Of course it should be. The attitude between husband and wife towards housework is the attitude towards marriage. A good marriage should be equally matched, make money to support the family together, do housework together, and grow old together.
In daily life, division of labor and cooperation in housework are actually the most practical way to enhance trust between husband and wife and promote feelings. In a marriage, no one has to compromise, and no one has to do anything for the other person. A warm home is built because of love; a good marriage also requires men and women to work together and manage it.
A man who truly loves you will never ask his wife to do housework, nor will he say that he is helping his wife with housework. Because they know that housework is a shared responsibility between husband and wife, and trivial and complicated housework is not the responsibility and task of the wife alone. Love or dislike is reflected in the details of life. Marriages where the man is willing to do housework are generally not too bad.
Housework should never be the exclusive domain of women. In a happy marriage and family, no one can stay out of it.
In 2016, Bill Gates and his wife wrote an open letter, which mentioned the issue of the roles of both parties in the family. Bill Gates’ wife Melinda believes that housework should not be the exclusive preserve of women and that wives should have the right to choose to do what they want to do. Not only that, the couple also agreed that no matter how busy Bill Gates is, he must spend two days a week taking his children to school.
Men are willing to take the initiative to take on housework, which is precisely a way to convey love, consideration and concern to their wives. Because a man who truly loves his wife will never let a woman live too tiredly in a marriage. Happy love is nothing more than this: caring for each other and supporting each other, love will flow slowly.
The so-called good marriage means being equally matched, making money to support the family together, doing housework together, and growing old together.