Your love is really touching, but you can also have your own life and don't have to wrong yourself for someone who doesn't love you.
Love is a state
Xue Feng
Since ancient times, "I love you" has been a beautiful piece of music that remains unchanged throughout the ages. "I love you" makes you intoxicated, obsessed with it, beautiful and happy, and crazy. Today, I finally discovered that "I love you" is an illusion, an unpredictable cloud, a beautiful bubble with a colorful halo that is short-lived, and an anesthetic.
Love is a state, just like the sun constantly radiating light, like the blooming peonies blooming beautifully, like the rivers rushing day and night, like the bright stars shining brightly in the night sky.
Love has no specific object, and love itself is wordless. If love has an object, it is not love. The sun is eternally emitting light to illuminate all things. Once the sun shines on something, it is not the sun, but a searchlight, a flashlight, or a spotlight. Love is like the radiating sun, love is like blooming flowers, it is a state. The sun does not say "I love you!" The flowers do not say "I love you!" No matter whether there are people to appreciate it or not, whether there are bees or butterflies coming. Collect nectar and flowers always bloom at the right time.
What love always brings to people, other lives and other things is warmth, auspiciousness, harmony, beauty, happiness, positive energy and infinite yearning. Love never brings people, other lives or other things. Coldness, restlessness, ugliness, trouble, pain, negative energy and despair.
Love will not hurt people. If love makes people hurt, sad, troubled, painful, hateful, disappointing and despairing, it is definitely not love.
Love can only be felt with love. It cannot be obtained by command or force, nor can it be exchanged for money, status, reputation, or beauty. Love is free and priceless. Love does not require repayment. Love is total dedication without any attached debts, responsibilities, obligations or other conditions. Love treats beggars and billionaires alike, Love treats kings and common people alike. Love has no moral concept, love has no value system, love does not distinguish between true and false, good and evil, beauty and ugliness, right and wrong.
The key to the difference between lives lies in the content of love they possess. The higher the content of love, the higher the level of life; the lower the content of love, the lower the level of life. This is like a kerosene lamp, The differences between electric lights and the sun are the same, but the light they emit is different. Kerosene lamps can only illuminate a room, electric lamps can illuminate a field, and solar energy can illuminate a space.
Buddha’s light shines universally, but human light can only shine in a limited area. This is the difference between Buddha and humans.
From this we know that those who love the world are Buddhas, and those who seek the welfare of everyone in the world are Buddhas. Those who only love themselves and only think about themselves are demons. Those who only love one person or a few people and only seek the welfare of a certain person or a few people are animals. Those who only love and serve a certain group of people are human beings.
It can be seen from this that a selfish person who only loves himself or herself is actually a devil. A person who has only one love object, such as a husband and wife and a one-on-one love and sex relationship, is actually a devil. It is the lowest animal. Those who only love their own family members and relatives are the lowest level of people. Those who only love their own nation, religion, group, political party, and country but do not love other nations, religions, groups, political parties, and countries belong to humans. And a person who dedicates his or her whole soul, effort, and mind to the welfare of all mankind without seeking benefit for himself or herself is definitely not a human being, but a Bodhisattva, an angel, or a Buddha.
People are actually not worthy of speaking of love. Love is the exclusive preserve of Bodhisattvas, angels and Buddhas. When one person says "I love you" to another person, it is blaspheming love.
Love is an anti-material existence. Only when you have love yourself can you feel love. If you don't have love yourself, you will never feel love. Only if you have eyes can you see the eyes of other beings. Only if you are not color blind can you see the colorful world.
The beloved is sublimated into a god. The so-called true love means that oneself has completely become love.
God is love. Only by turning ourselves into love can we be qualified to go to God's back garden - the Fairy Island Islands.
2012/9/26