First of all, clarify one thing. Domestic violence has nothing to do with race, educational background and occupation. From a gentle doctor to the son of a prominent family, it is possible to be a domestic violence man. Domestic violence is not the patent of workers and peasants!
There is also a high degree of education, which provides camouflage for domestic violence. Education is not the solution to domestic violence. Men with higher education may be more secretive about domestic violence. To put it bluntly, call out of sight. However, I can still swing my fist. "It's not right to hit people". In fact, people who can't read know it!
Another, the domestic violence man may be a great person in the eyes of outsiders. They are not psychopaths. They only evaluate themselves and think they can do it. Maybe it's the pillow man.
So what kind of people have domestic violence?
First, you can't control your emotions. Be careful not to have a bad temper. I met a man who was yelling at his subordinates a second ago. The next second is affectionate to your lover. Bad temper is his way of dealing with people. It was set up by someone. I am a grumpy person! You should actively obey. It's not that he can't help himself.
Some people look calm. However, body movements betrayed them. For example, a man suddenly pinched a soda bottle. Throw things. Clench your fist. This is his attempt to control himself. However, it did not succeed.
Domestic violence is actually a disease. You will find that living may seem like a trivial matter to others, but now he is furious. A man shouted to his girlfriend, "why don't you open the window?" Why? " Don't open it! Don't open it! As for yelling? In him, as for!
Another point is that he takes domestic violence seriously. There is a tradition of domestic violence in the family. A father who often commits domestic violence is his son's mentor. Many years later, the little boy who was beaten will also swing his fist at his wife and children. In his eyes, this is nothing at all!
For example. When I was a child, my uncle and cousin often took me to target shooting. Touch the gun. Yeah, I'm not calling for anything. A few years later, when everyone was surprised and excited to touch the gun in military training, I was the only one complaining that the gun needed maintenance ... everyone looked askance!
So if you find that your boyfriend often suffers from physical pain when he is a teenager, then be careful!
One more thing, do you get along equally with your boyfriend? Does he respect you? I saw a woman who had two abortions for her boyfriend in one year. If her boyfriend really cherished her, he wouldn't let her suffer so much. Her boyfriend is forty! Not an ignorant middle school student. I know everything about physical health. Just for your own convenience. Think of your girlfriend as ... forget it! I'll stop talking.
Such a girl is still dead set on following him. Pay attention to equality in sexual relations. If the woman is adhering to the attitude of "showing kindness". Then he can do whatever he wants without scruple in the future.
In real life, many girls can't get rid of attractive men with good conditions. Try to please, endure. I think as long as I do well enough, my boyfriend will be good to himself. It will be fine after marriage. I wish I had changed it. He said it wouldn't happen next time. Actually, it backfired
If you are not strong enough, he will control you. He's a wolf! When you are strong, he will be your equal, and he will be a loyal dog. Girls should be especially careful, those attractive men. You should get rid of it. Don't wait until you get married and have children to cry. Why does he always hit me?
Domestic violence men are hateful. But you gave him a chance! Don't tell me you can't live without him. If you are not his relative, he will try. A black eye socket is a month's detention. Our country has laws!
Girls should take care of themselves! Because you deserve to be cherished!