It’s not that I like it, but I see through the ugly side of people, and I look down on fame and fortune. In order to get ahead, the world is staged one after another with disturbing, shocking, and intrigues, and I am tired of it and have no choice but to retreat.
Being alone goes against the human nature of being a social animal. In the early days, in order to avoid being hunted by ferocious carnivores, great apes gathered together with a tacit understanding to survive and hunted and defended the beasts for survival. This is the original intention of human nature.
However, as the number of hunters increases, differences arise in the utilization and distribution of surplus value. As a result, intrigues and deceitful clowns appear on the scene. People are suspicious of each other. From then on, a crisis of trust sweeps across the land, creating estrangement. It has also deepened that the human situation is getting worse and worse, as thin as paper, and the sun is getting thinner, so I have to be alone and seek peace and quiet, stay away from the world's right and wrong, and enjoy a quiet day every day.
Some people like to be alone, maybe because during the day, they are with work leaders, colleagues, relatives, friends, classmates, etc. at work. Frequent contact, transactions, entertainment, and food, drink, and fun among various interpersonal relationships. It made me dizzy, exhausted physically and mentally. When I got home, I just wanted to be alone in a room, quiet and quiet. Read a book, watch TV, play with your mobile phone, etc. without anyone disturbing you. So that you can completely relax.
Second, people who like to be alone will feel particularly comfortable and at ease when alone. When you are alone, you can do what you want to do, and you can quietly think about things you didn't understand during the day. Actually, I usually like to be alone.
To be alone means not to expect anything from others, but to rely on yourself for everything. No matter what you do, you do it alone. Being alone is a kind of helplessness and a kind of ability. If it is excessive, it becomes a disease, that is autism. Whether people like it or not, they have to accept the baptism of being alone. There is a popular saying: "If you rely on a mountain, you will fall; if you rely on everyone, you will run away." Therefore, people can only rely on themselves, and they can only rely on themselves.
If a person has a large life circle, lives a pleasant life, has many relatives or friends, and they are all reliable, willing to be with others, and willing to be relied on, but, Their companionship, protection, support and help can only be temporary, not lifelong. One day, they will leave one by one, and then they will have to rely on themselves. This is a kind of helplessness.
If a person lives in a low point in life, hungry, cold, and destitute, in such a difficult time, no one else can help except his closest family members, because others will not be willing. You can't expect others to pay attention to you either. Besides, how long can my family help? Maybe they will look down on themselves. Who else can you count on to help then? This is also a kind of helplessness.
Being alone is not just for the poor, the rich also have to be alone a lot. They are not short of money, have no worries about food, and have no worries about clothing. They have everything they want, and they can even control the situation and change the situation. So who among the rich wouldn’t want to curry favor with them? There are many people who want to make some money or get some glory. But they don't care about it. They are willing to work quietly and study alone. This is a kind of ability and a kind of happiness.
Although many people like to be alone, no one really likes to be alone all the time. Occasionally, they will gather with relatives and friends to chat. But if a person stays for a long time, he will think a lot, a lot, real, false, useful, and useless. Thinking... thinking... troubles and sorrows will slowly come over, but he doesn't want to Tell others and hold in your discomfort.
So, being alone is not necessarily a good thing. There must be a limit to being alone, because "things will inevitably turn to their extremes, or they will be at their best." If you realize that you have a problem, you must go out for a walk, chat with relatives and friends or go out to play, participate in various activities or organize group tours. If not, hypochondriacal autism sets in.
I hope that people who like to be alone can open their hearts and find the person they like, those relatives or friends, to kneel down and talk freely. Don’t let yourself always feel deserted, don’t let yourself feel lonely, don’t let yourself feel forgotten by the world, because some things are not as terrible as you imagine. Only by communicating more and understanding more can you know who cares. You care about you.