Let's talk about your relationship.
Love is a very delicate thing, which pursues the beauty of mutual recognition and enjoyment. It is by no means unilateral, so it is really painful and tiring to pay unilaterally for a long time. What you have to do at this time is to relax yourself first. Don't fall into this girl and this unpleasant period, and don't come out hastily.
First of all, relax yourself and think about whether you really want to give up this girl. Now you don't regret giving up You are tired, but you have survived. Are you heartbroken because you gave up? Hang out with smart and beautiful girls and see what it feels like. More ambivalence in my heart? If you want to try again, maybe the following words can help you a little.
You should quietly grasp the details to recall the past between you two. What you need to know is how girls feel about you. These can be expressed through words and deeds.
Do you really have no affection for you, or are you deliberately ambiguous because you are used to being nice to her, or do you like her but refuse for economic reasons? Rejection can also be divided into two types: resolute rejection and wavering heart. If you don't like it, you've really worked hard for a year, so get out at this time, my friend.
And like ambiguity, this girl will be unstable one day, but maybe you can take a dose of strong medicine, because in fact she is eager for your concern, but we outsiders can't accurately know your subtlety and this girl's personality characteristics. But it wasn't just a sudden indifference for a week. You can tell her that you are tired, calm down, tell her to give each other one last chance and see her reaction.
If you feel emotionally available, you can make a final effort. In other words, this is very objective for economic problems.
You need to sit down and have a good talk with her, tell her your efforts and your psychological feelings in this year as peacefully and in detail as possible, and then tell her your financial situation more accurately (if it is convenient), help her analyze her own situation, and let her also let you know whether you will be stable and happy for a long time if you communicate on the premise of marriage. Give her some more time. If she still refuses you decisively, then tell her clearly that you are tired, stop chasing, and ask her if she will give you a chance. If not, then my friend, you really should leave. After all, if she is in contact or even married, the economy will be greatly hurt. Sooner or later, the psychological dissatisfaction between her and her family will go wrong, and the loss will outweigh the gain. You are so young, maybe the economy is not very good, but you have a heart of self-reliance and struggle, and your conditions may be excellent among your peers and people around you. You can find someone who values and appreciates you emotionally, to say the least.
Are your personalities emotionally compatible? Do girls think it is insurmountable to look at economic problems? It's not easy to fall in love with someone. You took care of it for a year. I hope you cherish your efforts, try to get to know her and give you one last chance. I also hope that you can show the courage and decisiveness of a mature man, and put it down when it is time to put it down.
I hope you can find a way out for yourself as soon as possible
It's too late to talk so much. You can talk to me again if you like.
:)