After reading 1 the happiness of being scolded
On the eve of National Day, I borrowed a stack of books from the librar
After reading 1 the happiness of being scolded
On the eve of National Day, I borrowed a stack of books from the library, mostly essays. There are stunning works by Dong Qiao, Gossip by Zhang Ailing, Leisure is Life by Liang Shiqiu, Seeing Flowers in the Fog by Cai Lan and Essays by Bi Shumin. I made a cup of tea and glanced through it quickly. Inadvertently, an interesting title jumped into my eyes, which aroused my desire to read deeply. That's "Remind Happiness" written by Bi Shumin.
Bi Shumin wrote: In life, we are often reminded or reminded by others, such as paying attention to slipping, being fooled, catching a cold, being safe ... Disaster has become a "patent" to remind people in a caring tone. Many people pay too much attention to the misfortune that didn't happen, but don't pay attention to reminding happiness.
Does happiness also need to be reminded? The author's answer is yes. "Happiness is the tremor of the soul. It needs constant training, just like listening to music with your ears. "
After reading this, my heart is also shaken. Looking back on some times in my life, I often think, if so, how wonderful it would be! Isn't one of the important reasons for these regrets ignored and not reminded?
Happiness is often hazy. When happiness comes quietly, we sometimes can't see clearly or cherish it, and we don't know what we are busy with in a hurry.
Happiness is mostly ordinary. Always remind happiness to find beauty in ordinary life. In the harvest season, remind you to cook a pot of delicious new rice first, instead of keeping it for disaster years; When singing and dancing, please remind yourself to enjoy the beauty of melody and venting, and don't worry about your life when you are old. ...
Happy moments need to remind ourselves and our relatives and friends to enjoy every minute passionately and mobilize existing resources as much as possible for addition. For example, remind me of luxury, remind me of madness, remind me not to economize, remind me that there is no such store in this village, remind me to leave the irretrievable happiness fragment with a camera or words, let happiness accompany me for a long time, and let happiness stay in my chest forever. Wouldn't it be happier!
Let's gradually separate some attention from the inertia of reminding disasters to remind happiness and fully enjoy every moment of happiness.
After reading the second article, the happiness of being scolded.
"Happiness" is what many people pursue. However, people have different understandings of what happiness is. Take me for example. I used to think that Chinese New Year was happiness. I can get lucky money and put on new clothes. You can eat delicious food and visit the colorful Lantern Festival. In short, eating well and dressing well seems to be happiness. In fact, I think it seems too naive, but I always feel a little confused about what "happiness" is. After reading the article What is Happiness, I was very inspired and found the answer.
The story I read is mainly about three shepherds digging a well together. The clever girl thanked them on behalf of the flowers, trees and animals in the forest and wished them happiness. The shepherd said, "What is happiness?" Smart girls let them find out for themselves and meet again here ten years later. Ten years later, three shepherds met at the well as scheduled, and they each told their own views on happiness. Doctors, handymen and those who stay in the village to farm all feel very happy. The clever girl said, "You all know that happiness depends on labor. You should do your duty and do something beneficial to others. "
Hidden in meditation, the wise girl revealed the true meaning of happiness, clarified the fog of my thoughts, and felt ashamed of her past naivety and ignorance. I used to think that eating well and dressing well was happiness. Is Jia Baoyu, a luxurious woman in A Dream of Red Mansions, happy? The answer is no, he finally found that kind of "happiness" with difficulty and finally gave up becoming a monk. Is it necessary to be unhappy if you are poor without food and clothing? Martyr Fang Zhimin lived a poor life for the revolution, but in the article "Lovely China", he said that his life was very happy.
I thought it over and over again and finally realized a truth: the outlook on life determines a person's view of happiness. How to treat happiness depends on what kind of person we want to be and how to spend our lives.
This book not only made me realize what real happiness is, but also made me clear how I should go in my future life.
The happiness of being scolded after reading the third article.
Recently, I just watched Tao Jixin's Be a Happy Teacher, which contains three lectures, namely, Reading and the Growth of Teachers' Life, Managing a Happy Life and the Spiritual World of Confucius. At first, I felt a kind of peace of mind and the improvement of my soul. After reading it, I can't help thinking, what is education? What is a happy teacher?
I have been a teacher for fourteen years and have been thinking about what the healthy development of students depends on. Obviously, our achievements are not all, because our survival as adults depends on our comprehensive quality and ability; It's not grades, and obviously it's not right, because grades are a stepping stone. Without excellent grades, it is impossible to improve the starting point of life. After reading the book "Be a Happy Teacher", I realized the importance of education for students and schools. School education and family education should not only pay attention to students' grades, but also pay attention to the improvement of their comprehensive quality and ability. It is one-sided to go straight to the weakening of grades and improve students' comprehensive quality ability. It is also one-sided to say that quality education is not about grades. The essence of quality education is to pay attention to life health, life happiness, life happiness, life habits and students' life development!
? To be a happy teacher, regarding the learning environment where teachers and students get along, I think the most important source of teachers' professional happiness is the success of students and their sincere return to you. Many unfavorable factors that affect teachers' professional happiness can be compensated by students' respect, understanding and gratitude to teachers. But in order for students to appreciate you, you must learn to appreciate, care for and respect students. It is not easy to really do this, but if you only know authority, then maybe you will be farther away from happiness. While emphasizing the importance of family education, it is pointed out that teachers and parents are the guides for students' healthy growth. "How far a person can go depends on who he goes with." Teachers and parents always have the same expectation for students' growth, so home-school education should be harmonious. Only harmony can produce * * * vibration, and only * * * vibration can have the greatest possible generation. Therefore, teachers blame students, parents blame children, teachers blame parents, and parents blame teachers, which are not conducive to the healthy growth of students. When you learn to praise students, parents, teachers, children and schools, we should give full play to praise and practice it!
Teacher Tao Jixin's book "Being a Happy Teacher" really made me realize and learn the knowledge and methods that many teachers should have, and gave me an attitude towards education, society and life, and an optimistic and positive working attitude towards being a person, which is of too much help to the children around us, paying attention to their hearts, respecting their personality and cultivating their self-esteem. So I think this book will help our teachers to increase their knowledge reserves and enhance our interest in learning. Respecting children's learning environment has become the main theme of quality education and the urgent task of education reform. As long as the teacher is caring, attentive everywhere, starting from the micro, and raising the tree of children's self-confidence, then our students are all plastic talents, as long as we carefully care for each tender seedling with all our love. As long as there is sunshine of love, as long as there is rain and dew of love, one day, every young plant will become a towering tree. That was the happiest time when we were teachers!
After reading the fourth article, the happiness of being scolded.
There is such a power in the world, great and ordinary, far-reaching and close. Do you think it is far? In fact, it's right beside you ... like to moisten things quietly, like mountains and rivers forever, and love them deeply with few words.
Failure in starting a business, wife leaving, unpaid rent ... All these painful experiences come from an inspirational film-The Pursuit of Happyness. And these pains are fate as a prank on men. You know, this is enough to crush the confidence and love of every ordinary person for life. But he has a son who just went to kindergarten. Perhaps, I really can't deeply feel the difficulty of pretending to be optimistic in front of others when a person is in a trough. But despite this, the man never complained to innocent and lovely son about half a mouthful of bitterness.
He knew that he was his son's only support. If he loses confidence and motivation, who will save the family?
This man is a good father. He loves his son very much. There is always a fragment in my mind. When the father and son came to the shop, the man was about to leave, only to find his son staring at a chocolate bar. Although the son didn't make it clear, the child's thoughts were written on his face: he wanted one. Although he didn't have much money on him, the man helped his son realize his little wish. Although this detail is not long in the movie, I feel my son's understanding, the man's love for his son, and the affection between the two characters.
Smile at you, touch awkwardly with rough palms, show clank tenderness, and be tall and strong forever.
Deep fatherly love is an unknown word and an invisible scarred shoulder!
The happiness of being scolded after reading article 5.
Recently, I read a book called Happy Running, which contains many touching stories. Among them, the most touching and unforgettable thing is the rose that never fades. Cheng Qian, the protagonist in the book, endured the pain and told stories to other patients, hoping to help them alleviate their pain. Although she couldn't go to school because of illness, she continued to write stories without interruption. If it were me, I might not be able to stand it any longer. Besides, Cheng Qian is still a girl, and her tenacious spirit makes me feel ashamed.
Cheng Qian devoted her short life to writing stories, which deeply touched a child who was addicted to the Internet. The child finally got rid of the bad habit of surfing the internet. He changed from an internet addiction child to the top three students in the city. Cheng Qian's strength is powerful, and she deeply infected many people. I have read books written by Cheng Qian, such as The Adventure of the Gourd, The Story of the Bug, No Curtains in the Second Half and Kind Sasha. I believe that everyone who has read her book will be moved by Cheng Qian, and everyone hopes that Cheng Qianneng will keep writing, but unfortunately, Cheng Qian passed away on March 26th, 20xx. Although Cheng Qian is gone, her spirit of never giving in to fate and striving for self-improvement will remain in our hearts forever.
After watching the joy of running, we should reflect on ourselves. Parents have created superior living conditions for us, which we should cherish. From now on, we should try our best to help others and don't bow to suffering easily. We should learn from Cheng Qian and be strong in life.
The happiness of being scolded after reading Article 6.
During the winter vacation, I was fortunate to read the book "Teachers' Happy Life and Professional Growth" written by Xiao Chuan, a professor at Beijing Normal University, which gave me a baptism of thought and sublimated my realm. He used his thoughtful and wise language to give me a lesson about education, career growth, life and happiness, which made me think deeply and benefited a lot.
After reading the section "He and She in the Teacher's Eyes" in the book, I pondered for a long time. People are born with gender-male and female, the physiological gap between the two sexes and the deep-rooted old culture of different treatment between the two sexes. According to this, teachers' different judgments on students of both sexes have influenced the similarities and differences of the development track of study and life of boys and girls, which is the "gender role view".
When I first set foot on my job, I always thought subconsciously that in study, girls' grades depend on hard work, and boys' excellent grades are because they are smart; In the teacher's mind, boys should be brave, straightforward and tolerant; Girls should be careful, quiet and gentle; When there is a contradiction between boys and girls, the teacher's first reaction is always the boy's pettiness. I still remember that at the beginning of school, during the lunch break, two students in the class had a contradiction because of the problem of borrowing fans. The monitor reported the situation to me. I learned that boys borrowed fans from girls, but girls didn't, so they became emotional and even affected their studies. At that time, my handling was rather blunt. Without further understanding of the facts, I directly called the boy to the office, pointed out his mistakes, asked him to reflect and apologized to the female classmates. Indeed, as a new teacher, I am too inexperienced in dealing with student conflicts. I always think that boys should not make girls angry. The fault is always on the boy's side, which makes things worse. After that day, that boy was depressed and listless in my class. Later I learned the truth from other students. This girl often lends stationery to boys, so the boys think they have a good relationship. It should be no problem to borrow a fan on a hot day. The girl flatly refused him and said, "Why should I lend you!" " The boy refused to accept it, so there was an argument. I realized that I was wrong about that boy, and I blushed at once. I asked the boy to apologize to him sincerely, and I asked the girl to tell her the truth of mutual help between classmates, which calmed the storm.
This is a trivial matter, which shows that you are not mature in handling things. After watching the happy life and professional growth of teachers, I know that I am looking at boys and girls with a pair of colored glasses. It is really terrible to make a judgment based on this, and I must reflect deeply. I shouldn't blindly criticize my classmates without knowing the detailed facts, which will seriously hurt their self-esteem. Instead, we should learn about the cause and process of things from two classmates and other students, so that these two students can honestly list their own right and wrong aspects and let them realize their mistakes. In this way, we can roll with the punches and roll with the punches.
"Man's greatest enemy is himself", so we should always reflect on our existing old ideas and change our cognitive bias. Although there are gender differences in human beings, with the progress of society, gender differences have gradually been replaced by personality differences. We pay attention to cultivating students' personality, downplaying gender differences and realizing fairness and justice in gender treatment.
While savoring this book, I checked my works. After reading through, I have a new interpretation of the word "happiness". I put down my books, closed my eyes and let go of my tired body and mind. I finally know why I used to feel so tired at work. It turned out that I didn't have a happy and positive attitude and didn't handle the relationship between work and life well. I often think that "work is for life", but I ignore "work is for life". In the future teaching, I will definitely adjust my mentality to make myself less worried, more happy, less narrow-minded, more open-minded, regard work as an art, and gain more happiness in my busy work and creation, even if there is sweetness in bitterness.
The happiness of being scolded after reading Article 7.
What is happiness? Different people will have different answers. Some people will say that happiness means living comfortably. Some people will say that happiness means being carefree and living the life you want; So what is our teacher's happiness? I think it is the happiest time for our teacher to see the progress of students, the laughter of students and the peaches and plums all over the world.
As a teacher, only when you feel that life is full of hope and sunshine, the working process is a kind of enjoyment rather than a kind of labor, and self-realization is not a simple effort, can he create a classroom full of warmth of life and provide quality education for students. Yes, regardless of too many gains and losses, build a perfect classroom with your heart and build your child's life with your heart. This is the most glorious profession in the world-teacher. Therefore, as a teacher, I am happy.
From the book, I know what job burnout is and find out the reasons for it. Remind yourself to be a busy and happy person. Think about your busy days, with goals, challenges, the joy of success, and the ease of taking time out of work. I am full and energetic every day, and I feel very practical and energetic. So behind the busyness is also a kind of happiness. Yes, "there is hope in the heart and something to do in the hand" is happiness. In the past, I always complained that I was always busy. Always with a kind of expectation, with a kind of satisfaction, with an endless happiness. Imagine that if every day in your life brings an expectation, an effort, an endless happiness and satisfaction, then happiness will always accompany you. Less blame and more tolerance in life; Less emotion, more emotion and gratitude; Then happiness will be closer to you.
? "Teachers' Happy Life and Professional Growth" also introduces many methods of classroom management and class management, telling teachers that a good education requires good communication between home and school, and teachers' excessive physical and language activities will only distract students' attention. Once, I just finished a very depressing class, and physical education class, a junior one, returned to the office. I hung my head and was depressed. The textbook before class made students familiar over and over again, thinking that students would perform well in class, but the result came down. Keep company with such a group of students who don't make progress all day The more I think about it, the more depressed I get. I just lie on the table and don't want to do anything. It has been more than three years since I stepped onto the three-foot platform. I also asked myself, are you happy to be a teacher? Are you happy? The answer is no, at least not yes. The answers of other teachers around me are similar. After reading Xiao's book, the initial bad mood vanished, and the answer to that question in my heart was also found in the book: the magic weapon that can make teachers live a happy life, and the most important thing is our own mentality!
I have students in physical education class, which means that I still have work to do, and there is another unemployed person in the society. Some students fail in physical education, which shows that they still have a lot of room for development. Some students are naughty, which shows that the future pillars of the motherland are expressing themselves in a special way; Some students come to me with problems that can't be solved, which shows that I have gained their trust; Some people criticize me, that is, I am perfect.
In fact, a happy life is very simple, and a perfect job is also very simple, as long as we remember: happiness is a virtue (to be healthy, confident, cheerful, caring, kind and sunny), smiling is a kind of strength (to smile more and set your mind free), singing is the sunshine of the soul, simplicity is enjoyment (less boring entertainment and false politeness), Excellence is a habit, and success is a state of mind (.
The happiness of being scolded after reading Article 8.
? Hug a Happy Bear is the work of Sister Sunshine, but when I finished reading it, I was deeply moved and deeply shocked.
Xu Xiaonian, the hero of the book, suffered a great family change in his childhood, and became a child of a single-parent family, leaving his father and taking his beloved bear with him. Fortunately, however, Xiao nian met Dr. Lin, and the kind Dr. Lin gave her a teddy bear and said to her, "To hug a bear is to embrace happiness." For a little girl who lacked fatherly love since childhood, Dr. Lin's concern and love are so profound and great. I was bullied by my classmates at school when I was discharged from the hospital. This makes me feel so strongly about Dr. Lin. Huo Yuxin, who has been helping to encourage her, will also leave her. Xiao Nian's mother's bear painting class has just changed Xiao Nian's family. Unexpectedly, her mother was framed by teacher Pei again, and then she was amputated in a car accident.
The young mind has suffered so many blows and tasted the warmth and coldness of the world. In her young mind, she has experienced too much and suffered too much. I finally understand that Xiao nian has experienced so many misfortunes, but in the end she is full of confidence, courage and happiness, because she has a teddy bear in her heart. I still remember what Dr. Lin said to her: "Holding a bear means holding happiness. You will have many teddy bears and a lot of happiness in the future." Xiaonian has been moving forward with this belief.
If a person wants to get the final happiness, he must be tempered by wind and rain and have an unforgettable experience. Off-year grows up in repeated misfortunes and is strong in repeated hardships. Although each of her misfortunes is so painful and unforgettable, she still wiped her tears in the off-year period. Let unhappiness become the past and happiness become the future. After so many difficulties, I finally had a lot of happiness, just like Dr. Lin said.
The road to growth will never be smooth sailing. We must learn to be strong. Use your own strength to overcome the difficulties along the way, and the door to victory will always be open to the strong in life. Let's work together!