It is said that when marrying a wife, you must not marry a woman who has a younger brother. I didn’t believe it at first. It wasn’t until I married my wife that I understood what it means to truly “support a younger brother.”
My wife’s natal family is in the city. Both parents are retired, but they all have pensions, which is more than 4,000 a month for each person. Now I am re-employed by the company, and I still have salary.
But My wife always feels that her parents are working too hard. She earns some money and sends it home. One day she will buy this for her father, and the next she will buy something for her mother. I am not against buying anything for my parents. The key is that you buy it every week. This doesn't make sense. Why don't you buy them for my parents? And you can buy it with the money you earn. Are you really good at living? You can buy it with both of our wages?
When my wife and I got married, we gave her a gift of RMB 100,000. My mother-in-law’s family never refunded a penny. It was originally agreed that we would be given a car as a gift. This was not a good idea. The car was given as a gift. But it belongs to my brother-in-law, and the monthly gas card, annual insurance premiums, and car maintenance fees have all become my wife’s exclusive property. My brother-in-law treats my house as a free parking lot, and comes only when parking, and the rest of the time. The car is not there. If the car is parked somewhere, it must be out of gas or there may be something wrong!
And your brother wants to start a business. The first time he started a business was to start a food court. You gave your brother all our savings! In the end, the compensation was a mess, and I didn’t get a penny in exchange. When I asked, I didn’t have any money. It’s been several years. Did I say anything? Now that you finally have some savings, you use them to start a business for your brother. Have you ever said hello to me?
We are also family members. It’s too expensive to buy something at my house. It’s not good here. What’s not good about it? I can’t bear to part with it. I spent a hundred yuan to buy a piece of clothing for my mother, but you kept telling me for a long time that it’s too expensive. !
To your dad, your mom, or even your brother, you should spend three to five hundred... I can understand you, you want to express yourself in front of your family and relatives, so that People think you are filial and good to your parents, so you might as well find a son-in-law! But you have to understand one thing, do what you can. Your monthly salary is used to supplement the family income, and even all our savings are used to supplement our parents’ family. How do we live on, and how do we live if something happens to us? How will my parents live if anything happens? Have you considered it?
Now I am ready to divorce my wife. Anyway, I don’t have that much money to support your whole family. I don’t care if anyone wants to marry such a woman!
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