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Some time ago, the National Bureau of Statistics of the United States released a set of survey data about the total labor force and the labor participation rate of all countries: China ranks first in the world in total labor force.
What makes people all over the world feel incredible is that the labor participation rate in China has reached 76%, that is to say, for every 10 people in China, 7.6 people go out to work. You know, the labor participation rate in the United States is only 65%, Japan is only 58%, and India, which is also a populous country in Asia, is only 55%. The people of China are indeed the most industrious people in the world.
Another set of data is: In China, the probability of women participating in labor reaches 70%.
How severe is the 70% female labor participation rate? You know, the labor participation rate of French men is only 62%! The female labor participation rate in New Zealand is 60%, France is 50%, the United States is 58%, Japan is over 30%, and India is only 28%.
Compared with women all over the world, women in China are "fighters" among women. Undeniably, in employment, economy, family and education, women in China show amazing stubbornness with weak shoulders.
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With a 70% female labor participation rate, how tired are women in China?
In 20.3% families, women do all the housework;
4 1.7% families, women undertake most of the housework;
Only 22.4% of families can share housework equally between men and women;
However, only 10.4% of families have men who do most housework.
In most of China's family concepts, whether the family is neat or not directly represents whether a woman is diligent or lazy. However, doing housework has never been a criterion to judge whether a man is valuable or not. Even many mothers-in-law and husbands use the wonderful reason that "men have to do great things" to avoid doing housework with peace of mind.
You know, in some European and American countries, if a woman goes out to work and undertakes most of the housework, it will be considered very worthy of respect and praise. But in China, this is just the norm. Although Japanese, Korean and Indian women also undertake most of the housework, the labor participation rate is far lower than that of China women.
In raising offspring, 9 1. 1% women think that they have taken on half, most or even all the responsibility of caring for children.
In terms of children's education, the father is not completely absent, just intermittent and temporary, well, you know.
Parents' group, school newsletter, parents' meeting and school activities are almost occupied by mothers. Accompany with homework, interest classes, crafts, play and chat. After several years, it is not easy to evaluate children's learning. Mother is proficient in piano, chess, calligraphy and painting, and the three-character classics of The Book of Songs and The Analects of Confucius come with her mouth open.
But even if they are "very tired", more than 70% of women in China still want to take care of their career and family.
According to a study by the Work-Life Policy Center in new york, 76% of China women want to hold senior management positions or the highest positions in companies, but only 52% of American women have this idea.
It is no wonder that Hurun Report published the list of self-made women rich in the world for 20 17 years. Among the 88 women rich in 12 countries, China women accounted for 56 seats, accounting for 64%, ranking first. Among the former 10 self-made rich women, China women accounted for 6 places, accounting for the top 3.
China women are really hard to deal with!
The company requires women to be independent, brave, confident, careful, dare to challenge, creative and practical. The husband asked his wife to be gentle, considerate, hardworking and virtuous, and to get out of the hall and the kitchen. Children require their mothers to be knowledgeable, educated, accompanied and emotionally stable. It is better to have this detailed version of "100,000 Why".
A China woman should not only be a good employee, a good wife, a good mother, a good daughter-in-law, but also a good cook, a good driver, a good financial manager, a good nanny, a good shopping, a good psychological counselor, a good masseur and a good garbage can. She can't wait to work 24 hours a day, bring her own solar charging board, and walk around all kinds of "battlefields" with a full blood tank at all times.
Once there was a quality called "Made in China", but now there is a new spirit called "China Woman". There is a good saying: "Women in China look around. They are the most self-reliant, independent, outstanding, hardworking and hardworking women. They deserve more respect and applause than women in any country. "
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China woman, why do you want to make yourself so tired?
In addition to the objective reality of social and family structure, women have to go out to work and contribute an income, as well as the general improvement of education level, the enhancement of women's sense of independence, their vision is no longer limited to taking care of their families, and the general sense of crisis of many women.
China woman, can you not be so tired?
In fact, women in China are not afraid of being tired, but they are not understood. According to the big data of China people's consumption published by Taobao, women in China spend all their money on children's products, furniture, holidays and family consumption. The most common consumption of men in China is take-away, mobile phones, computers, cars and online games.
Tired women in China spend all their money on children and families, so you may have to think twice about buying a good bag. Working side by side, holding a doll in his hand, doing housework on his back, and dragging a "courageous" husband behind him.
I already feel strong enough, but this can come from the anger of my husband or mother-in-law, "You asked for it!" , will immediately make all the strong and forbearing collapse.
A mother said at the parenting forum: "I'm not afraid of hard work, I'm afraid no one can really understand me." My husband and mother-in-law often complain that I often work overtime and take care of my children too little. My colleagues and leaders often resent my being late, asking for leave and being inefficient. But who doesn't want to be as capable and tireless as Charlie's angels? Sometimes they are really busy ... "
There is a saying in Zhihu: A woman who doesn't shed tears silently in the middle of the night is not enough to talk about life.
In China, many housewives make the greatest contribution to the family, but their family status is not very high. Even professional women who can contribute a lot of income to their families are sometimes in a subtle "weakness" in marriage.
Women in China do everything. What do they want? They may just want a cherished and understanding hug. ...
No one will pay for the happiness of women in China, except themselves. Accept the imperfections of yourself, your partner, your children and your life, and love yourself. This is a symbol of guardianship, leading the happiness that will never expire.
Still have a dream and keep fighting for it. One day, I will shake hands with my tired life and fly to the starry sky on the other side with full wings.
Come on, China woman!