What are the reasons why women don't coquetry?

Why don't women spoil

Why don't women spoil? Many people say that spoiling women is the best life. Spoiling is the exclusive patent of female friends, and there are also many girls who don't spoil in daily life. Let me share the relevant contents about why women don't spoil. What are the reasons why women don't coquetry 1

1. They take on all the housework and don't say a word.

Those women who like to coquetry like to complain when they do a little housework, and also let men do housework by coquetry. Although men also have the obligation to undertake housework, men should focus on their careers, while women should undertake more housework and make time for men to work. Such a family will be more harmonious.

A woman who doesn't like coquetry actually loves men very much. She loves men's sufferings, and it's not easy to understand them. She gradually becomes the "backing" behind men, willingly dedicating herself and being buried by men's aura.

Some women, even if they have to work every day, still undertake housework. Her heart is thinking, "The backbone of a man's family can't fall down. It doesn't matter if he does a little more. Why complain?" But many men don't understand, and they say, "Turn on the washing machine every day, which is also called tiredness?"

A man should cherish a woman who undertakes housework. She has no complaints, not that she is not tired. She is not coquetry, not that she is not bitter, but that she loves you dearly and supports you with her own silent labor.

2. She has a strong working ability and is even regarded as a "female man".

In some families, women actually work hard outside and men take care of their children at home. Or both men and women have jobs, but women's jobs have more status and more income. A family can be happier and earn more and more money only if both husband and wife work hard.

But many men think that women should just stay at home and teach their children, and should not "show their faces". As a result, women with strong working ability are looked down upon, and men really dislike her.

who says that a family means that men are above others and women are subservient to Nuo Nuo? As long as it is for family happiness, it doesn't matter who pays more and who gets less. A woman with strong working ability can help a man to achieve great things. When a man falls into a trough, a woman can also support a family.

A woman with strong working ability would rather sweat than shed tears, but in her heart, she also wants someone to understand. As a man, you should understand her more, support her more and love her, instead of feeling "faceless". Cherish such a woman, the family's income is increasing, and the family's career is booming. Money is a man's greatest face. In front of a woman with strong working ability, men should also learn to "admit defeat". If they lose on the surface, they actually win.

3, always silent, no matter how much suffering, endure it.

In our impression, women are fond of "chattering", or even an image of "bitching and cursing the street". As the old saying goes, "lives of three women", that is to say, women like to talk about right and wrong together and whisper.

A woman who can't coquetry is "a little colder", and she has learned to be silent and patient. She has experienced the ups and downs of her life, either because of love failure, or because of career twists and turns, or being looked down upon, but it has all passed. Her heart was tortured and struggled for a long time, and finally she walked out of the "swamp" of life and looked down on everything.

"A woman's heart is a needle in the sea". A man who really loves her always knows that it is not easy for her to walk all the way, and will take the initiative to care for her, let her heart snuggle together and spend the rest of her life warmly. Cherish the taciturn woman, the family has less quarrels and lives more quietly, but happiness is never less than that of others-no matter how much suffering, the pain will be halved if the husband and wife carry it together.

4. When there is a conflict between husband and wife, she won't be mainly, but she is more determined.

Every family has a hard book to read, and few couples don't quarrel. From the point of view of most families, every time we quarrel, women mainly take the lead, but also through coquetry to alleviate contradictions, so that men's hearts become soft and no longer care about contradictions.

Those women who can't coquetry are always unconvinced. She is very rational and believes in her own ability, so she doesn't want to bow her head. Or, women don't learn to be coquettish, and they are stiff with men. If a man doesn't understand her, then the contradiction will easily turn into a "cold war" and a good marriage will fail.

In fact, those men who are "henpecked" have happier families, and there are always not too many contradictions, and all problems can be solved easily. Husband and wife have to be "soft and rigid" all their lives before they can live in harmony.

Zhu Xiao, a psychological counselor, said: A woman is strong because she doesn't get the protection and care she deserves. A woman who gets full love and security doesn't need to confront the world with a posture of preparing for war, so she will become emotional and soft.

man, don't look at a woman who can't be spoiled with strange eyes. In fact, she also has a soft heart and needs your love and care more. Those women who have never learned to be coquettish all their lives have become stronger and stronger, trying to take on more for men and become a real "wife" for men. What are the reasons why women don't spoil? 2

The society is complicated and people are tired. More and more women choose to be single, and more and more men have to be single, which is too realistic.

It's late at night. You close your eyes, but you are dreaming of another world. The women around me are becoming more and more powerful. Like men, they can drive, earn money, do housework well, cook a good table, and have to carry it themselves when they encounter difficulties. They are a good hand at home and abroad. Even when they encounter physiological periods or illness, everything remains the same, and they all pass through customs from soft women to women.

I suddenly feel that a man is an unnecessary product. When you need his company, he is busy socializing. When he comes back, it's all over. It's not that I don't want to rely on him, but that I have no choice and am used to the pace of life without him.

Modern women are omnipotent, no worse than men. They can shoulder more responsibilities and face bigger things. Therefore, we must love ourselves well, love ourselves again and love ourselves more, in order to be worthy of us like men!

Perhaps this society gives women less and less sense of security. In the past, I felt that sense of security was a promise, a hand to hold when crossing the street. Now, what can give us a sense of security is the wallet and key in our pocket when we go out. The mobile phone is full of electricity,,,,,,, and every woman wants to find a very manly man, only to find that she has become a manly man!

Life is not easy, live happily, and cherish it! I dare not coquetry, because no one is used to it, I dare not cry, because no one coaxes me, I dare not be lazy, because no one gives money. Being strong, independent and struggling is the only choice. Always remind myself that I can't fall, and I must be strong! What are the reasons why women don't coquetry? 3

There is no one who can coquetry, mainly < P > In fact, there are no girls in this world who don't like coquetry, but when you coquetry the person you like but don't get a response, you will be disappointed, and the more disappointed you are, the more mature you will become.

Many times, we are looking for a suitable, tacit and consistent person. Once we talk about love, we will become spoiled, jealous, crying and noisy.

But often in life, if you really pay the wrong person, then your coquetry is melodramatic, your jealousy becomes unreasonable, and your crying becomes the reason for breaking up.

So girls gradually put away all their affections, use their maturity to hide the child in their hearts, and be strong enough to face the world as an adult.

To put it bluntly, you won't be spoiled, but you just haven't met the person who spoiled you as a child.

Being single for a long time makes them learn to be independent

and learn to protect themselves

I believe there are many girls who choose to be single for a long time after breaking up.

A bad relationship will often consume a lot of energy. Once you have devoted yourself to a relationship, you will never want to fall in love again after breaking up.

a friend said that in fact, many girls are pink when they are studying. They are cute, gentle, coquetry and cute. All good times are the dreams of girls in their girlhood.

But the reality is often cruel. Some things can never be decided by yourself. When you are in love, you want the other person to be as tall and big as you think, who will take care of you, protect you, spoil you and love you, but this may not be the case in reality.

You may meet a male chauvinist, you may meet a straight man with cancer, you may have an affair, you may meet Ma Bao, and your devoted feelings are exhausted.

After breaking up, you no longer believe in love and that someone can support, pet, protect and take care of you all your life. You know that you have to open the bottle cap, buy clothes and cosmetics, change the light bulb and repair the water pipe yourself.

Being single for a long time makes you more and more independent and stronger, and you occasionally have teenage dreams in your heart, but when you wake up, you forget them, because reality is forcing you to grow up.

coquetry is acting, and acting is unreasonable

Many girls will generally encounter a problem after talking about love, that is, boyfriends can't tell what is coquetry and what is unreasonable.

Usually, most straight men regard the coquetry of their girlfriends as unreasonable, while girls often feel that their boyfriends can't understand themselves at all.

It's like the most striking cp in Dear Inn, Adi and Ji Lingchen. In the program, Adi always gets angry inexplicably and then gets angry at Ji Lingchen.

Many boys will say that Adi is just being unreasonable and unreasonable. But there are also many girls who say that Adi just expresses a woman's inner emotions. Whether she is acting or coquetry, she just hopes that Ji Lingchen can pay more attention to her, care for her and care for her.

I think Adi is very happy. Although Ji Lingchen can't get her point sometimes, he always admits his mistake unconditionally and coaxes him unconditionally, so that Adi can keep his nature.

In reality, many girls are often not so lucky to meet a boy who coaxed her unconditionally. Slowly, they also put away their own nature and put those works that belong to girls and girls' coquetry in their hearts.

but you have to understand, forcing a girl into a non-coquetry, non-noisy and sensible appearance often leads to only two final results. First, she no longer needs you. Second, she is better than you.

In fact, in a relationship, girls don't want the other person to spend much money on themselves, but more hope that they can coquetry each other, but that they can show them their true selves.