If you have a daughter, you should dress her up beautifully and cultivate her into a caring little cotton-padded jacket;
If I have a son, I hope he is handsome, lively and a real man.
However, when the child is born, whether the child is beautiful and handsome, whether he is close to his parents, has nothing to do with the sex of the child, and it depends entirely on your luck. At this time, your understanding of having a boy or a girl has been completely subverted.
First, tossing is not a boy's patent.
Relatively speaking, the intensity of boys' tossing is higher than that of girls!
Because boys are particularly aggressive, possessive and destructive, everyone who has raised boys at home knows that toys are all kinds of cars, knives, sticks and so on. , can make a whole chicken fly a dog to jump. After a period of time, either this one is broken or that one is broken, and we will never see a comfortable and clean environment again.
So having a daughter can avoid this? Don't think too much. When girls are naughty, they will also be tired into dogs and cry with anger. Dad's cigarettes and mom's cosmetics, as long as she can get them at home, are basically quietly destroyed.
Second, there is no gender difference before education.
Whether it is a boy or a girl, as long as they are playing wildly, they won't remember anything. This is a time when children are particularly prone to make mistakes, and it is also an occasion where a lot of education takes place.
Will there be differences in educational concepts between boys and girls because of gender? The reality seems certain. The same mistake is a way of education for boys, but it is another way of education for girls. Parents always instill strength and courage in boys and weak dependence in girls in their inherent concepts. As a result, boys are deprived of their vulnerable rights in the process of growing up, while girls have always been a vulnerable group and have been labeled as needing special treatment all their lives.
Is this fair? Whether boys or girls, there may be some differences in educational methods, but the educational concept should be the same.
Third, how to raise boys and girls
From the point of view of most parents and families, we should allow boys to be vulnerable. Before he really became a man, he was just a child who needed the support and help of his parents and society. I don't object that boys should be strong and brave, but at least give them a little room for weakness and tears. After all, once they grow up, they will be stronger to face all kinds of cruelty in society.
We should also make our daughter stronger. Parents have heard that girls are weak and mothers are strong, but they are not. The premise of this sentence is wrong. When a girl enters the society to survive, don't think about relying on it all the time, because no one can make her rely on it all her life, whether it is her parents, friends or husband. Girls should have the right to control their own lives.
Finally, I want to say that gender does not affect whether you have a boy or a girl. The core is that parents cannot deprive their children of their complete rights in the process of education.