I don't go to work on weekends. I don't have to get up early as usual. I just want to relax at night. So, I thought of the movie cached in my mobile phone-the dream lover.
I saw the introduction of the play in WeChat official account. At first glance, it looks like the name of a Chinese partner. After reading it, the content is similar, the theme is positive, full of positive energy, and the owner is not struggling alone. Just one is about the history of three men's partnership, and the other is about the history of three women's partnership.
Dream Lover tells the story of three types of women with different personalities seeking gold for money, family and status. Lu Zhenxi, an overseas student, sold fake bags in the United States and was sent back to China. The elite in the shopping mall met mistress. Cinderella, despite her poor family, just wanted to marry a rich man. They changed from bad feelings at the beginning to good girlfriends, and became partners in the pursuit of wealth, love and status with the support of career mentor Meng Xiaojun and Lu Zhenxi's calf Juncheng.
Looking at the three women headed by Lu Zhenxi, they stumbled all the way from the salted fish with nothing to the commanding heights of their dreams. My heart is full of mixed feelings, and tears can't help falling when I see that kind of emotion. From it, I also learned several life truths that are close to reality.
First,? It is true love that has been silently caring for you, supporting you, keeping up with your pace, and running with you, but it is not true love that wants you to make some concessions for love.
If you watch this movie, you will find that Lu Zhenxi, a silly girl, tried her best to go abroad, not because of higher pursuit or ideal, but because of love.
She has a crush on a boy at the same school, and she has excellent academic performance and is going to study in the United States. And she, the silly girl, finally set foot on an American flight through hard work.
The boy she likes really became her boyfriend at this moment. From then on, she felt that her goal in life had been achieved. She doesn't have high goals in her studies. In order to earn living expenses, she started a small business
Looking at her worldly breath, her boyfriend began to dislike her because she broke up in different ways. She begged him not to go, but he refused to go without looking back.
Only then did she understand what is blessed, and it never rains but it pours. To make matters worse, I was detained for selling fake bags and finally sent back to China. At that time, she borrowed a sentence from Beijingers in new york to express her feelings-love someone and let him go to the United States because it is heaven; Hate a person, let him go to America, because it is hell.
It can be seen how lost and painful my heart is at this time.
She casually returned to her hometown and began to follow the Mavericks south of the city and start all over again. Niu Juncheng has been a favorite of Lu Zhenxi since he was a child. Wherever Lu Zhenxi goes, he will always be there. Except, of course, going to America.
He witnessed Lu Zhenxi struggling, running and growing all the way. When everyone only cares about whether Lu Zhenxi flies high or not, only he silently cares about whether she is tired or not. As long as Lu Zhenxi wants to do it, he will regard it as his own goal, pay silently and support her.
When Lu Zhenxi was killed in the earthquake, he was the only one looking for her in the ruins with his own compass. His hand was cut, bleeding and hoarse, just to find her.
When Lu Zhenxi experienced difficulties and gradually got on the right track, he chose to leave silently. Fortunately, this silly girl Lu Zhenxi experienced failure and life and death, and finally understood who she should cherish. Everyone is finally happy.
Anyone can start from scratch, but it is more important than faith to walk on the right path. At this time, you need a mentor.
When watching the drama, my biggest sigh is that when a person wants to do something, even if he is ambitious and full of blood, it is not enough to have spiritual food, but also to have a mentor. A mentor who can guide you in your struggle.
Fortunately, Lu Zhenxi met Professor Meng Xiaojun from the Business School. Who is Professor Meng? That's a big-name tutor whose lecture notes can sell 500 thousand+. As soon as he opens his mouth, those business tycoons will sell him my meager sensibilities.
It is precisely because of this that Lu Zhenxi helped her grasp the general direction when starting a business. If the direction is right, the remaining efforts will not be in vain.
Later, the company bid, which was also a word from Meng Xiaojun. The other party gave Lu Zhenxi a chance of fair competition. Even if the company is in trouble and ready for transformation, Meng Xiaojun acquiesced in the direction of transformation.
Although he never taught Lu Zhenxi how to do it, every time she made a decision, he would make a judgment in his mind. This also made Lu Zhenxi invisible.
Starting today, I will make my own credit card.
This is what Gu said when he left Peng Dahai.
She once forged a fake diploma, claiming that she graduated from Harvard University and entered a business school to study for an MBA. In fact, she wants to catch a rich man, pay off her foreign debts as soon as possible, and live the rest of her life carefree.
Who knows, when feelings are related to money, they also change their taste. Those who keep saying that they love you and are willing to be your lifelong credit card don't want your youth and beauty. Once you are old and he is tired, you abandon it.
In today's real society, the economic foundation largely determines women's self-confidence. Only when you are your own credit card and your own long-term meal ticket will you feel at ease. You can do whatever you want. Anyway, I am not short of money, and my life is still prosperous without you.
Wen Qing, the elite of the shopping mall, lived a husband-and-wife life with her husband in name only because of the intervention of Xiao San. And because of the title, I have no real power, and I dare not file for divorce, for fear that I will not give my daughter happiness. It was not until we had an economic foundation to start a business together again that we divorced the cruel and heartless beast and lived happily with our daughter from then on.
Fourth,? Only when you have experienced failure can you achieve real success.
When Lu Zhenxi's company faced the dilemma of being acquired and several partners were devastated, Meng Xiaojun comforted.
Later, I felt that it was not comfort, but the truth. It's like, how can you see a rainbow without experiencing wind and rain? Everyone who has a dream, without experiencing several failures, is not really successful even if he succeeds. One day, you will experience failure and rise again. This is the serious goal.
But don't worry, when you move forward devoutly for your goal, the only obstacle you encounter is the robbery you experienced on your way to success, and everything in the world will eventually make way for you.
I like to call the difficulties encountered in a person's struggle robbery more and more. Because I know this is a robbery, I will always try my best to survive it. In the past, even if the robbery was over, it was a step closer to success.
Verb (short for verb)? Besides affection, love and friendship, there is a fourth relationship in this world-partner.
Before that, I knew that if you want to do something, you need to cooperate with others intentionally or unintentionally. Just like a story I saw before, everyone is holding a long spoon with delicious food in it, but it takes a long time to put it in his mouth. Because the spoon is too long.
Later, these people finally realized that the food in the spoon can be sent to each other's mouths. In this way, everyone can eat delicious food.
Cooperation is really important. We've been cooperating. Everyone cooperates with each other because of their different division of labor. If a family wants harmony and happiness, they should also cooperate with each other.
In fact, I am a person who doesn't like to actively cooperate with others, because I feel that I am not good at communication. Active communication with others is my weakness.
I saw three women, Lu Zhenxi and Gu, start a business in partnership because of their respective strengths, and finally achieved a career. I can't help sighing about the power of cooperation. You can no longer hide in the cave like a silent ant. You have to go out to have a chance. As Lu Zhenxi said, business is no longer a man's patent, and women can hold up half the sky.
I deeply feel that women are no longer unknown women behind men, and feminism is rising step by step. I don't have to compete with men for the world, I just want to be the same individual and compete fairly under the same blue sky.
The most terrible thing is that women have achieved cooperation, found the right partner and found the right direction of cooperation, and there will be a world belonging to women in the future. It belongs to everyone who makes unremitting efforts for their dreams.
Finally, don't be afraid of mountains and roads, don't be afraid of being unarmed, and know that nothing is omnipotent. Tell you and myself.
* * * Encourage!