Generally, girls who can ask this question will not have a smooth love experience, and you can certainly find the reason why she is unhappy from her words.
Because of her anxiety, impatience and inferiority, she easily loses her mind in the face of a relationship. I think girls are particularly easy to be ignored when they lose something in their feelings.
I hope you are not in the following six categories.
A very compassionate and unprincipled girl.
There is a kind of girl, commonly known as "love rat harvester". They are always eager to meet a good man, but they always meet love rat.
Lily is such a girl. The first boyfriend she talked to told her that she was deeply hurt by her ex, which made her full of sympathy and wanted to give her everything. Finally, she found out that the boy was actually lying to her.
As for the second boyfriend, when he fell in love with her again, he cheated, cheated, but she always felt that the other party must have a convincing reason, and even felt that he was not good, so she did it.
As for the third boyfriend, every time she says goodbye, as long as the other party calls, she will immediately turn back and give everything for the other party again. As a result, it didn't take long to be dumped, and it entered an infinite loop.
Looking at her, I really hate iron not to produce. You always feel sorry for love rat and make excuses for love rat. If love rat doesn't hurt you, who will he hurt?
Love should be equal. If it is wrong, it is wrong. Don't let the virgin Mary flood, because men don't cherish such girls, don't really love them, just have fun.
Never use your youth to accompany a man, and then let him become the dependence of others.
I have met many girls with special double marks. When they are in love, they are extremely demanding of their other half, asking them not to touch other girls and asking them to be completely fair to themselves. However, it is unambiguous in spending each other's money, and it is absolutely biased towards itself on many issues involving its own interests.
This kind of girl is really terrible, just like my colleague's ex-girlfriend Feifei. Two people have been in love for so long that dating is just a boy's expense. Almost every holiday, she will ask that boy for expensive gifts. If a boy doesn't buy it for her, he will say, "What a man is if he can't afford a girlfriend?"
But, ah, she never spends money on her boyfriend, even if she doesn't buy gifts. After her boyfriend told her to save some money, they bought a house and told her not to spend money indiscriminately. But she said, "Women just need financial independence to be loved. I make money, I spend it myself, and you can't control it. "
Such a girl is really not cute at all. Not only men will not like it, but also women will not like it. The truly independent girls I know have always been independent in all directions, without spending each other's money, always thinking of each other and solving problems by themselves.
Although I think some independent girls are too independent, I also want to tell those girls with double standards not to do those terrible things under the banner of independence. Independent girls don't carry this pot.
I especially like ambiguous girls. I used to think that ambiguity was a boy's patent. Most girls don't like ambiguity, because girls are naturally sensitive and always like to end their feelings quickly and find a sense of security.
But in recent years, I found that more and more girls like ambiguity. They eat what is in the bowl and look at what is in the pot. On the left is a little German shepherd, and on the right is a little nursing dog. None of them want to give up, they are all talking.
There is such a girl beside me. She won't let go of any boy around her, even someone else's boyfriend. Almost all the girls have been mutilated by her. After a long time, no boys like her.
But this girl will find reasons for herself, always saying that she likes ambiguity because her boyfriend is not doing well, so she has to go to others to find warmth.
But in my opinion, it is wrong for both men and women to like ambiguity. Only by loyalty can we get real happiness.
Many women like to say that we do this because we love you. When I stop loving you, I can be more rational than your mother.
However, I want to say that not all "behaviors" are reasonable. Don't hurt the person you love with your unreasonable troubles, and let a relationship that should last forever fall apart.
Qiqi is a girl with princess disease. She thinks people all over the world should be kind to her, let alone her boyfriend.
It's normal for her to check her boyfriend's mobile phone and not let her boyfriend and friends go out to play. The requirement for a boyfriend is that the information should be returned in seconds. If you need to find him, you must appear immediately.
As long as her boyfriend is a little dissatisfied with her, she will explode at once. Moreover, she asks her boyfriend "soul torture" countless times every day and asks him whether he loves himself or not.
I think girls who are a little headstrong are cute, but girls who are too aggressive are really not that cute. Because love is mutual, the man who loves you will let you go, but there can be no limit to letting you go.
When Kiki hurt her boyfriend's self-esteem again and again, she finally broke up. I think this result is a matter of time, because your unreasonable behavior is consuming his love for you.
Don't wait until you lose it, it's too late.
As I said before, the man who gives you money may not love you, but he doesn't love you if he doesn't give you money. I still think this sentence is correct, but I hope many girls don't misunderstand the meaning of this sentence.
This sentence means that men should spend money for girls, but it doesn't mean that you don't value anything except money. Whether a man loves you or not, you have to understand with your heart. Some men's economic strength is like this, but you always have to keep up with the competition, thinking that he doesn't earn enough and the luxury goods he bought for you are not good enough. Then you will never get true love.
Xia Xia is like this. Her boyfriend gave her a Lancome lipstick. She said that her best friend's boyfriend gave her fairy water, and her boyfriend gave her a coach bag. She said that all her colleagues cheated on Chanel.
She always felt that her boyfriend didn't love herself enough, and finally her boyfriend left.
You know, people who love you don't have to do everything for you. When you want something, think about whether you are worth it or not.
Girls and boys who are particularly clingy and dependent like their girlfriends' innocent girls and stick to themselves, making them feel particularly proud. However, you should also know that everything has its limits, and excessive dependence is annoying.
Hanako broke up with his girlfriend. He was miserable because he really liked that girl, but he said that he really knew there was no way to go on, so he broke up.
Because this girl is so clingy, she needs his company no matter what she does. As long as she refuses once, she will cry all kinds, saying that Hanako doesn't love her and that there is someone outside Hanako.
She even followed Hanako and gave information to lesbians around her, which disturbed everyone's normal life.
I think such girls are too independent. After a long time, she will not make the other half feel cute, but will only make the other half feel bored. After all, everyone has their own things, and we look for the other half to find a partner, not to be each other's parents.
I think the above six kinds of girls are particularly prone to failure in relationships. I hope you are not one of them. If so, please be sure to correct it quickly.
Many times, what love needs is to exchange something for each other and let them give you more in return. More often, we are rational people in love in order to be loved better.
I wish you happiness.