Many people say that people in the circle of friends or Weibo bask in their babies every day, but obviously the babies are not good-looking. They still bask in it from all angles and at all times, and sometimes others can't stand it. Some people even say, I don't know if my baby is ugly or not, but it's still sunny!
People who talk like this, I think, have never been parents. Parents, especially mothers, will automatically shield their children's external shortcomings and enlarge their own advantages. China has a saying that children are their own good, and wives are others' good.
Loving young is not a human patent. Many animals also love their children, which are manifested in protection, feeding and emotional attachment. This is the result of evolution, right? If you love enough, you will take care of and protect your offspring, let the children grow up smoothly, complete reproduction and realize the continuation of genes.
In addition to this instinct of love, people have a more advanced function, that is, aesthetics. The child is chubby and fleshy, with clear eyes, innocence, delicate skin and very cute behavior, so it is very cute, let alone a mother, and others can't help but want to hug and kiss.
Jiang Yang returned to China for the first time after sketching his daughter in The Three of us. On the boat, foreigners watched Baby China in succession. A famous writer also wrote in his own works that children in China, especially those in Beijing, are rare for foreigners. They are chubby and cute in winter.
However, some people don't like children, oppose drying babies, especially those little dolls in the circle of friends, and warn that drying babies may lead to danger.
It's understandable to like your baby, but you really need to be temperate in drying your baby, even if you think your baby is the most beautiful.