Some people say: inferiority is like a match that has been subjected to the tide, and it is difficult to ignite the fire of hope; Some people say: conceit is like a quagmire. If you sink in, it will be difficult to extricate yourself and stagnate.
Inferiority and conceit are two extremes that affect life. As you can imagine, the result of the two is the same, which will lead to the failure of life.
On the surface, people with low self-esteem always walk with their heads down. Because of lack of self-confidence, they often bear a heavy burden on their shoulders, which makes them breathless and eventually crush them. A conceited man always walks with his head held high, because he is too confident, and he is often cocky, top-heavy and reckless. In fact, a little wind is enough to blow him down.
Personally, inferiority and conceit will lead to giving up on life and career, and will accomplish nothing; For a country, inferiority and conceit will cause a great retrogression in history.
Inferiority is a catalyst for the disintegration of the will, and getting rid of inferiority requires tenacious self-confidence.
Conceit is the enemy of progress, and eliminating it requires extremely humble quality.
Inferiority and conceit
Inferiority and conceit are two completely different psychological states. But the fundamental reason is that we can't correctly understand the objective world.
For life, people always want everything to go smoothly, and for career, people always want smooth sailing. However, in the vast world, there are both sunny days and thunder and lightning. Some lucky people meet the former, and many people meet the latter. Therefore, on the big stage of life, conceited people are common, and there are many people with inferiority complex.
People often lack self-knowledge of themselves, which can be described as "I don't know the true face of Lushan Mountain, but I am only in this mountain". This reminds me of a painting: two dogs with almost the same shape and size walked to concave mirror and convex mirror respectively. The dog standing in front of concave mirror felt sad and pessimistic when he saw that he was so short. Another dog standing in front of the convex mirror saw him strong and cocky. Isn't this a portrayal of blind conceit and inferiority because you can't know yourself correctly?
It can be seen that when you are carried away by a temporary victory and can't see your weaknesses, you will fall into the mud pit of conceit, arrogance, even arrogance and go your own way without knowing the complexity of things. On the contrary, if you can't stand the frustration of failure and suffer a little, you will be negative and pessimistic and can't see your own strengths. As a result, you will accomplish nothing.
Obviously, conceited people and people with low self-esteem have different forms of expression, but their ideological roots are the same, and it is easy to transform each other. Conceited people turn to inferiority when they hit a wall; People who feel inferior become conceited because of occasional success.
As the saying goes: victory is not arrogant, and defeat is not humble. However, it is not easy to really do it. Only people with high ideological accomplishment can achieve such a state. They know that things are complicated, and sunny days can't go through rainy days. I still believe in flowers and grass when I meet thorns, snakes and scorpions. China women's volleyball team is such a fighting group. For the honor of the motherland, they struggled tenaciously and occasionally failed, but their fighting spirit became stronger and stronger, and they made persistent efforts. Aspiring young people struggle for the great cause of the four modernizations of the motherland, winning without arrogance and losing with grace.
Chinese sons and daughters, let us overcome inferiority and conceit and strive for the glorious future of our motherland!
Inferiority and conceit
After the exam, my friend's children suspected that their grades were not satisfactory, and then they suffered from severe depression. According to parents, in fact, he has been comparing. All shadows come from comparison. Comparison leads to inferiority. The more you compare, the more you feel ashamed. Everything becomes hopeless, even if you have another chance to try, you will stop, and your fighting spirit, courage and ambition will all go up in smoke.
In a system where everyone wins or loses by scores, nothing hurts young people more than unnecessary inferiority complex. People's so-called standards in society are not static: the evaluation of knowledge level, marriage system, poverty or wealth, success or failure, strength or cowardice, health or disease, lofty or vulgar, and even chastity-modern people's views on these changes are changing faster and faster. There is really no need for a person to hold a grudge against himself all the time, and spend a lifetime of precious energy to make a frightening comparison of various unstable views.
Learn to say, "Yes, that's it. So what?" And the other end of self, superiority. Its harm is equally great. Once people have mastered their superior conditions, they are in constant fear, just to maintain their own state. If you have a sense of superiority, you can't accept anything superior to him. He can only see things that are inferior to him. Only in this way can he feel better psychologically and feel safe. Because of his strong refusal. Such people will never have a chance to learn something better. People with a sense of superiority live in a state of prevention, measurement, constant comparison and misappropriation all day. They can neither absorb nor pay, they can only maintain. How can this be happy?
Whether it is inferiority or conceit, it seriously hinders life. If you don't compare, you will feel satisfied, and your mind will not swell because of complacency. It's no big deal whether others accept you or not, but you must accept yourself, believe in yourself and be satisfied with yourself.
Indian thought ambassador Osho said: "A rose is a rose and a lotus is a lotus. Just look and don't compare. "
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