In rural areas, there are indeed many single uncles in their fifties and sixties who have not remarried after being widowed or divorced, and live a lonely single life. To be honest, this was not the uncle’s intention. The uncle doesn't want to remarry because he has more ambition than strength, or he just can't help himself. No matter what the reason is for a rural man in his fifties or sixties to be single, it is an indisputable fact that he is single. In reality, few people want to be single throughout their lives.
Of course, except for the unmarried people who are now advocated by some young people. Today’s people in their fifties and sixties still have a large proportion of traditional ideas. The idea of ??a young couple staying together for a long time is still recognized and accepted by them. So when they actually get to the point of being single, they don't want to renew their relationship. Most of them have their own reasons, not their intention. Su Daqiang in the TV series "Everything is Fine" is a very realistic example. When his wife died of illness and her body was still cold, he clamored to marry Xiao Cai, who was his nanny. So the real reasons are nothing more than the following: First, the children do not agree and do not support the old man's remarriage, which is the majority. This kind of uncle's family has relatively good economic conditions and relatively large assets, so it is not difficult to find a companion. But I can't pass the test of my children. The children do not agree and are worried that if they marry a stepmother, their property will be divided among outsiders; or if the old man takes the first step, the stepmother will be left and they will have to support them. At the same time, I am also worried that this family is a well-known family in the village. My father is going to remarry. I am worried that people in the village will laugh at me. At such an old age, I will be considered to be irresponsible and immoral. You can't stand the gossip, saying that you are old and still looking for a wife. It seems that finding a wife is the exclusive preserve of young people.
Many old people, although their economic conditions are acceptable, do not have the courage and the confidence to break through the world, so they have to die alone! Therefore, there are reasons why many children prevent their fathers from remarrying. One of my cousins, his wife died of illness when he was forty-five years old. At that time, he said that he had a lot of kisses, but the cousin did not dare to agree. Finally, he asked his sister to go back and ask the children, but the children did not agree. Now he is almost seventy years old, and one People still have to cook for themselves, which makes life very sad! The children promised to take care of food and drink and take turns to serve them. In fact, no matter how filial children are, how can they be as considerate as their wives?
Secondly, the financial conditions are acceptable, and I have the intention to remarry, and my children agree, but I can’t find the right one. Many uncles in their 50s and 60s are still single and have not remarried despite the support of their children and permissible family conditions. The reason is that the uncle was bitten by a snake one day and was afraid of well ropes for ten years. I was deceived by a woman with ulterior motives, and I was too scared to remarry.
Third, the family conditions are too poor and there are ideas, but no women are willing to come. Such families are the majority in rural areas. They also long for the red sunset and the companionship of a member of the opposite sex who knows both hotness and coldness. But society is very realistic, and people are even more realistic. No woman is willing to come to such a family, because if you cannot meet her material requirements, you are truly unable to do so. Of course, you can't blame these women for this. They are also dozens of years old. It is really unreal and unrealistic to get married and simply serve you without any intention.