Men can't do without these four tricks. People often say that women's hearts are too elusive and too speculative. In fact, as long as you master the right method, it is not impossible to figure out women. Below I will share with you four tricks that men have learned to make women inseparable, and learn them quickly.
Men can't live without these four tricks 1. First, just the right flattery.
Who doesn't like nice words? But everyone knows that there must be an invisible trap in beautiful words. If flattery is improper, it is easy to kiss up to the horse's leg. It's not worth the loss, but it's also a tragic aftermath. The right flattery makes women feel comfortable. There is no purpose in this, and there is no irony or ridicule. It is from the heart, but it is a level higher than the actual situation. Praise is also a technical job.
Second, please don't show any traces.
Women please themselves, that is, women please men. It is not simple material satisfaction for men to please women. Of course, be willing to spend money on women. Also, spending time and energy to accompany without complaining is a sign that men love women. Otherwise, who will spend a lifetime for irrelevant people now? Even if it's for her consumption, it won't leave a trace, and it won't cause the feeling that the rich are throwing money. It can make her accept it gladly without embarrassing her.
Third, disgusting and interesting coquetry
Nausea is fun, that is the mood of life. If you don't play well, you will fall into a cliche. Playing well is a rare art of life. Men are always tough guys, which is nature. But it's always like this Are you tired? Hiding the true heart, and finally hurting the man himself. And women, because they know nothing, can't communicate. Coquetry is not a woman's patent. A man's coquetry can enhance feelings. When love escalates, we share happiness and difficulties.
Fourth, provoke sexy contact
Any feelings must not be written on paper. There must be both spiritual satisfaction and physical contact. But contact is also doing the right thing at the right time and place. Add a condition, the correct meaning. Everyone has a sensitive and rational side. When you are intimate, it is often the sensibility that prevails. If we can turn sensibility into sexiness, everything will happen when we are strong. Otherwise, where can a woman get love? Nothing in the world is difficult for one who sets his mind to it. Love is as simple as that. ...
Men learn these four tricks, so women can't live without them. Method 1: Learn to seize opportunities.
When chasing girls, we must grasp the moment when girls are prone to feelings, so that we can get twice the result with half the effort.
1. When girls are alone with you, the opposite sex will attract each other. When she is in a good mood and relaxed, she usually doesn't hide her true feelings. Agree if you like it, and give good cards if you don't like it. So you should seize the opportunity for two people to get along alone, be proactive, and your feelings will often make unexpected progress.
2. Girls are generally tired at work, encounter special difficulties, and are prone to fatigue when falling in love. They are more susceptible to emotions and need warmth very much. At this time, you can care more about her, and she will feel psychologically dependent on you.
When a girl is easily out of control in a strange environment, her inner world is deeply attached, and it is easy to have a good impression. At this time, fear can narrow the psychological distance between you, and she will be more dependent on you.
Method 2: Learn to chat online and during dating.
Chatting is the best way to communicate with each other. The heartbeat begins with chatting, and we get to know each other step by step and fall in love. But because many boys are introverted or can't find a topic, girls will only say: mm-hmm, hehe, well, if this is perfunctory, the relationship will stay in the friendship zone forever. So what should we do?
Online chat skills:
1, learn to spread your thoughts. For example, if you see a girl who often takes photos of food, it shows that she is interested in food. You can imitate the photos of her eating to show that you like her, or you can ask her what she likes to eat to start a conversation. If she is interested, is it still difficult to ask her out?
2. Change the chat frequency and actively end the chat conversation. Show your high-end life through a circle of friends or take photos with other girls, pretending that girls are curious without you.
Chatting skills in dating:
1, according to the girl's dress and body decoration on that day. Knowing open questions and finding topics from hot information can not only show your taste, but also attract girls. For example, do you like watching movies? I like watching the ultimate agent. . . . . .
2. Prepare humorous stories to relax the atmosphere, and then tell some of your own past events to lure girls to tell their own past events. When you listen to her carefully, you will increase your goodwill.
Method 3: Play hard to get.
When chasing girls, don't play hard to get. Don't think that if you give her a ride, she will be anxious. Therefore, any of the following conditions must be met before use:
1, she is already interested in you;
2. You have made her vaguely feel that you are interested in her to some extent;
3. You can contact and meet frequently.
So, how to effectively use "playing hard to get"? Then look down.
Number one: make her feel that you don't care about her that much.
1. When chatting with her on the phone, I said to her several times, "Wait a minute, I have a call coming in." Make her think you're popular.
2. suspense. When you are interested in chatting with her, take the initiative to cut off the chat on the pretext of busy work, and don't wait until there is nothing to say.
3. Be late for an appointment on purpose. Call her to wait for you and say that you have work to do.
The second point: give her a sudden "cold treatment"
1. For a girl you just met, you have to walk into her life before you can walk into her heart. You can send her messages, call her and ask her out every day. After a period of persistence, my attitude will change. I won't take the initiative to contact her or send any text messages. Call her directly after a while, and usually you can successfully ask her out.
2, familiar girls, your attitude is cold. For example, you are very enthusiastic when you meet her at ordinary times. Occasionally, when you meet her, just nod gently, ignore her and do your thing.
Method 4: Don't take each other too seriously.
There is a saying: deep feelings are often disappointed, but only fickle feelings will make people forget. Many boys are very concerned about girls' every move when chasing girls. For example, if a girl answers a word a little slower, she will think about it and a series of words will be called out. Maybe the other person just answered a phone call, or maybe something more interesting caught her attention. Therefore, when chasing girls, you must be positive. Never make the following two mistakes:
Mistake 1: Take the other person too seriously, it is easy to collapse and make mistakes. The sadder you are, the more you can't extricate yourself, and you can't make a correct judgment, so the vicious circle develops slowly.
Mistake 2: if you don't get it, you will deepen your investment, but those who invest more are often more vulnerable. If you need her more than the other person needs you, it's really hard for you to catch up with her. So there is a saying that "whoever is serious first will lose."