Men test women's routines. Everyone will try their best to test each other when they are in love, but boys choose a more "no" way, but remember that blind testing may miss the fate. Let's look at the way men test women.
The routine of men and women 1 1. Body contact
Generally speaking, women don't like to have any physical contact with others. However, when a woman doesn't reject a man's approach to some unintentional physical contact, she may have some joy, so to some extent, she may like it.
If you have some physical contact with the woman you like, she will react like this. To some extent, she may have a crush on you.
2. Number of encounters
Although it is said that there are thousands of miles to meet, fate is something that people have to maintain. When a woman feels uneasy because of your chance encounter, and even avoids you slowly, then maybe she doesn't like you.
When you meet more times, she won't refuse you, and she will get along with you normally. In a way, she doesn't hate you.
Step 3 explore this topic
Exploring the topic may be a more direct way. For some people, they understand each other's words, but they still play dumb.
Just like a man keeps asking women what they think of love and men. In a sense, men are looking at women's feelings about themselves in this way.
Male test female routine 2 1. Test yourself how likely it is to catch up with you.
Everyone knows that men love face, so he must consider the success rate before doing things. Things with high success rate will attract them to do it constantly. The same is true of chasing girls. He must first find out how successful he is in catching up with you, then make a "risk assessment" and decide whether to continue to invest time, energy or money in chasing you. How will they test?
Give some chestnuts: He may send a message saying, "I happen to have two tickets for the amusement park here. Are you free to go this weekend? " It may also send you a link to the review network, saying, "This store has a good evaluation. Have time to try it together? " Or walk side by side in the park, and he will tentatively give you a shoulder to see your reaction and so on.
When a boy is testing you, if you happen to have a good impression on him, you should give him some signals of "being free" and that you are also interested in him, suggesting that as long as he "behaves" well enough, he will have a full chance to catch up with you and stimulate his desire to conquer.
Note: This is essentially different from posting. Smart women understand, open their arms and tighten their thighs.
2。 Test whether you are worth letting him "invest"
Before a girl decides whether to join a relationship or not, in order to protect herself, she will definitely test whether this boy is worthy of her own investment, whether he is a "central air-conditioner" love rat, and see if a girl will treat all the women around her kindly and love each other. In fact, boys are the same. Although it is generally believed that men are dominant emotionally, everyone is busy now. No one is too busy to run out of time, energy and money. Whether the other party is "green tea" or not, they will "invest" regardless of the cost, right?
Therefore, boys will also consider the issue of security. When he feels insecure, he will test you, hoping to get an answer that will make him feel secure.
But many girls often ignore this kind of psychology of boys. When a boy tentatively asks, "You are so good, are there many people chasing you?" At that time, their answer turned out to be "Yes, there are many people chasing me, so you should be good to me". On the surface, it seems to affirm your charm and create a sense of urgency for the other person, but you touch your heart and say that if you ask your boyfriend the same question, he will give the same answer. What's on your mind? You will only feel more insecure. Well, don't you think the chances are slim and move the target in time?
In fact, when he tests you, what you have to do is to give your boyfriend a reassurance and make him feel safe, so that he will cherish you more.
3。 Test your bottom line and fight for yourself at the same time.
There is room for bargaining with you.
H's boyfriend once took a friend back to the house they shared to watch a football match, and he was still yelling after midnight. He must have had a bad rest, but he had to go to work the next day. Most people will lose their temper, but in order to give her boyfriend face, H not only failed to express his emotions correctly with her boyfriend, but also swallowed it blindly. I covered my head with a quilt and spent the night in a daze. She thinks that as long as she gives her boyfriend enough tolerance and understanding, her boyfriend will feel guilty and will take the initiative to consider her.
But later, my boyfriend felt that she agreed to bring her friends home, and the frequency of bringing her friends home became higher and higher. If it affects the rest, she will keep complaining because her boyfriend is pushing her luck, and in the end she will live as an "dissatisfied wife", and her boyfriend will definitely not be able to stay.
H's boyfriend's practice was to test H's tolerance for himself at first, and found that H had no bottom line and could continue to "bargain" with her. Anyway, even if it's too much, H won't leave, of course, it's getting more and more headstrong every day.
If you encounter a situation like H, you must not tolerate that your boyfriend has no bottom line, because doing so will only make him push his luck, and you will be more and more unbearable. When you can't stand it, it's the day you break up!
No matter how much you love each other, always remember your bottom line and stick to your own framework. You have to have a standard for what can be discussed and what can't be discussed. Love needs equality and respect, and those who love themselves can get the love of others. What kind of good men can those who endlessly try to lower your bottom line be?
So if the other person's initial temptation makes you feel uncomfortable, you must express your emotions in time and don't give him a chance to lower his bottom line.
Male test female routine 3 take the initiative to attack
In life, most people may think that initiative should be a man's patent, but if you have such an attitude, it is all wet.
Because women's initiative will also make men love you more.
In the movie Fangfang, Alex is a very insecure person about love, because he fell in love with Fangfang by accident, but he never invited Fangfang on a date, and he doesn't know how to express his love.
Until one day, Fangfang took her boyfriend home directly and said that she was getting married in front of Alex. In the face of all this, Alex is very hard to accept, because the protagonist of all this should be him, but now it is such an ending. In fact, through this incident, we can understand a truth, that is, love should be timely.
If you can't speak your love boldly, it's hard for you to capture happiness.
In the face of love, it is not a bad thing to take the initiative, because he is much better than regret.
Get ready for the surprise
In the movie Pupil of the Beast, when Louis Koo gave a girl a present, the other party opened the curtain, only to find that it was a refrigerator. At this time, the girl suddenly became unhappy and complained directly: "Which man gave the woman the refrigerator? Can you be romantic? "
But when the girl opened the refrigerator, she found it was full of her favorite flowers.
Women like surprises and romance, and so do men?
When women take the initiative to prepare surprises and romance for men, they will also make men feel happy and beautiful.
Sweet words are the catalyst of feelings.
In the most emotional world, a stubborn person will eventually lose a lot of things.
Undeniably, everyone will have their own emotional catharsis, but when they vent their emotions, they should also have certain appropriate limits, because if they hurt people too much, once they say it, they will be water under the bridge.
Women should learn to be gentle and give more care to men, which will also make him care more about you.
Giving men some sweet words from time to time will also make men even more at a loss.
We haven't seen a movie together for a long time. Compared with when we first fell in love, this state is not what I want. This is the complaint of a reader backstage not long ago.