lover, and does a woman also need a "green confidante"? "Green beauty": namely "lover", as opposed to "mistress". He is different from the "blue confidante". Married women not only seek psychological comfort through him, but also have sex with him. This kind of man is a woman's "green confidante". When a woman has a "green confidante", her behavior is defined as an affair. Once extramarital affairs are discovered, women have to be tortured by the soul and condemned by morality. It is not unusual for a man to have a mistress, but a woman with a lover is often humiliated by words like "cheap" and "coquettish". When a man looks for a mistress, he can make the reason grandiose, which can be said to be a physical and psychological need. Then, from the perspective of equality between men and women, from the perspective of women's physiology and psychology, comprehensively considering factors such as morality, ethics and reputation, does a woman have her reasons for finding a lover, and does a woman also need a "green confidante"? However, in this modern society, which advocates equality between men and women, when men regard "the red flag at home is not falling, and the colorful flags are fluttering outside" as a way to show off their capital, women are bound by the so-called "women's morality", and the thoughts and behaviors of "having an affair" make women shy, and women even endure the condemnation of conscience and the torture of soul for occasional emotional derailment or physical derailment. Is this fair? Changing one's mind is a common psychology of human beings and a common phenomenon in social life. Both men and women have the nature of philandering. If we put aside the bondage of morality, reputation and ethics, every woman will subconsciously feel that she needs a lover. From a human or physiological point of view, a woman really needs a lover. 1, lover is a flavoring agent, which can make a woman get back the feeling of first love. As for her husband, he always puts his sweaty feet on the coffee table after work, lazily turns over the newspaper and watches TV, and occasionally shouts "Is the meal ready?" I'm hungry! "2. Lovers know more about romance than husbands. When a woman bought a bunch of roses on her wedding anniversary and tried her best to prepare a candlelight dinner, her husband would stare big eyes: "What are you spending this money for?" I'm an old couple, and I spend money all day! "No matter how much a woman thinks about giving her husband a surprise, she always flatly refuses; As for the lover, he will be ecstatic about the gift that the woman gave him, and will always say, "Baby, that's very kind of you! ""Send a lingering kiss and a warm hug. 3. Lovers always satisfy women's vanity. Lovers will accompany you around the street all day and see a wide range of goods. Lovers will keep saying, "honey, this dress is really beautiful." It must look good on you. Try it? " "Baby, this handbag goes well with your black skirt. Buy it? " But my husband, even if he is reluctant to go shopping with you, is always absent-minded When you stop in front of high-end clothes, he will walk away with an excuse: "I'm going outside for a cigarette!" " "When you try on a beautiful fashion and ask him to be a consultant, he will say," Are there so many clothes in your closet? "4. A lover will always respect a woman's feelings. When a woman put on sexy underwear after washing and sent a message of love to her husband tenderly, her husband frowned and said, "I'm tired, I can't secrete androgen for you. I'm going to bed." "At this time, the lover will constantly praise the woman, and then be kind to her in every way, constantly asking her how she feels:" OK? Do you feel good? "5. A lover is always a woman's best listener, and a lover is always a woman's confidant. Women need understanding and support. The love between husband and wife often disappears gradually in real life, with little time for communication and a lack of calm atmosphere. A woman's dissatisfaction with her husband is often: her husband lacks humor, her husband is not diligent enough, and her husband is not considerate enough. This is simply enough, but who can these words be confided to? All this can be confided to the lover, because there is no contradiction between them, but they can accommodate each other. In the face of your troubles, your lover will not bother you, let alone scold you for being full all day, but will only comfort you softly ... In short, in order to avoid such a thing, be kind to women, care more about women, be gentle with women, be romantic from time to time, understand women more and undertake more housework. ...