In the process of achieving the goal, there are setbacks, and the following situations can occur: 1. Change the method, bypass the obstacles and choose another way to achieve the goal. 2. If you go beyond the difficulty, modify the goal and change the direction of behavior. In the face of obstacles, there is no way to go and the goal cannot be achieved. People will have serious frustration.
How to deal with setbacks? Difficulties and setbacks in life are inevitable. How can I be strong? ① Vent: If you have pain in your heart, you can choose a variety of ways to vent, such as talking to friends, singing and traveling. Belief and spiritual pillar: strengthen your faith and answer yourself: what is the spiritual pillar of your own survival? Believe that you are a good person and better than others. 3 Responsibility: See your responsibility and know that you are needed. There is no reason to be strong: look at things in nature, no matter how bad, they will survive tenaciously (such as grass, how to trample it, even if it is curved, even if it has only one leaf, it will show a smiling face to the world. ) survival itself is the meaning of life, and there is hope for survival. ⑤ I am strong! Don't respond with negative emotions, don't think about your grievances and activate positive emotions. Let nature take its course 6 Believe in tomorrow: Believe that you will get out of the predicament and tomorrow will be better. I believe that time will heal the wound. ⑦ This is my stage: Difficulties are good opportunities to hone, sharpen and baptize yourself. There is no insurmountable gap and no insurmountable peak. We should work hard with optimism, self-confidence, tenacity and calmness. ⑧ Historical and cultural reference: Read aphorisms and find information about Sima Qian and Han Xin.
Editor of related quotes 1. Running water will only release its vitality when it encounters conflict. -Goethe 2. Every obstacle has a solution-either crossing, drilling, bypassing or breaking through. 3. The difficulty is not terrible. What is terrible is that there is no courage to face difficulties and confidence to overcome them! If there is no wind and sail, paddle hard. Prosperity makes energy idle and useless, so that we can't feel our own power, but obstacles awaken this power and use it. -Hume English 6. The hardships and failures you have experienced are the only way to success. Dare to challenge them and believe in yourself, and you will succeed! -Wang Shaonan Middle School 7. Overcoming difficulties is an opportunity to win. -Churchill English 8. Don't bow your head because of difficulties. As long as we pick up the scissors of our dreams and cut its net hard, we can get out of confusion. At that time, you will find that the sky at that time is particularly beautiful! 9. When a person has the courage to look up from the darkness and walk towards the bright road, there will be no shadow behind him. 10. Short-term setbacks are better than short-term success-Pythagoras 1 1. Every setback or unfavorable mutation carries the same or greater beneficial seeds. 13. I think setbacks and hardships are good opportunities to exercise my will and improve my ability. -Zou Taofen 14. Struggle is a school to master skills, and frustration is a bridge to truth. -Goethe 15. Suffering is the teacher of life, and through suffering, it leads to happiness. -Beethoven 16. A person will always have some rebellious experiences, otherwise he will be unconsciously depressed. People are afraid that they will fall, and others will not fall. —— Guo Moruo 17. Human life is like a flood. Without touching the islands and reefs, it is difficult to stir up beautiful waves.
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-ostrovsky 18. The seeds fell not in fertile soil, but in rubble. Vital seeds will never sigh pessimistically, because they are tempered by resistance. -Xia Yan 19. Even if you fall a hundred times, you should stand up a hundred times. -Zhang Haidi 20. Difficulty and torture are a hammer that hits the blank. What is to be knocked out is fragile iron filings, and what is to be forged is a sharp steel knife. -Chekhov 2 1. Adversity inevitably promotes the development of human wisdom mineral deposits. Powder needs pressure to ignite. -Dumas 22. If we have accepted the worst, we have nothing to lose. Carnegie is 23 years old. There is only one road to the truly great realm of mankind-the road of suffering. -Einstein 24. God has put many obstacles in our way just to strengthen our will. -Tagore 25. Don't be complacent because of good luck, and don't be depressed because of bad luck. A truly strong person is good at finding shadows from prosperity, finding light from adversity, and always calibrating his goals. Ibsen is 27 years old. Life is full of thorns, and the only way we can think of is to quickly cross those thorns. -Voltaire 28. Hope is the faithful sister of bad luck. ——? Pushkin 29. Face adversity bravely. -Horace is 30. All happiness is not without troubles, and all adversity is not without hope. -Bacon 3 1. The difficulty is bullying. The more you fear it, the more it threatens you. The less you look at it, the more respectful it is to you. -Xuan Yongguang 32. No matter when and where, I will never allow myself to feel a little frustrated. Edison 33. With the support of a lofty goal, persistent efforts, even if slow, will certainly succeed. -Einstein 34. Ambition and perseverance are the wings of career-Goethe Since nature has caused different degrees of strength on the earth, it often uses desperate struggles to make the weak no less than the strong. -Montesquieu 35. One of the great advantages of outstanding people is their perseverance in adverse and difficult encounters. -Beethoven 36. At any height, there is nothing beyond human reach. However, if you want to achieve your goal, you must have determination and confidence. -Andersen is 37 years old. Persistence and change can conquer any peak in the world. Dickens 38. The road to art is full of thorns, which is also a good thing. Ordinary people are daunting, except those with strong will. Hugo 39. Advancing towards a certain goal is "ambition", and never giving up halfway is "gas". Together, the two are "ambitions." This is the success or failure of all undertakings. Carnegie 40. All persistence will pay off sooner or later. -Angel 4 1. Steel is tempered by fire and rapid cooling. So we can get hard and not be afraid of anything. Our generation has also been tempered by struggles and terrible tests, and has learned not to give in to life. Ostrovsky is 42 years old. What is a road? In other words, it was trampled out from the place where there was no road, and it was opened up from the place where there were only thorns. -Lu Xun 44. It is only an illusion that we will never experience difficulties and twists and turns and make great efforts, and we will always be smooth sailing and easy to succeed. 45 Mao Zedong. I never knew what depression was. If I fail, I will come back. The future is created by myself. -Xu Teli 46. Nothing in the world is difficult for one who sets his mind to it. A man of will is determined in the afternoon, but he is determined not to be afraid of things. -Ren Bish is 47 years old. When you meet a deep forest, you can turn it into a flat ground. In the wilderness, you can plant trees. In the desert, you can dig Jing Quan. -Lu Xun 48. Suffering and hardship are the highest schools to temper personality. -Liang Qichao 49. Fighting against yourself is the most difficult struggle, and defeating yourself at the same time is the greatest victory. -[Germany] Rollo 50. What I advocate in my life is life, and I must have a positive attitude towards people. -Gorky 5 1. Suffering is a kind of test, a kind of tempering, and it is to grit your teeth and dig out the stain on your mind. -Ba Jin 52. Difficulties should be overcome by ourselves, and obstacles should be broken through by ourselves. There is no word "difficult" in my dictionary. Napoleon 53. What is valuable in life is not the beauty of life, but the bitterness of life. Hardy 54. For those who are willing to struggle, struggle is not a pity, but a pleasure. Thomas is 55 years old. One of the great advantages of outstanding people is their perseverance in adverse and difficult encounters. -Beethoven 56. Failure may be a disguised victory; The lowest tide is the beginning of the high tide. Longfellow is 57 years old. When encountering setbacks and difficulties, we need to maintain an optimistic and healthy attitude. Zhou Haizhong
Gui Youguang, an Amin, failed to compile the series for 8 times, enrolled students in Jiading, and still studied hard, and finally wrote 40 volumes of Selected Works of Zhenchuan. Li Shizhen, a famous medical scientist who failed the list three times, made up his mind to become a doctor. After 27 years of hard work, he wrote the medical masterpiece Compendium of Materia Medica. Cao Yu, a playwright who failed three times, was bent on becoming a doctor when he was young. After failing to apply for Beijing Medical College, he actively participated in drama activities, read a lot of European and American literature and drama works, and learned to make influential works such as Thunderstorm and Sunrise. Lincoln was born in poverty. Lincoln faced setbacks all his life, losing eight elections, failing in business twice and even having a nervous breakdown. Many times, he could have given up, but he didn't, and it was because he didn't give up that he became one of the greatest presidents in American history. The following is Lincoln's resume before he entered the White House: 18 16. His family was driven out of their place of residence and he had to work to support them. 18 18 years, my mother died. 183 1 year, business failed. 1832, running for state legislature but losing! 1832, I'm unemployed, too. I want to study in law school, but I can't get in. 1833, he borrowed money from his friends to do business, but went bankrupt at the end of the year. It took him 16 years to pay off his debts. 1834, I won the re-election of the state legislature! 1835, when he was about to get married after his engagement, his last wife died and his heart was broken! 1836, he had a complete mental breakdown and was ill in bed for half a year. 1838, trying to become the speaker of the state legislature failed. 1840, failed to become an elector! 1843, I lost the parliamentary election! 1846, participated in the parliamentary election again and was elected this time! Go to Washington, DC, and the performance is very wonderful. 1848, seeking re-election of members of Congress failed! 1849, the land director of his own state was rejected! 1854, he lost the election of the United States Senate! 1856 won less than 100 votes in the vice presidential nomination at the National Congress of the Communist Party of China. 1858, he ran for the United States Senate again and lost again. 1860 was elected president of the United States. Whitman's Poems Whitman, an American poet, wrote a collection of poems, Leaves of Grass, all his life. No one bought this collection when the first edition was published, and only 1 1 people bought it when the second edition was published. But he didn't lose heart. He has enriched this collection all his life. In the past decades, the number of poems has increased from 12 in the first edition to 396. Twenty-five years later, an American publishing house published this collection of poems, which was snapped up and reprinted constantly. [2]? Lloyd's Insurance Company Lloyd's Insurance Company of England once bought a boat from the auction market. The ship was launched on 1894, encountered icebergs 138 times in the Atlantic Ocean, hit rocks 1 16 times, caught fire 13 times, and the mast was broken by the storm 207 times. However, it never sank. Lloyd's Insurance Company finally decided to buy from the Netherlands and donate it to the country based on its incredible experience and considerable premium income. In 20 13, the ship docked at the national ship museum in Salem, England. However, it was a lawyer who came here for sightseeing that made this ship famous in the world. At that time, he had just lost a lawsuit and his client committed suicide not long ago. Although this is not the first time that he failed in his defense or committed suicide, he always feels guilty whenever such a thing happens. He doesn't know how to comfort these people who have suffered misfortune in business. When he saw the ship in the Salem Ship Museum, he suddenly had an idea, why not let them visit the ship? So, he copied the history of the ship and hung it in his law office together with the photo of the ship. Whenever a business client comes to him for defense, he doesn't care whether he wins or loses, and suggests that they go to see the boat. It lets us know that no ship can sail at sea without injury. Papermaker In Germany, when a papermaker was producing paper, he accidentally made a mistake in the formula and produced a batch of unwritten waste paper. Therefore, he was fired by his boss. Just when he was frustrated and sad, one of his friends advised him, "Everything has two sides. You might as well look at it from another angle, maybe you can find something useful from your mistakes. " So, he found that the water absorption performance of this batch of paper is quite good, and it can absorb the water on household appliances. Then, he cut the paper into small pieces, named it "absorbent paper" and sold it in the market, which was very popular. Later, he applied for a patent and made a fortune specializing in the production of absorbent paper. One day, a farmer's donkey accidentally fell into a dry well, and the farmer racked his brains to save the donkey. A few hours later, the donkey was still wailing in the well. Finally, the farmer decided to give up. He thinks the donkey is too old to save it, but the well must be filled anyway. So the farmer asked his neighbors for help and buried the donkey in the well together to avoid the donkey's pain. Everyone began to shovel dirt into the well. When the donkey realized his situation, it began to cry sadly. Unexpectedly, it soon quieted down. Everyone looked at the bottom of the well curiously. What appeared in front of them surprised them: when the shoveled dirt fell on the donkey's back, it shook off the dirt and stood on the pile of dirt. In this way, the donkey rose to the wellhead step by step, and was shocked by everyone. She thinks that what children need most now is encouragement and help, not mother's tears. Mother came to Barone's sickbed, took his hand and said, "Son, mother believes that you are an ambitious person. I hope you can bravely walk on the road of life with your own legs! Good Barene, can you promise your mother? " Mother's words hit Barene's heart like a hammer. He threw himself into his mother's arms and burst into tears. Since then, whenever my mother is free, she will practice walking and doing gymnastics for Barene, and she is often so tired that she sweats. Once my mother caught a bad cold. She felt that a mother should not only teach by example, but also set an example. Despite her high fever, she got out of bed as planned to help Barene practice walking. Soybean-like sweat dripped from her mother's face. She wiped with a dry towel, gritted her teeth, and helped Barene finish the exercise plan for the day. Physical exercise makes up for the inconvenience caused by disability to Barene. His mother's example deeply educated Barone, and he finally withstood the severe blow of fate. He studies hard and his academic performance has always been among the best in his class. Finally, he was admitted to the Medical College of Vienna University with excellent results. After graduating from college, Barene devoted all her energy to the research of otology. Finally, I finally got on the podium of the Nobel Prize in Physiology and Medicine. Struggle is struggle. When Zeeman was a child, his consciousness of reading was not high, and his grades were always average. Zeeman's mother was very anxious to see her son's performance. One day, she called her son to her side, looked him in the eye and said excitedly, "Son, I knew you were a mediocre and incompetent person, and you shouldn't have struggled in the waves at the beginning ..." Then, she recalled the past to the silent Zeeman: when Zeeman was about to be born, her hometown was suddenly hit by a flood, and she escaped and boarded a boat. Zeeman was born here. After listening to her mother's memories, Zeeman realized that her mother had experienced difficulties and was deeply shocked. She secretly vowed to study hard and never let her down. Hard work pays off, and he finally won the appreciation of the school with excellent results and was hired as a teaching assistant by the school. When he went to visit his mother in high spirits, she was very ill and dying. Before she died, she looked at Zeeman with affectionate eyes and her lips trembled with difficulty. "Struggle, earn and plunge!" He died suddenly after leaving this last sentence. Struggle is struggle. Struggle, struggle again, not satisfied with the status quo, always struggle. Zeeman took his mother's words to heart. He has been hanging a small golden photo frame embedded with his mother's portrait on his chest. When encountering difficulties and setbacks, he stared at his mother's portrait and recalled her inculcation to increase his courage to overcome difficulties. Zeeman struggles on the road of science, and struggles again! Finally, he reached the peak that ordinary people can't reach. 1902, Zeeman won the Nobel Prize in Physics. I am a pirate, too. One day, while Mrs. Smith was sitting in the doctor's waiting room, a little boy led by his mother went to the clinic and sat in the chair next to her. The little boy caught Mrs Smith's attention because he wore an eye patch on one eye. To Mrs Smith's surprise, the little boy didn't seem to be affected by losing an eye. To Mrs Smith's surprise, it was the little boy who cured her of her psychological disorder. There were too many patients in the clinic that day, and it would take Mrs. Smith a long time to get her turn. Taking this opportunity, she chatted with the little boy's mother, while the little boy played with his toy soldier on the floor alone and looked up at his mother from time to time. Finally, Mrs. Smith found an opportunity to ask the little boy what happened to his eyes. The little boy thought for a long time, then looked up, uncovered the blindfold and replied, "My eyes are nothing! I am a pirate! " With that, he lowered his head and continued to play his game. Mrs Smith came to the clinic because one of her legs was injured in a car accident and was amputated below the knee. She is waiting for the doctor to check whether her wound has healed so that she can put on a prosthesis. Amputation was a great blow to her. She tried to summon up courage and face the reality bravely, but she still felt that she was disabled. Although intellectually, she knew that this amputation would not cause great obstacles to her later life, emotionally, she could never overcome this psychological obstacle. The doctor advised her to try imaginative therapy. She did the same, but she couldn't imagine an emotionally acceptable lasting image. In her mind, what she sees is always a disabled self. However, at this moment, the little boy's sentence "I am a pirate" changed her life. Suddenly, she felt very excited. She seemed to see herself dressed as a pirate, standing majestically at the bow of a pirate ship: her hands behind her back, her legs spread apart-one of them was a wooden leg, her head held high and she was baptized by the storm with a smile. At that moment, the image of the disabled in her mind disappeared without a trace, and she regained her courage. Then, she turned around and looked gratefully at the little boy in front of her-he was still absorbed in playing with his toy soldier. A few minutes later, the nurse called Mrs. Smith's name. When she stood up on crutches, the little boy saw her amputated leg. "ah! "Lady," he cried in surprise, "what happened to your leg?" Hearing her son's question, the little boy's mother felt embarrassed. However, Mrs. Smith looked up at the little boy and smiled and replied, "Nothing, I'm a pirate, too!" " "