Philosophical Story
One night, when a group of nomadic tribesmen were preparing to set up camp and rest, they were suddenly enveloped by a dazzling light. They knew God was coming. Therefore, they are full of ardent expectations and await the important will from God.
Finally, God finally spoke: "You must check for more pebbles along the road and put them in your horses. Tomorrow night, you will be very happy, but you will also be very regretful." < /p>
After saying that, God disappeared. The herdsmen were very disappointed because they originally expected God to bring them endless wealth and good health and longevity, but they did not expect that God would tell them to do this meaningless thing. But no matter what, it was God's will after all. Although they were a little dissatisfied, they still picked up some pebbles and put them in their horses.
In this way, they walked for another day. When night fell and they began to set up camp, they suddenly discovered that every pebble they put into Ma Tarzi yesterday turned into diamonds. They were very happy, but also very regretful, regretting not picking up more pebbles.
In fact, is this not the case in our daily life, work, and study? There are many things that look like pebbles in front of us and are discarded like worn-out shoes. However, suddenly one day, when we need it, it turns into a diamond, and we have to regret having discarded it before. Not enough.
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Philosophical Story 2
In ancient times, there was a king who owned countless lands and a house full of gold and silver, but he still felt not enough and unsatisfied. So depressed.
One day, a "golden fairy" appeared and asked the king: "Your Majesty, what do you think we need to be happy?"
The king thought for a while and said: "I want to have a golden finger. As long as I touch it, anything can turn into gold, and then I will be very happy."
"Really? Do you really want to Want a golden finger? Do you want to think about it?" asked the golden fairy.
"No need to think about it, this is the biggest dream in my life. As long as I have a golden finger, my dream can come true, and I will be very happy!" said the king.
So, the golden fairy turned the king's right hand into a golden finger. The king just needs to point at tables, chairs, plates, walls... everything he touches turns into "gold" items
Wow! What a great, joyful experience!
At this time, the king ran to the garden and smelled the fragrance of flowers, so he picked a flower to smell it. However, as soon as my hand touched the flower, it immediately turned into a golden flower and no longer had any fragrance!
The king walked to the dining room again and smelled the feast of Manchu and Han Dynasties. He drooled and wanted to have a full meal. But when he picked up the chicken legs on the plate, the chicken legs instantly turned into golden drumsticks. Just when the king was dejected, his favorite little daughter ran in. The king happily hugged this cute little daughter, but in an instant she also turned into a golden girl.
"Damn it, what kind of golden finger is this? It actually turned my daughters into golden men."
The king roared loudly: "Here comes someone, go and get that "golden fairy" "Catch it back for me!"
But no matter how hard the king searched, he still couldn't find the golden fairy. And he was hungry, thirsty, and lost his beloved little daughter. The king was in great pain, and the "golden finger, golden touch" became a lingering nightmare.
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The Greek philosopher Plato once said In a sentence: “The cruelest treatment to a child is to make him ‘all his wishes come true’.
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Yes, a child who “all his wishes come true” has been growing up under the protection of his parents. He has what he wants, just like “Goldfinger” who always enjoys “all his wishes come true” However, is it a good thing that it has not suffered setbacks? If one day the protective umbrella of the elders can no longer "protect from wind and rain", can everything in life really be "come true"?
A college boy once told me that he The conditions for finding a partner in the future...beautiful and beautiful are a must! And it is best to have a college degree, a villa, a Mercedes-Benz car, and 10 million in cash as a dowry. This way I can reduce my struggle by 20 years. How much some people hope to "save 20 years of struggle", and also hope to have a "golden finger" in life so that "all their wishes can come true." But where is your "fighting spirit"?
Is life just "tea comes and rice comes and mouth opens"? Don't you know that life is "a series of struggles", and only a life full of "high morale" is meaningful!
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Philosophical Story 3
At a banquet, Emperor Taizong of the Tang Dynasty said to Wang Fa : "You are good at identifying talents, especially good at making comments. You might as well start with Fang Xuanling and others, make comments one by one, comment on their strengths and weaknesses, and at the same time compare with them. In what aspects are you better than them? "
Wang Fa replied: "I work tirelessly, work wholeheartedly for the country, and do everything I know with all my heart. In this regard, I am not as good as Fang Xuanling. The emperor bluntly suggested that it would be embarrassing for the emperor to be inferior to Yao and Shun in terms of ability and virtue. In this regard, I am not as versatile as Wei Zheng. He can lead troops to fight as a general and enter the court to manage and serve as prime minister. In this regard, I am not as good as Wei Zheng. I am not as good as Li Jing in reporting state affairs to the emperor in detail, announcing the emperor's orders or conveying reports from subordinate officials, and being fair and impartial. In this regard, I am not as good as Wen Yanbo in handling heavy affairs, solving difficult problems, and doing things in an orderly manner. , I am not as good as Dai Zhou in this regard. As for criticizing corrupt officials, praising honest and honest officials, hating evil as much as hatred, loving good and rejoicing, in this regard, I am better than several other capable people." Emperor Taizong of the Tang Dynasty. They agreed very much with what he said, and the ministers also believed that Wang Fa fully expressed their feelings, and they all said that these comments were correct.
From Wang Fa’s comments, we can see that everyone in Tang Taizong’s team had their own strengths; but more importantly, Tang Taizong was able to apply these people to the most appropriate positions based on their expertise, so that It can use its strengths to make the entire country prosperous and strong.
In the future, the development of an enterprise cannot rely solely on a fixed organizational type. It must have different teams based on the needs of enterprise operation and management. Therefore, every leader must learn how to organize a team, how to control and manage a team. Enterprise organizational leaders should consider the expertise of each employee, arrange appropriate positions, and make flexible adjustments according to the employee's strengths and weaknesses so that the team can maximize its effectiveness.
The task of managers is to know people well and provide them with a balanced and cohesive work organization.
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Philosophical Story Four
The most important thing in employing people is to be good at discovering, exploring and utilizing the skills of your subordinates. If you employ people improperly, you will get twice the result with half the effort; if you employ people properly, you will get twice the result with half the effort.
"Huainan Zidao Yingxun" records that the Chu general Zifa loved to make friends with skilled people and recruited them into his command. A man with an unattractive appearance, known as the "Master Thief", was also treated as a guest of honor. Once, the state of Qi invaded the state of Chu, and Zifa led his army to meet the enemy. After three battles, the Chu army was defeated three times. There are many wise men and brave generals under Zifa, but in front of the powerful Qi army, there is simply nothing they can do. At this time, the thief asked for a fight. Under the cover of night, he stole the sleeping tent of the Qi army coach back.
The next day, Zifa sent an envoy to return the sleeping tent to the commander-in-chief of the Qi army, and said to him: "Our soldiers who went out to collect firewood picked up your curtain and came here to return it." That night, the thief went to return it. The pillow of the Qi army coach was stolen, and Zifa sent someone to return it. On the third night, the thief even stole the hairpin from the head of Qi Jun's coach, but Zifa still sent someone to return it. When the Qi army heard about this, they were very frightened. The commander said to his staff in horror: "If we don't retreat, I'm afraid Zifa will send people to take my head." So the Qi army retreated without a fight. A team always needs a variety of talents. People cannot be excellent in every aspect, but they cannot be bad in every aspect. No matter how inferior a person is, there is always one aspect that is better than others. A successful leader does not lie in how many things he can do, but in his ability to clearly understand the strengths and weaknesses of each subordinate and send "inferior" employees to do the things they are suitable for at the appropriate time. This will often achieve success. Unexpected effect. Similarly, as a leader, you must be tolerant of others, perhaps more appropriately, tolerant of others. Work is work, and you must not mix your own personal preferences. Maybe someone you look down on today will be the right person to turn your career around in the future.
There is no fixed way to use troops, just like water has no fixed flow direction. Those who can win according to changes in the enemy's situation are those who use troops like gods.
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Philosophical Stories 5
"History of the Ming Dynasty" records that once the Emperor Wuzong of the Ming Dynasty Zhu Houzhao visited the south, and Admiral Jiang Bin accompanied him to escort him. Jiang Bin had always wanted to rebel. The soldiers he led were all strong men from the northwest region. They were tall and strong, with strong backs and strong waists, and were as strong as cattle. Qiao Yu, Minister of the Ministry of War, saw that he had evil intentions and selected more than a hundred short and capable martial arts masters from Jiangnan to accompany him.
Qiao Yu and Jiang Bin made an appointment to let these Jiangnan boxers compete with strong men from the northwest. Jiang Bin came south from Kyoto. He was originally arrogant and domineering. However, because his subordinates competed with Jiangnan boxers and suffered repeated defeats, their arrogance suddenly diminished, and they looked very depressed, and their attempts to usurp the throne were also compromised. Qiao Yu uses the strategy of "conquering strength with softness".
This trick is also very useful in business management. People's personalities are all kinds of weird, and everyone in this world has them. If you are a manager, and there happen to be some people in your team who are difficult to manage, and they refuse to take hard and soft policies, what should you do? In fact, using softness to overcome strength is a very good method.
There are reasons for anyone’s uncooperative attitude, either because the treatment is too low, or unfair, or the workload is unevenly distributed, or there are differences in various policies for employees. misunderstandings, and these are all related to you, the manager who makes decisions. Maybe you are not a decision-maker, but just an executor. Then how should you face the dissatisfaction of your subordinates? Some people may say, if he doesn’t obey orders, I will fire him! Is this really the best approach?
You must know that it is easy for a company to fire an employee, and it is not difficult for a company that is not too bad to recruit an employee, but it is really difficult to find a suitable employee. If you lose your job due to such reasons, The loss of some good employees will be a considerable loss to the company, and will directly affect the combat effectiveness of the entire collective.
At this time, the leader needs to use softness to overcome strength. First, admit that the fault lies with him and let him have somewhere to vent his anger. Then, he can use delaying tactics to investigate the cause of the matter. Then, it is not very good to be more targeted. ?
Softness can overcome hardness, and weakness can overcome strength. (The Art of War by Sun Tzu)
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Philosophical Stories 6
Philosophical Stories* Four life stories that you will never regret after reading them
In the early years in Alaska, there was a couple A young man gets married and gives birth to a child. His wife dies in childbirth and leaves behind a child.
He was busy with life and busy with housekeeping. Because no one helped him look after the children, he trained a dog.
One day, the owner went out and asked it to take care of the children.
He went to another village and was unable to come back that day due to heavy snowfall. I rushed home the next day, and the dog immediately heard the sound and came out to greet its owner. He opened the door and saw blood everywhere. When he looked up, there was blood on the bed. The child was missing. The dog was next to him and his mouth was full of blood. When the owner found this situation, he thought the dog had a seizure and ate the child. He was furious. Then, he picked up the knife and slashed the dog's head, killing the dog.
After that, I suddenly heard the child's voice and saw him crawling out from under the bed, so he picked up the child. Although there was blood on his body, he was not injured.
He was very strange and didn’t know what was going on. He looked at the dog’s body again and saw that the meat on the legs was gone. There was a wolf next to him with the dog’s meat in his mouth. The dog saved the little boy. Master, but was accidentally killed by his master. This is really the most amazing misunderstanding in the world.
Note: Misunderstandings often occur when people do not understand, are irrational, impatient, lack thinking, fail to consider each other, reflect on themselves, and are extremely emotional.
From the beginning of the misunderstanding, one always thinks only of the other party’s numerous mistakes; therefore, the misunderstanding will get deeper and deeper, reaching the point of being out of control. If a person misunderstands an ignorant animal puppy, it is even worse. There will be such terrible and serious consequences, and the consequences of such misunderstandings between people are even more unimaginable.
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Philosophical Story 7
Kan Da:
This is the story of a soldier who just returned from the Vietnam War. He called his parents from San Francisco and told them, "Mom and Dad, I'm back, but I have a favor to ask. I want to bring a friend home with me." "Of course!" they replied. "We will be happy to see you."
But the son continued, "But there is something I want to tell you first. He was seriously injured in the Vietnam War and lost an arm and a foot. He is desperate now, and I want to ask him to come back and live with us."
"Son, I'm so sorry, but maybe we can help him find a place to live." The father continued, "Son, You don't know what you are talking about. People with disabilities like him will put a lot of burden on our lives. We have our own lives to live, and we can't just let him ruin it. I suggest you go home first. Forget him, he will find his own piece of sky."
At this moment? l hung up the phone and his parents never heard from him again.
A few days later, the parents received a call from the San Francisco Police Department, telling them that their beloved son had fallen and died. Police believe this is a simple suicide. So they heartbrokenly flew to San Francisco, where they were led to a stop by the police? time to identify his son's body.
That was indeed their son, but what was surprising was that his son only had one arm and one leg.
The parents in this story are just like most of us. It's easy to like people who are good-looking or funny, but it's much harder to like people who cause us inconvenience and discomfort. We would always rather keep our distance from those who are not as healthy, beautiful or smart as us.
But thank God, some people will not be so cruel to us. They love us without regrets and are always willing to accept us no matter how bad we are. Please pray to God before you go to sleep tonight? Give you the strength to accept others no matter who they are; please? Help us understand those who are different from us.
There is a magical thing called "friendship" hidden in everyone's heart. You don't know how and when it happens, but you know that it will always bring us special gifts. .
You will also understand that friendship is the most precious gift from God to us! Friends are like rare treasures. They bring laughter and inspire us to succeed. They listen to our hearts and share every compliment with us.
Their hearts are always open for us. Tell your friends now how much you care about them.
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Just imagine: friend, after you watch all the way; It must be a deep feeling. So, before making decisions and judgments about others, first of all, please think about whether this is a "misunderstanding", and then, please consider whether you must drive this "nail". If you can, please "wait a little while."
Because when you are "forgiving" to others, you are being "forgiving" to yourself.