At that time, after giving birth to the baby, she was told by the doctor that the placenta did not give birth automatically and needed her to take it. Finally, the doctor warned me that there might be residue. Sure enough, I went to do a B-ultrasound the next day, and the results showed that there was residue in the uterus. It is recommended to clear the palace.
The shadow of natural labor has not passed, and it is going to be on the operating table again. Of course I refused. My attending doctor advised me for a long time and mobilized my family to advise me that the residue would cause massive bleeding, which was particularly dangerous.
However, I was too scared at that time and decisively refused. My parents and my husband may be too afraid to meet me, and have never encountered anything similar, so they let me.
So, the hospital asked me to sign a disclaimer, which means that I voluntarily don't clear the palace, and any problems have nothing to do with the hospital.
However, after signing the disclaimer, the doctor still prescribed me many medicines, such as motherwort granules, such as biochemical soup, and told me to drink the medicine well, expecting the residue to be discharged automatically. So, for a whole month, I have been drinking all kinds of medicines.
Moreover, I went to the hospital for two B-ultrasound before giving birth. You know, it was the coldest January of the year. I wrapped it up like a ball, went hopefully and came back disappointed. Every time I checked, there was still something left.
More than 50 days after delivery, lochia is still endless, and the medicine has not stopped. One afternoon, I suddenly had a terrible stomachache, as if I had given birth to a child. The pain stopped for a while and I began to bleed profusely.
My husband was away at that time, and it was just me and my mother at home. I'm afraid she'll be scared. I'm hiding in the bathroom alone and I'm speechless. Later, I thought I wanted to go to the bathroom. Then in the next ten minutes, I "produced" two pieces of flesh and blood just like giving birth to a child.
Since then, my stomach has magically stopped hurting.
My mother thought it was wrong, so she fished out the two pieces of flesh and blood from the toilet with chopsticks. They are round, and the eggs are big and hard. She cleaned it for me and put it in a fresh-keeping bag. I took him to the doctor, who said he might have been discharged.
I checked the B-ultrasound again, and the palace was really clean.
In this way, my nightmare is over. However, this matter has always been one of my shadows.
I wrote this story to remind other natural mothers that if there is residue like me in the harem, don't hesitate to go to the Qing Palace, which is really dangerous.
Later, my mother cried when she mentioned it, saying that she was particularly scared, because the amount of bleeding I had at that time was really terrible.
Having sex for the first time after childbirth should be my biggest shadow. Not only are there many conditions, but some conditions are also annoying. I hope that all treasure moms will be prepared!
How many people, like me, are eager to share a room after childbirth, but they have no interest at all. Not to mention that I haven't fully recovered after delivery, I am the 24-hour full-time nurse of this grinding leprechaun, and I am still busy feeding the children, changing diapers, washing clothes and a series of things during the day. Don't let Ma Bao have a good sleep at night, and always be vigilant for fear that the child will wake up hungry or pee. Get up earlier than the chicken and go to bed later than the dog every day. How can you have the time and energy to share a room?
What happened in the first room after delivery that cast a shadow on me?
Changes in hormone levels.
Most mothers who gave birth to babies were hurt, and problems such as urine leakage, slow wound recovery, hemorrhoids, postpartum obesity, hair loss and so on followed. Physical fitness is much worse than usual, and I can't cooperate with Bao Dad very well in many cases.
In fact, the bigger reason is that the hormones in the postpartum body have changed a lot, and estrogen will be reduced to a certain extent. So when you are in the first room, the secretion is less and it will become drier than usual. In particular, mothers who give birth naturally will not only encounter relaxation problems, but also be prone to pain. (comparable to the pain of giving birth)
2. Female discomfort
Some treasure mothers will leave a tear mark when they give birth to their children, and their sensitivity will be greatly reduced or reduced when they are in the same room, and their natural pleasure will be greatly reduced, even from the heart!
Moreover, some precious mothers will have the idea that it is inconvenient to share a room because of breastfeeding. One carelessness may lead to Bao Ma's psychological shadow.
3. Psychological changes
After giving birth to the baby, the pregnant mother will suffer from her own physical, recovery and physical problems, and the mother of caesarean section will bear great psychological pressure because of the scar on her stomach, and even seriously resist sharing the room with Bao Dad.
At the same time, because of the baby's birth, Ma Bao will put most of his energy on the baby. At this time, Ma Bao will easily feel physically and mentally exhausted. Even when she is in the same room, she will worry about the baby's sleep and feeding. So it is easy to fail for the first time after delivery.
What should we pay attention to in the first sexual intercourse after childbirth to avoid these situations?
1. Pay attention to the time of postpartum sex.
Ma Bao had better not share the same room in the second month, after all, Ma Bao's body has not fully recovered during the period of just giving birth to a child. Moreover, there will definitely be lochia at this stage of confinement, which is easy to cause some inflammation.
It is recommended to share the rent after 42 days, and there will be a review after 42 days. If you recover well, you can share a room. After all, for the sake of health, I believe Bao Dad can understand!
It is necessary to have contraception in the same room during lactation to avoid pregnancy again. If you come to menstruation just after a month, you are more likely to get pregnant. Ma Bao must pay more attention!
2. The time for housing allocation should not be too long.
When having sex for the first time after childbirth, the movements should be as gentle as possible. And the time should not be too long, so as not to affect mother's rest and consume too much energy. Be sure to caress more, otherwise it will easily hurt the recovering mother and bring pain and psychological shadow to Ma Bao.
Baoda should know that 20-30 minutes at a time is appropriate. Too long will do great harm to Ma Bao's health.
3. Don't push too hard
Dad Bao, don't push too hard, but move gently. This is because Ma Bao has just given birth to a baby, and her body has not fully recovered. There may still be wounds that have not healed, and they will be dry and fragile. At this time, if Bao Dad is not careful, he may hurt Ma Bao's unhealed body again!
First, hemorrhoids. I have never had hemorrhoids before. I didn't know what it was at first, but I thought I had something. Second, leaking urine, this is really a long story. After giving birth to Dabao, laughing or coughing will leak urine. After giving birth to Bauer, the effect of postpartum repair is somewhat effective but not obvious. Third, I had an analgesic injection in labor. Damn it, does it really have analgesic effect? I can't stand up straight for at least two months, and it's hard to stand up.
The baby is two and a half years old and still stays with me. What may accompany me for the rest of my life may be urinating [vomiting blood], skipping rope, coughing and sneezing. Don't bother, I'll go. If I want to sneeze, I will stop and pinch my legs to avoid exposing urine. If I don't come, I'll leave. That must be urine. I wonder if anyone else has peed. I still pee anyway.
In addition to dew urine, my stomach is still a flower, just turned into a white flower, but it is still obvious. According to others, this may never be eliminated. Husband talks about his stomach and doesn't show it to others. I don't hate you. What's the matter? But I'll read it myself. Ugly, ugly.
The third is hemorrhoids. Now if I just squat down, a big piece of meat will come out. My husband always asks me to cut [hematemesis], but I won't cut it anyway, because when I was a child, my brother cut hemorrhoids and went home to lie in bed screaming in pain [I want to be quiet], so I won't suffer that crime. My hemorrhoids are external hemorrhoids, except for spicy food and constipation. Other times, it doesn't matter, it doesn't hurt or hurt.
There is also the pain of childbirth, sour and refreshing, and when you go to the delivery bed, the doctor wants to shit but won't let you. It's hard to hold back like that. I don't want to go through it again in my life. That's enough. There's only one left. Why do you need so much? This is the understanding that my husband and I reached [laughs].
I helped my wife answer that she had just given birth to Bauer, and the hemorrhoids were fine. She was annoyed two days ago, and then the baby was sucked by breast milk to chapped nipples. She bought Lanshino nipple cream, and it's better now. Under my comfort, she didn't force breast-feeding. If she had, she would feed it. If she doesn't have me, she can't make adults suffer. The baby is hungry, too. She is old and her health is not as good as when she was young. She does not insist on breast milk.
One-child delivery, two-child delivery and three-child delivery have all been tried. I think delivery is much better on the whole. You can get out of bed without lateral incision after giving birth, and you won't have backache in the future, except for a little lateral leakage, but your recovery is not slow in the later period, and there are hemorrhoids [giggle]. Pay attention to a light diet, and you will do it gradually in the future.
As for caesarean section, it's really hard. After planing the catheter, it can't be pulled out until the next day. That smell is really unpleasant. You can't eat until the catheter is discharged. You can discharge lochia according to your stomach and press it hard on the knife edge. That's sour [shocking] [shocking], too painful! Press it four times a day! Also let me get out of bed and walk, dare not straighten my waist [cover my face] [cover my face], the knife edge will hurt! I can only bend down and let others help me walk! Out of the month, playing anesthetic there, all kinds of backache! I can't do any work! Leaving sequelae will hurt your back from time to time!
Abdominal uterus also has scars, and there is a danger of uterine rupture after pregnancy!
So don't give birth unless it's unnecessary! Don't be afraid of pain. It hurts for a few hours after you open the bone seam, and then there is nothing. I can't afford to hold it after giving birth! It's even more harmful to the body, breaking seven layers, which is too harmful to the body!
I have two babies, both of whom were born naturally. It is said that natural delivery is easier than caesarean section. Actually, it's not at all Especially after childbirth, there are more things to face. The most serious is pelvic floor muscle. Pelvic floor muscle is the most seriously injured place during natural childbirth. When the pelvic floor muscle is the most serious, it is particularly easy to leak urine. Sneezing or jumping will leak urine The key is still uncontrollable.
Let's talk about our pelvis. Because the uterus is open to the fingers to give birth, our pelvis is open. In addition, holding the baby to the ground too early after giving birth will cause pelvic deformation, such as pelvis leaning forward or backward. If your pelvis is injured, you are particularly prone to backache and straighten up.
There are also mothers whose stomachs are as big as when they were pregnant, and they can't go back. That's because when we were pregnant, our rectus abdominis was separated. Only when the rectus abdominis was separated, the baby had a place to move, so we had to repair the rectus abdominis.
The mother who gave birth to the baby only needs to do the last item, such as low back pain and urine leakage, which are the patents of the mother who gave birth to the baby. To all the great mothers, you have worked hard.
In the late pregnancy, the baby grows too fast, oppresses the bladder and begins to leak urine. At first I thought it was because the toilet was too slow. Every time I want to pee, I immediately run to the toilet. Because I still work in the company, it is about 20 meters away from the toilet. By the time I went to the toilet, my underwear was a little wet. Not only that, I feel unclean [tears] [tears] [tears] every time I finish urinating. I had no experience at first and thought I had something wrong. I went back to get my mobile phone Baidu and found that this situation is very common. Slowly began to accept urine leakage in the third trimester. I thought to myself, anyway, it's almost there. It's good to have it. Keep it up. As a result, urinary leakage still exists within a few months after delivery. I don't know how long it took. A year later, I found that my body recovered and I no longer leaked urine.
Out-of-control diet or excessive nutrition intake in the third trimester leads to sudden weight gain in seven months 18 kg. Well, this is the weight gained this month. In fact, the stretch marks were found suddenly. I'm glad I don't have a long line. I woke up one day and found traces where my thighs and stomach were pressed. I began to think that my legs and stomach were pressed out. Later, after careful observation, I found that there was a long queue [sobbing], and the whole person was stunned. At that time, the first picture in my mind turned out to be: finished. I started getting tattoos before I wore a beautiful navel dress. I will never have a chance to experience my youth again. Later, there were more and more lines, and the lines were out of control, just like cracks, which felt concave and convex [covering your face]. After delivery, I lost nearly 30 Jin of meat at once, and my stomach was as loose as a balloon. This incident made me feel inferior for a long time, and I was afraid to look down at my stomach at that time. Now because of losing weight, it's not so obvious, but it can't fully recover.
I've been planning to have no pain before giving birth. The plan can't keep up with the change, and there are not enough anesthesiologists, because it happens to be the weekend. On weekends, there is only one anesthesiologist running between the operating table downstairs and our delivery room. I just happened to open my finger when the anesthesiologist was on the operating table. When he finished the operation. I'm almost full. [Tears streaming down my face] I have been a pain-tolerant person since I was a child. The small wound hurts badly. There are many pregnant women in the waiting room. I didn't hear their shouts, but I heard me whining there. It hurts so much that I want them to cut me open [cover my face]. The doctor has been patiently calling my name, comforting me and coaxing me to breathe smoothly. Fortunately, it didn't take long to give birth. Having said that, I have to boast that the medical staff in Qilu Hospital have a good attitude. I sincerely suggest that friends should have painless childbirth, and those who are afraid of pain should never try that kind of pain. It's unforgettable. According to a friend who called, the pain after painless is within the tolerable range and does not affect production.
After giving birth to a child, I recovered for five months and never dared to live as a husband and wife.
1. is the pain of giving birth to a child, afraid of accidental pregnancy.
2. I always feel that the bottom has not recovered well, and I always feel nervous. I can't tell you how I feel. I feel sick everywhere.
It was not until seven or eight months later that psychological and physical conditions slowly returned to normal.
These are some of my influences within one year after natural delivery. There should be individual differences, don't worry too much. After a year of natural delivery, except for weight, the body has gradually recovered.
Feeding, it hurts too much [covering your face]