How can a woman be cute when she is spoiled?

A wife wants her husband to remember his birthday and his special anniversaries, such as love anniversaries, wedding anniversaries and even March 8th. Careless husbands forget that their wives may be spoiled, but jumping off a building to spoil their husbands' birthdays is not only shocking, but also frightening. A woman, never coquetry, looks unlovable, but to what extent is coquetry appropriate? ◆ Spoil and run wild, not sloppy/traceless (male senior psychological counselor, psychological intervention therapist of National Suicide Assistance Center. There is a joke that says, "Women only need to conquer one man to conquer the world, and men need to conquer the whole world to conquer a woman." A spoiled woman can turn thunder into spring breeze and Mao Mao rain; A coquettish woman can turn decay into magic and turn a hundred steelmaking into soft fingers; A coquetry woman can break stones, open monuments and sting every nerve of a man ... No matter how strong and brave a hero is, he will be at a loss in front of a woman's charming voice. Men are willing to fight for her and give everything for her. Spoiling is human instinct, and everyone needs to feel the attention and love of others. The demand for emotional comfort is the psychological root of coquetry. Although it is not a woman's patent, it is a woman's specialty. Women coquetry is to show beauty, love, pleasure, injustice and helplessness, and the real purpose is to be loved; Men like spoiled women in order to satisfy men's dignity and reflect men's strength. They hit it off and get what they want. But there must be a degree of coquetry, and it must be divided into occasions. When it is ready, it will be closed. If you go too far, you will become wild and even sloppy, and you will become arrogant and unreasonable. Taking advantage of the situation to run wild, drink and go crazy, wander and have sex, lie and cheat, exult and have fun, make trouble arrogantly, and deliberately act young ... These behaviors will only make people hate it and avoid it. Running wild is a way to vent anger and express dissatisfaction between coquetry and splashing water Occasionally, when a woman is spoiled, she can let her little troubles and bad emotions get a reasonable release and become more delicate and gentle. On the other hand, women who occasionally run wild can also show the wild beauty of women and stimulate the male genes of men. A woman who knows how to put it away freely and has a clear goal can get the greatest return from such coquetry. Be flexible, retreat, and follow the system; Psychologically speaking, it is the best policy to take the weak first and then the strong. ◆ Permission to invite pets/Rao Min (a female emotional magazine, a senior editor of emotional columnists in many magazines) In history, the country and the people like nothing better than "bonfire princes". The official history felt sorry for the "femme fatale", and unofficial history directly turned praise into a fox. In fact, the biggest sin of others is that they don't like to laugh. Who has the right to light a blazing bonfire and order the princes to run around? It's Zhou Youwang. It happened that he was the king of a powerful country, and when he showed his affection for women, he forgot the responsibility and power of the king outside the cloud nine. Every woman has the right to be pampered. Just, where is the right to invite pets? To put it simply: he has what you want and he is willing to give it. See what your man has. If he is the monarch of an island country, even if he transforms all the high-rise buildings on the island into bungalows (threatening to jump off the building for fear that you will be upset), even if he replaces the land auction with your favorite birthday present (as long as he wants), no problem, you can spread this charm endlessly. Unfortunately, after all, there are very few men in the world who have this kind of power. There are three or two that you and I probably can't enjoy. What's more, only you and he formed a "small kingdom"-home. Women in the family can still be loved by men. In fact, it's not what he gave, a diamond ring or a rose, a giant cake or a bowl of clear soup noodles. The only difference is how you feel. A smart woman is good at mobilizing all the energy of a man and giving him everything, or giving you everything you think, care about and love.