Primary school Chinese s version volume 6 unit 4 oral communication debate

Against: We think this mother's behavior is a sign of indifference. Children need to be taken care of, especially young children. When a child falls, he will be hurt physically and psychologically to varying degrees. At this time, how much the child needs the comfort and care of his mother! As mothers, we should quickly pick him up, comfort him, care for him, and smooth his inner fears and grievances. Let it get up by itself, which is undoubtedly worse for children and aggravates the harm to children. Over time, it will affect the healthy development of children's personality.

The mother wants to tell her children to stand up and be strong when they fall. Although the starting point is good, he ignores that the child is still too young. He wants to check whether the child is broken, and then let the child grow up by himself. He should also consider the child's ability and give appropriate help.

Although the mother may let the child stand up by herself, it may make the child stronger. However, if the child is too young, the image of parents worshiping God in his heart will be greatly reduced, and the child may never tell his parents if he has doubts in his heart. Isn't that sad? Communication can promote healthy growth. Parents are the only people that children can trust. Don't destroy the pure land in their hearts.

If the child doesn't understand the mother's intention, it will be self-defeating. The child has a shadow in his heart. After all, at the age of three, he will be 80. If children hate their mothers from an early age, it will not be conducive to their growth, so that children will not feel maternal love and may embark on the road of crime.

Indifference is also love, but at the same time, we should pay attention to the child's expression, whether it is just for comfort or really painful. Medicine shows that children aged 0~3 years have incomplete bone development. Parents should protect their children from harm. When he is old and falls, he should be allowed to get up by himself.

If mothers let young children get up by themselves, they will feel that there is no so-called care in the world at an early age. In the long run, children will become isolated, and in severe cases, they will suffer from autism. You can't open your heart to gain friendship, and you can't be as innocent as a normal child; It is also a pity that children mature prematurely and do not enjoy the fun of childhood and parents' coquetry.

There are many ways to educate and love children. To some extent, it can be explained that the mother is encouraging her children, and she wants them to be strong and independent. But if the child is too young, he must need his mother to reach out and help him. He may not understand his mother's good intentions, so from the child's point of view, he may think that his mother doesn't love him.