Using breaking up as a bargaining chip, one is extortion, and the other is really wanting to break up. I don't know the extent of your relationship. But from your simple question mark, I can see that it is not good. Why? Couples with good feelings are inseparable, so how can they quarrel? And often quarrel. If quarreling is regarded as a method of emotional communication, it is a very bad way to deal with it. There are many ways to communicate, and speaking out of turn is one of them. Doing some things and games that you like is another, eating a delicious meal and eliminating contradictions in delicious food is another. Why did you fight?
As the saying goes, there is nothing to say about quarreling, especially two familiar people. When quarreling, in order to win, we often choose hurtful words. How can we say anything? Calm down and think about it. There is so much hatred. No, quarreling is nothing more than trivial matters, and some may not remember why they quarreled. Frequent quarrels indicate that both people have problems.
He always said that another reason for breaking up is that you are too strong. A girl who is too strong should know how to give priority to time. There is no shame in being loyal to the person you love. In addition to feelings, there are skills in falling in love. Taking a step back can sometimes get unexpected gains, but taking three steps is unknown.