Text | Lu Xixi
Recently, I often hear friends around me say the words "Buddha's work", "Buddha's feelings" and "Buddha's examination".
If you think about it carefully, the meaning of "Buddha" probably means: let nature take its course, let nature take its course, and strive for nothing.
Buddha takes a taxi: it is agreed that the driver can come to the door or take two steps by himself, without saying much;
Buddha is in love: whether you love me or not, everything goes with fate;
Buddhist online shopping: no printing, no bad reviews, no matter how good or bad things are, all orders are accepted. ...
From this perspective, if everyone has a little "Buddhism" in his heart, then the whole world is a world full of love.
But in my opinion, "Buddha" is beneficial as an attitude towards life, but it is absolutely impossible as an attitude towards life.
Buddhist work: do not seek merit, but seek innocence, neither joy nor sorrow, nor anger;
Buddhist exam: before and after the exam, the score depends on providence;
Buddhist life: no struggle, no hurry, no ideal, one day at a time. ...
Mao Mu once said, "I tried my best and lived an ordinary life."
The reality is so heartfelt, you choose Buddhist life, who will kill the demon for you?
Some people may say, "What happened to Buddhism? Life is not just the present, but also poetry and distance. "
The person who sings this lyrics seems to be very Buddhist. In fact, others have already learned 72 changes, experienced 8 1 difficulties and lived an ideal life.
Gao, when he was young, was also a boy who was full of blood and wanted to mix up his personal appearance.
He is not a Buddhist candidate, but a university tyrant. Tsinghua scored 60 points in the college entrance examination and was admitted to the Department of Electronic Engineering in Tsinghua.
Never believe in Buddhism when treating dreams.
After going to college, Gao fell in love with music and wanted to form a band. Unfortunately, he did not get the support of his family. His mother told him, "If you can support yourself, I'll let you drop out of school and form a band."
With this gamble, our fighting capacity will burst:
First, I work as an artist in the streets of Tianjin, but I only earn fifty cents a day. Failed, try again. He took Lao Lang to Hainan to sing, but he was fired a few days later. Still unwilling to give up, they bought a train ticket to Xiamen with what little money they had left.
This time they collaborated on a song "You at the Same Table". Unexpectedly, it worked.
Even if he became famous in one fell swoop, Gao Songxiao never gave up, became a record company and lost money. Make a movie, no one will watch it. Finally, I borrowed money to live, wandered to Los Angeles, and learned my favorite history and humanities. It looks like useless things, but it is these "useless things" that make Gao Made Song Xiao what he is today.
He is like a walking encyclopedia, a folding fan and a cup of tea. He can chat with you from ancient times to modern times to the sea of stars.
Now it seems that only those who have struggled for their ideals and enjoyed the fruits of victory are qualified to write: "Life is not just the present, but also poetry and distant fields."
If you haven't killed a demon, you really don't deserve to live a Buddhist life.
What is the real Buddhism?
In my opinion, it is low desire for material things, kindness to others and competition for ideals.
For example, Tan Zhuo, the actress of Gao Guifei, recently played the role of fire in the story of Yan Xi Palace. She is not a newcomer, but she has been unknown for more than ten years.
Doesn't she have any good works?
That's not true. As early as 2009, she was shortlisted as the best actress at Cannes Film Festival for "A Night Intoxicated by Spring Breeze".
Obviously, he can pursue victory and become a traffic star, but Tan Zhuo just chooses to take his time.
Until recently, she reappeared in our sight.
In Desire for Survival, she plays Sihui, who has to dance in a nightclub to treat her daughter with leukemia.
Tan Zhuo can't dance, so she has to practice hard.
There are three hours a day, and it is completely against the steel pipe to rub the meat. After practicing for a whole month, my legs were all hurt.
In The Story of Yan Xi Palace, Gao Guifei, played by Tan Zhuo, is addicted to drama and wants to sing a song at any time.
One of the highlights is Gao Guifei's singing "Drunken Guifei".
Tan Zhuo couldn't sing opera, so he found a teacher to teach Kunqu opera, and asked the teacher to point out the mistakes every time he finished singing. If you don't do it twice at a time, or it doesn't work, keep practicing.
Until the official shooting day, the teacher went to the scene to guide, but I didn't expect to be completely fascinated by her. The whole clip went in one go, and the director forgot to stop.
This kind of Tan Zhuo has never acted in a bad film, and every work is slow and steady.
Giving up the opportunity to become a traffic star, not being bound by fame and fortune, only competing with ideals, this is the truly well-deserved "Buddha system."
I have met many people who are full of complaints and lead unhappy lives, so they use "Buddhism" as an excuse to muddle along.
Teacher Wu Jun said in the book "Knowledge": "Many people can't become a climate, not because of poor ability and insufficient opportunities, but because they chose a comfortable life too early and stopped running."
My colleague is obviously a girl who calls herself a Buddhist. She never buys famous brands, is not demanding beauty, and has a very easy-going attitude towards her colleagues.
But in just half a year, she graduated from two universities and became the person in charge of three projects of the company.
It was not until a sharing meeting within the company that we knew how much homework she had done behind her rapid rise:
She studied efficiency software in her spare time, and she can finish the work that others need to finish in one day in half a day, with good quality and quantity;
She extensively studies the mode of thinking, others can only ask questions at work, but she can constantly optimize the workflow according to the problems and greatly improve the implementation effect;
She also actively studies the successful cases of her peers, takes its essence and makes up for the shortcomings of the project;
......
Clearly let me understand that Buddhism is by no means content with the status quo, but strive for the upper reaches as much as possible.
Most people don't lack opportunities, but lack the ability to seize them. Make continuous progress and make yourself better and better. When the opportunity comes, you can hold it tightly in your hand.
When it is not a struggle, choose comfort too early to make life more possible.
Whether you are a full-time mother or a white-collar worker in the workplace, whether you are in a high-pressure industry or engaged in a comfortable job, I advise you not to give up improving yourself.
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