How can I confuse a man's heart? Women often change their minds because they are disappointed with their husbands, while men often change their minds because of physiological needs. Once a man changes his mind, he will cheat for life. Even if he picks up the pieces and reassembles them, it will never be the same again. So how can girls confuse men's hearts? Let's have a look.
How can I confuse a man's heart? 1 1. Grab the husband's stomach first.
Every day after work, the wife cooks a delicious dinner for her husband, then turns on all the lights in the house and waits for her husband to come home late. Men often feel the warmth of home in this situation. When a husband brings his work home, a wife should not try to turn his attention to herself. She can add water to his quick drink, or make a snack, and he will feel particularly warm. Women want to love their husbands, but do you know what he cares about most?
2. Grab her husband's heart again.
It is not enough to catch a man's heart and just his stomach. The most effective way to completely capture a man's heart is to make him love you.
You must be healthy and beautiful.
Health is capital, so we must cherish it. Once a woman is married, she gradually becomes a "yellow-faced woman" in the eyes of men. Numerous examples have proved that old women with bad looks are the easiest to be abandoned. In the words of a derailed man: "The money you earn is for you to spend, but you don't know how to maintain yourself. When you are only in your thirties, you look like a' yellow-faced woman'. It makes me sick every day. Can you not derail? " When I first heard this, my lungs were about to explode, but when I calm down and think about it, people's shameless words are ugly, but they really make sense. How can people who don't love themselves love you?
4, often * * * enjoy "space time"
Men go outside to seek comfort because of boredom or indulgence, which actually reveals that the connotation of marriage is not enough. Smart women can seek the help of time and space. The meaning of "space time" refers to the rules reached to strengthen the emotional connection between husband and wife. For example, couples spend at least one afternoon alone, leaving aside the interference of work, family and children and fully enjoying the warmth of their own world. Adhering to the "space time" between husband and wife can actively enhance the intimacy of marriage. When the inner feeling is good, the natural man's heart will go home.
Always praise his kindness.
When you watch TV series or movies, see the tragic marriage life in the story, and think carefully about your husband's kindness to you, you will find that this man has nothing to say to you despite his shortcomings. When you have such an idea, you must tell your husband. If he is not in, give him a call. If he is around, just say what you think, and then lie down on him and cry for a while and say, shall we not be like on TV? But a little word can let a man know that he still has such an important position in your heart. It turns out that everything he did was not in vain, so you keep it in mind. With such a good wife who is reasonable and knows how to be warm and cold, which man is willing to give up on you?
6, involving the daily life of husband and wife, we must pay attention.
Never talk about divorce when quarreling, shed more tears, have strong language pertinence and discuss reality. If you are wrong, after the quarrel, if you see that he is still unhappy, pretend to be cute and stick to him. In addition, it is particularly important to point out that once a man is involved in a quarrel, he must pay attention. If he points out in the quarrel that it is because of your physical or psychological reasons. Then please note that this must be the most intimate and urgent problem that he wants you to solve and improve. You mustn't think that this is just an excuse he made casually.
7. Go back to the "good times" with him
If your love has experienced a romantic rainy season and flower season, it is already "three to five itching", then marriage may need to be suspended and rested. If one of them starts to seek happiness and move on, the pressure for improvement may be on the woman's side. There are many ways to improve, and the most important thing is to find the good times when you are in love. The usual period for men to cheat is about 6 months. If you cherish your past love and your marriage, you should leave enough time for him to "know when he is tired." Call back his hurried heart with your love and gentleness and return to your love nest.
Please give him perfect love.
Don't simply attribute the reason for her husband's derailment to empathy or derailment. Please think carefully about some women whose feelings are on the verge of breaking up. Is it because of yourself? Although a happy marriage depends on both parties, it depends more on the woman. What men like is the gentleness and thoughtfulness of women. What women can impress men most is considerate care. Of course, this thoughtfulness is not only the thoughtfulness in life, but also the thoughtfulness in the boudoir, knowing the cold and the heat, knowing the light and the heavy, and knowing the man's heart better. With her, such a woman is the most exciting.
9. Be sure to communicate more in daily life.
We can't go back to the era without information interference, but we can change its influence from negative to positive. In terms of personality, men are more likely to be autistic than women. Chatting with friends on the Internet and mobile phones can make them pour out their hearts and help them escape from reality. The mechanical communication with keyboard and mouse gradually made them have a strong dependence, but they lost their original interest in our normal family life. So you should communicate with him more. If he knew that he could tell you all his troubles and get the greatest comfort from you, it would be impossible for him to be infatuated with those virtual online dating objects.
10, let the husband have face.
I must be good at getting along with my husband's friends and colleagues, and also know how to maintain myself beautifully. In fact, men, like women, love to compare themselves. They compare themselves with only a few things: life, career and women. If you are still charming and beautiful over 30, your husband will be happy to take you to his friend's party, because you will make your husband's face shine and his vanity will be greatly satisfied by his friend's praise. And your friend's praise will also subtly affect his impression of you, constantly reminding him that you are the best woman in the world, which is extremely effective!
How can I confuse a man's heart? 2. the trick to catch a man's heart.
One way to grab a man's heart: grab a man's kidney.
As the saying goes, "Grab a man's heart, grab his stomach first". This sentence has been circulated for many years since ancient times, and it did have its unique insights in the past. However, now take-away food is everywhere, and everything is delicious. Simply "grasping the stomach" can no longer fully grasp the heart of men. Emotional experts believe that in today's society, if you want to grasp a man's heart, you must first grasp a man's kidney. You can skip a meal, but spiritual hunger is hard to resist the temptation.
The second way to catch a man's heart: know about his private life.
A female colleague of mine is 36 years old and has been married twice. At present, the husband and wife are living well. In her first marriage, she was a very conservative lady. Like many women, she started by grabbing a man's stomach, learned the methods of various dishes and improved her cooking skills, but all she got in the end was "Your meal is good". Husband and wife live a quiet life and their feelings are in jeopardy. On the other hand, however, her best friend, although she doesn't know how to cook, is held by her husband. She was deeply shocked and still can't figure it out. Finally, after detailed communication with my best friend, I realized that I still have to catch a man's heart. At present, she lives happily with her second husband, and her private life is much better than before. Colleagues feel like they have discovered a new continent. In the past, she always thought that women should be conservative. In fact, women can be "slutty" in front of husband and wife, and husband and wife life is the only magic weapon to maintain their feelings.
Method 3: Make yourself younger.
In fact, this method is not a method, but a way of life. Just think about it and you will know that men will definitely like young and beautiful people. Facing the same you, one is a yellow-faced woman and the other is Yan Ruyu, your man will definitely choose Yan Ruyu. Maintaining yourself is not only responsible for yourself, but also a powerful guarantee to seize a man's heart. With capital, playing hard to get, let your man yearn for your heart, and let your man love you in the pursuit.
Learn these six ways to make men die for you.
First, when you can make a phone call, exercise restraint.
You'd better know how to restrain yourself when you miss him. Only your restraint will make men take the initiative and be positive to you. You don't have to be passive all the time, just lose restraint, just because your little restraint will make men love your attitude more.
Second, proper coquetry will make men more obedient.
Enthusiasm is a woman's patent and the most favorable thing to deal with men. When your man is disobedient, you can take out this secret weapon and the man's attitude will turn 180 degrees. Of course, you can't be spoiled every day, and patents will be used at critical moments. Occasionally coquetry will make men hurt you more and more. If you eat coquetry as a meal, you can only get men's disgust, so the trick should be left at a critical moment! Learning proper coquetry is definitely the best way to sublimate love.
Third, cry properly.
This is another trick for women besides coquetry, and it is also a woman's greatest capital. None of them have universal energy efficiency. In love and getting along, when little things can't be won or lost by reason, a woman's tears are her biggest bargaining chip, which can be solved as long as it doesn't involve big principled issues. When a man can't do it, it is when a woman cries, which is a sharp weapon to melt a man. They hate women's tears. When a woman cries, a man will be heartbroken. Everything has its vanquisher. Tears are a weapon to subdue men. Therefore, women must have the tears skills of actors. It is much easier to cry when you meet an insoluble bottleneck in love and both sides are unwilling to compromise.
Fourth, giving men enough face is a science.
Making friends is just for fun. Don't make the other person look ugly and lose face because of some small things, which will make others unhappy. Especially when dealing with men, of course, you should learn how to give him face and give him a "feeling of worship" so as to impress him. For example, if you make friends with a man, if you like him and want him to think of you, then you should praise him when you eat with your friends or in the process of socializing. Giving him enough face in the middle will make a man feel that you know his heart very well, and naturally he will love and miss you more.
Fifth, the necessary mystery.
Men always have a desire to explore mysterious women. The mind is the most mysterious thing of human beings, and when a woman attracts a man with her body, she needs the mystery of the mind if she wants to keep it. Unique ideas are the most powerful secrets, making men feel that you have secrets that have been explored. This is your exclusive, unique in the world, so you must grasp it!
Sixth, don't deliberately ignore men, especially when there are contradictions.
It is inevitable that there will be bumps in life, and it is normal to have some minor contradictions. Don't underestimate these contradictions, they will eventually become a straw to crush camels. So you should show your love in small contradictions. You love him. You know, ignoring a man will make your man more nervous. No matter whose fault it is, men will be partial to you, so they have to ignore it, which will directly lead to the imbalance of love and push the beautiful love to the abyss of hatred.