Is cold violence a patent for men or do women also have cold violence?

In fact, both men and women have cold violence. ? More often, women can't stand men's cold violence, because women are emotional animals in born to love. Once a man's thoughtfulness and warmth are few and far between, a woman will feel very cold, and then she will think that this is a man's deliberate behavior. ? Generally speaking, cold violence can be divided into these two types:

First, there is no language after seeing through it. That is to say, the other party has seen through the relationship between two people. Either there is no peace, both sides must compromise, or one side must make concessions. If one side refuses to retreat, then embarrassment will arise and the cold war will begin. ? Second, hold other people's emotions and become the winner of feelings completely. In this case, it is usually absolute harm, even if there is no obvious trace, but this torture is very hurtful. If you really love, you can't bear to do so; Not enough love, so playful and casual. ? No matter what kind of cold violence, how to deal with it, do not hurt yourself, and bypass the intentional or unintentional injury of the other party is the correct way. So is there any good way? ? The fastest way to solve the cold force is this.

First, change your personality, try to be humorous, have some fun for yourself, and try not to always rely on each other mentally. ?

Second, reduce disputes. After all, when two people get along, it is inevitable that there will be contradictions and running-in. Less care, less competition and more understanding. ? The ultimate goal of love is not to win, but to win and fulfill. ?

Third, actively participate in society, including socializing, work, hobbies, and so on. Try not to stare at each other all the time to find problems. After all, no one is perfect. As long as you want to find fault, you can find it. Don't make your life too monotonous, so there will be no so-called cold violence. ? When your heart is full enough, no matter what people around you are like, they can't take you as anything, but be influenced or influenced by you. Only people with strong hearts can reconcile with each other.

Sometimes, cold violence only happens when you are angry, impatient and wronged, and the time may be long or short.

Cold violence appears for a short time, and it is easy to be ignored or even unconscious, but it may happen again next time, so this repeated cold violence is also lethal.

This unstable situation will make the other party feel confused and don't know what attitude to respond to you.

After a long time, their relationship will feel awkward and awkward, hovering between closeness and alienation.

Usually, we say that cold violence is a conflict between husband and wife, and this way everyone adopts is avoidance, indifference and alienation.

Then this problem continues to be presented in this place, and it is not solved, so the purpose of not solving it is actually to solve it.

Of course, cold violence not only happens between husband and wife, but also may happen to other close people, such as parents and children.