In this life, there is always someone who is always giving you a hard time, but you really want to live with him. Next, I want to provide you with a warm and inspirational diary. I hope you read it carefully and it will help you!
Warm-hearted and Inspirational Diary (1) Haruki Murakami mentioned his view on the one-night stand in Norwegian Forest: it is pleasant as a way to channel lust, but it is unpleasant to break up in the morning. When I woke up, I saw a strange girl sleeping beside me. The room is filled with alcohol, and the bed lamp and curtains are all red and green things unique to the lover's hotel? Then the girl woke up? Touching underwear everywhere, applying lipstick to the mirror and sticking eyelashes, complaining about headaches and poor makeup all make people feel self-loathing and disillusioned. ? So? Sleeping with a girl I don't know, no matter how you sleep, can only be exhausted and self-tired. ?
These words were said by the man Watanabe in the book.
And also Watanabe, with the intimate hostess Naoko? Are you asleep? After that, what did you experience? Never felt intimate and warm? How did Naoko feel after he disappeared? What makes my heart lose something, and nothing can be filled, leaving only a pure hole to be abandoned and my body extremely light? . Until eighteen years later, or? Desperately grasping the vague memento mori, I will always remember her face as long as I have time? .
This is the difference between carnal love and spiritual love. The former is a fast-food vent, and the latter will last forever. The former ended up feeling tired and disillusioned, while the latter left a lasting aftertaste.
Good things always have an aftertaste.
People used to describe good music and say good? The reverberation lingers for three days? This is the highest praise. Although grandiose, it shows the charm and magic of music. On the contrary, if any music sounds euphemistic and melodious, but it doesn't leave any aftertaste, or even makes people tired, it is obviously not good enough.
So is wine tasting. An important indicator to measure the quality of wine is aftertaste. ? Long aftertaste? This is the basic feature of any good wine. The better the wine, the more delicate, round and long the aftertaste will be. About this? Dragon? There are clear standards in West Renye Fang. What about our views on music? Three days without stopping? This romantic exaggeration is different. Serious westerners think that if the taste in the mouth disappears within 10 second after drinking a mouthful of wine, then the wine is not so good. If it lasts for 20 to 30 seconds, it should be good wine. If the aftertaste can reach more than 45 seconds or even 1 minute, that would be great. It must be high-quality wine carefully produced in the bottle.
Food is even more. Chen Xiaoqing, director of China on the Tip of the Tongue, said that good food can soothe your soul, isn't it? Briefly? . Just satisfying the desire of the tongue is the lowest level of food. Real food, after a full meal and a full stomach, should also give you some comfort, so that after a full meal, you will not feel disgusted and disillusioned like the morning after a one-night stand. Food must have a aftertaste. When you eat, you are full and you want more.
Even the process of making delicious food is the same. Nowadays, people use gas to cook vegetables, but they always feel that there is no smell in the firewood pot. One reason is that the heat stops when the gas is turned off. Unlike firewood and coal, when the fire goes out, firewood ash and coal ash are still hot. This slow fire can just bake delicious food. Microwave ovens are even worse. Once it stops running, there is no heat in the cooker, so the food out is even weaker.
Don't underestimate the last remaining temperature. Things are often good and bad in this subtle difference. A little better is much better, and almost is far away.
Back to feelings.
When falling in love, boys send girls home after a sweet date, reluctant to go, boys leave, girls still stand still, their hearts are wrapped in deep affection and rippling gently, and the aftertaste of love is wonderful. In other words, even if we break up, there will be a suitable ending, no fatigue, no embarrassment, no face-breaking. After several years, they will think of each other again, and the pictures in their memories are still beautiful, and the feelings in their hearts are also pleasant. This is more valuable.
The youth school says that life is to let go at the end, but unfortunately, we have no time to say goodbye. Say goodbye well, in order to leave a good face in the end, and after the song, people can still enjoy it slowly. Otherwise, if a relationship ends badly, it will be greatly discounted before it is beautiful.
? Life and movies, winning or losing are all memorable. ? This is what Japanese director Yasujirō Ozu said. That's true. If a movie can't give people a feeling and aftertaste, even if the audience laughs or cries from beginning to end, it's only a short vent. Yes, they have. They can't remember. No matter how high the box office is, they can't win.
Life is even more so. A good life doesn't have to be beautiful and amazing, it doesn't have to be stormy, and it doesn't have to be smooth sailing, but it always needs the meaning of live high, and it needs to shine its own light, so that it can stand the meticulous and long-term taste. Tell your grandchildren when you are old, and let the children praise them from the heart: hey! Great! Even if I don't tell anyone, I don't feel interested. I won't sit in the sun in a rocking chair. Looking back on these 60 or 70 years, I just feel bored.
Aftertaste is an important criterion to measure the quality of a thing. Anyway, if it is really good, it should be after having it, after experiencing it, and after the end, there are still some beautiful things that people can't forget for a long time.
Unfortunately, such good things are getting less and less now. People are in a hurry to eat, love and have no patience. They are not in the mood to taste slowly. This bite has not been swallowed, and the next bite can't wait for their lips. Pigs and pigs eat ginseng fruit. Rough, not only have no mind to create good things worth tasting, but even the good times around you are often disappointed.
Warm-hearted inspirational diary (2) What people on earth hate most is that they like to keep everything on time.
When you are ugly as a child, adults will touch your head to comfort you, and women's universities will only change eighteen times. Being lovelorn since childhood, the song sings that one day you will be sad and will recover after a long time. The work is cumbersome, the figure is bloated, the stock market plummets, and even in the face of things that have nothing to do with feelings such as smog and death, everyone will always habitually say, it doesn't matter, time will make everything better.
Although I don't know where this truth comes from, at least in this interest issue, it really has nothing to do with age. In the traditional concept of China, interest belongs to the patent of adolescence, so the special enrollment leaflets posted in interest classes, children's palaces and commercial centers, like soda water promoted in supermarkets at the end of each month, will be plundered by longwu. On the other hand, the grandmothers' square dances are often unfairly looked down upon and despised by passers-by, and they are still fidgeting when they are old.
The same is true of playing the piano. Children are versatile, but adults are idle.
The same is playing ball. Children exercise and adults waste time.
The same is true of playing chess. Children inspire thinking, while adults are tired of playing with things.
Then, in the increasingly stressful living space, who can still stick to their unique hobbies? Soul walker? Especially precious. They won't shrink back because of people's terrible words, they won't turn pale because of the passage of time, they will never change, and they are so cute that they walk around on the edge of happiness and enjoy it.
Master Pu was the driver of my former boss.
Interest in this matter really has nothing to do with age
But judging from his manners and temperament, most people will never guess what his real occupation is. An old Beijinger, in his fifties, just got a promotion? Grandpa-to-be? Rank, walking is always imposing, talking is also interesting, smiling like a flower. Those who don't know must think that the boss company XX in his TV series is the retired chairman. Because, judging from his usual manners, I can't touch the greasy feeling of any middle-aged uncle at all.
He lives in an alley in Dongcheng District. There is no shortage of green plants in a small room with poor lighting all year round. There was a small gap in the log-colored cabinet. Master Pu deliberately inserted two wool balls, which seemed very funny. It was nothing to play with cats.
One is Tigress, and the other is Dabai, both stray cats picked up two years ago.
I go to his house for dinner and often bask in the sun with Tigress, who is more courageous, under the vines in the backyard. In spring, the sun is soft, and I feel refreshed in under the greenwood tree. Master Pu brought him old Beijing Zhajiang Noodles, which is called a strong fragrance. After careful processing, the noodles mixed with peas, pork belly, ginger rice, sweet noodle sauce and secret hot sauce have the same taste and taste, but the umami taste of different ingredients can be lost in the slightest. I gave Master Pu a thumbs-up and he threw one at me like an urchin? Like+? Proud eyes, and then bowed their heads and stepped on the old sewing machine.
Oh, I forgot to mention that Master Pu has many little-known identities besides his good home cooking.
Interest in this matter really has nothing to do with age
For example: tailor.
When I was young, Master Pu was quite famous in Dongcheng District. Although we don't know his full name, when it comes to the tailor of Dongsi Sitiao, neighbors can call the person who makes clothes Ming Dow. What he is best at is making pants, with neat gestures and flexible patterns. His wrist rotates and presses sideways, and the distance he strokes on the cloth is pulled up with his fingers. With a few scissors and a few stitches, you can get the prototype of pants. Master Pu said that being a man is the same as making pants. The hardest thing is not to wrinkle next to your body. Even if it is a millimeter, it will be stretched and wronged when walking, which will make you feel uncomfortable and make others feel uncomfortable.
Master Pu in his early years was so serious and lively.
Before becoming a tailor, he was a singer and actor in an art troupe in Beijing. He hummed some songs that didn't work very well and performed some unpopular plays. In his early twenties, while other colleagues were busy on the assembly line day after day to make money, Master Pu toured the whole country. To be precise, he followed the group to perform everywhere and shoot TV everywhere. I participated in many anti-Japanese films in my early years. The bartender with a mouthful of Beijing movies, the silly son of Pima Dai Xiao with a gray photo frame on the street, the undercover next to the Eighth Route Army, the secret agents hiding in the dark, and those who are hidden in the sea of people, I don't know how many of them are the same person.
The most unforgettable scene for Master Pu was that he played six roles by himself, all of which were different and exquisite.
Although they are all people who pass by in front of the camera, he still tries his best to interpret different feelings.
Interest in this matter really has nothing to do with age
? Then why didn't you stick to it? I want to know.
Master Pu smiled and said simply. Because of the injury, the physical condition is not allowed, so you switched to be a tailor?
When performing in Guangzhou that year, Master Pu made a body double for an actor and took several night scenes. At that time, there were few special effects and post-edited films, and most of them were real knives and guns. The young Mr. Pu was thin and stood out from the crowd. With his trademark smile, he was easily selected by the director on a sunny day in May. Although I knew that it wasn't him who finally appeared on the screen, Master Pu did his best to love acting in that play. A man fell to a group of people in the chaos and accidentally hurt his legs and feet.
When he was taken to the hospital, he had a serious fracture.
After that, Master Pu went all the way north to his hometown in Beijing and stayed at home for half a year under the banner of taking a nap. By the time he recovered, there were already many new people in the group, and there was no room for him to display. Simply, he opened a tailor's shop in his own home and concentrated on making pants. In his spare time, he insists on singing, playing and eating.
Interest in this matter really has nothing to do with age
I laughed my head off when I was sitting in the quadrangle watching the movies he participated in. He has been filming for nearly 30 years. In these 30 years, Master Pu has never given up his hobby, and he can still maintain the same enthusiasm. Even now he is nearly sixty years old, he can still insist on singing and humming on the stereo in the lotus market every weekend, singing loudly with old friends and listening to young people talking about some trendy things. In my spare time, I will change my neighbors' pants, cook authentic old Beijing snacks for my colleagues on holidays, and give performances to young people like me. They have the exclusive know-how to keep a straight face in front of the camera when performing.
Last year, on my birthday, I also received a doll made by him.
It's more beautiful than the gift shop window 100 times. Take table tennis as the head, plastic bottles as the body, wrap the plastic bottles with light purple and deep purple gauze skirts, glue them together, and attach sporadic crystal diamonds to the coat. The face wrapped in stockings is angular, drawing a girl with a round face, curved eyebrows and almond eyes. It looks lovely.
I put the photo of the doll in a circle of friends, and my friend jumped out and asked, where did you buy it, so exquisite?
Listening to this, my heart is full of pride. Having such a lively and interesting uncle around makes people feel that time may not be the knife to kill pigs.
People who are not interesting are never interesting, and enthusiastic people never lose half a point.
There is a saying in the west, let life come to you. But this premise is that you have to have a container to accommodate different emotions in order to bear the weight of life. The development process of anything can't be volatilized only by external forces. Instead of relying on time, we should learn to remind ourselves to exercise the right to happiness.
Warm-hearted and inspirational diary (3) When cheers are everywhere, I can only listen to my own breathing. Only when I am lonely at this moment, do I believe I can. When we cheer, I just want to tell you that I am with you at the moment. The journey to the top is not lonely, and running is not just for the first place.
How many roads can you climb by choosing who you really are? You have to open it yourself. Running is not only for the first place, but also for listening to your inner voice. Every step is to prove the meaning of your existence. When cheering everywhere, you can only listen to your own breathing. Only when I am lonely at this moment, do I believe I can. Running is not only for the first place.
In order to create miracles and make the world cheer for you, you have to thank yourself. Running is not only for the first place, but also for yourself. When you try your best to take the first step, the champion is already you, and running is not just for the first place.
It is difficult to be a man, it is difficult to settle down, such a big world, such a small individual; There are too many people in the world, so many people are interrelated and mutually exclusive, and time and space are unpredictable.
There are many difficulties. The difficult thing is how to find your place in this crowded world. I gradually found that there are few needs in life. It is often beneficial to ask the world according to your inner voice. It can not only meet your external needs, but even make up for your inner vacancy.
So in those days when I felt that everything was bound by desire and my thoughts were bound by reality, I began to run. It's better to let go calmly than to entangle. One day, one year, and one lifetime, do only one thing and do nothing.
When running, I look far and refine my goals. I find the choice between breathing and balance in the alternation of pace. I only enjoy the process of running every day, do it well, do it seriously and do what I can.
One step at a time, I ran forward in a down-to-earth manner, looking back, and found that although I only did this one thing this year, I gained a lot.
I have become less complicated and simple, my life has become regular, and I can enjoy the freedom of my mind more. I am more relaxed about details, and I can deal with everything in my life and work more calmly. Originally, dreams and ideals don't need to be lofty and great, and the heart is only suitable for the true self.
Only do one thing well, that is, the original rhythm of life. No matter how busy and tired the days are, the clouds are light and the wind is light, and life is bitter and salty, it is not worth mentioning.
The only thing that has been imprinted on our hearts by the years is silence, because at a certain moment in that year, we just want to do the things at hand to the extreme.
Those who have to give up because of external forces are called ideas, and those who don't want to give up because they are not tired of others are called dreams. This irresistible force comes from the heart.
Don't waste time. Don't covet immediate pleasure, learn more culture while you are young, broaden your horizons, broaden your mind and exercise your wisdom. It will take a long time for capital to wander through the cracks of life. Don't feel inferior and don't aim too high.
People alive, if you know a book thoroughly, or are good at one thing, you don't have to panic. Even setbacks are temporary. The social mechanism itself will inevitably provide opportunities for people with expertise and skills. Believe this, because the operation of society needs such people.
Run forward towards your dreams and ideals, as long as you stick to it, although you will not succeed in the end, what you experience when you run forward will always be a fortune in your growth.
Running is not only for the first place, but more importantly, working hard towards your dreams bit by bit. Success in one's own sense means surpassing oneself, breaking through oneself, exerting one's potential, exerting one's perseverance, exerting one's talents, sharpening oneself into a sword and cutting off thorns on the way forward. One day, I will ride the wind and waves, sail straight up and cross the deep sea.
Running is not just for the first place. Try, try, try. Success will belong to us.
Warm-hearted and inspirational diary (4) Snails don't believe in their slowness, crawl towards their goals step by step, and finally reach their destination. Water drops don't believe in their own fragility. Day after day, year after year, they crashed into the rock step by step, and finally created a miracle of water dripping through the stone. Silkworm pupae don't believe in hard shells, and every day they work step by step, and finally get the light of rebirth.
Life is long, life is long. Looking back on the road of life, every indelible and profound footprint records your ups and downs, every indelible footprint engraves your deep memory, and every indelible step engraves your feelings.
Your happiness and happiness are brisk footprints, and your sadness and pain are messy footprints; Your hatred, sadness and anger are heavy footprints. It is precisely because of this different footprint that your life trajectory is worth pondering and your life trajectory can be remembered forever.
Because of the footprint of life, we can realize the greatness of our predecessors and the hardship of today; Because of the footprint of life, we can feel the ups and downs of the past and the joys and sorrows of the present; Because of the footprint of life, we can think of the glorious past and the happy life today.
The road to growth is also covered with footprints. We don't ask every footprint to write down sweetness and joy, but we ask every footprint to have no regrets. We don't want every footprint to leave happiness and smile, but we hope to be worthy of every footprint; We don't want every footprint to be beautiful and happy, but we also don't want every footprint to be regrettable.
Take the first step in life, don't let the road of life be full of regret, guilt and regret; Take every step of life well, and we will be able to open the floodgate of memory in a watery night in the future, savor the footprints of the past, feel the ups and downs of the past, have deep memories of the past and all kinds of emotions, and you will be satisfied!
There are joys and sorrows in the journey of life, but everyone has his own footprint. Some people cheat and do nothing, wasting every beautiful day. Some people do one thing step by step and never waste every day seriously and fully.
Don't think about the rocks far below, but focus on the first small step, take this small step and take the next step, and go straight to where I want to go. There will be no regrets in this life. Take it step by step, no matter what the result is, step by step.
The road of life is very long. On this road, we will encounter all kinds of setbacks. We should learn to face setbacks. If we encounter a little setback, we should not lose confidence in life. Only by learning to face them can we succeed.
There are many difficulties in life, but no matter how big they are, as long as you break them down into small difficulties and overcome them one by one, you will eventually overcome the big ones.
Great men at all times and all over the world are not all born excellent. Even if there are natural factors, they can't hide their efforts and efforts.
The growth of flowers and trees has a cycle and a process. No grass can become mature in an instant after breaking ground, no flower can become delicate and charming in an instant after germination, and no tree can become a towering tree in an instant after germination. It takes some time to complete the accumulation. Only through the accumulation of quantity can qualitative change be promoted. If you want to be something, you can't be it all at once. If you want to be a cactus in the boundless desert, you must have a tenacious drought-resistant physique and persistent personality. If you want to be a rock in a majestic mountain, you must be prepared to withstand the wind, rain and scorching sun. If you want to be a white cloud in the blue sky, you must have the idea of many a mickle makes a muckle and the demeanor of dust.
Step by step, down-to-earth, you will find that our life is full and beautiful.
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