Why are women willful?

Many people know that willfulness is a woman's patent, but all women will not play small temper in front of lovers. So, what is the psychological truth behind women's willfulness? Let's have a look. American psychologist William Kirk's research shows that willfulness is a manifestation of psychological needs. Women pay more attention to relationships and are most afraid of being abandoned. Therefore, women's anger, publicity and unruly waywardness are only due to women's desire for love and relationships. They just want to attract each other's attention, eager for each other's care and love, and test their position and weight in each other's minds. No woman will spoil a man without feelings as a foreshadowing. Men should understand that in fact, a woman's willfulness depends not on whether you are willing to tolerate her, but on whether you love her or not. How much do you love her? The wayward behavior pattern of women may be due to the excessive connivance and connivance of the nurturers in childhood. Psychological research shows that the acquired environment plays a decisive role in the generation and formation of willfulness. Generally speaking, people who grew up in a pampered environment have superior conditions, those who are only taken care of by others, and those who have always accepted and rarely given are most likely to form wayward characters. Some parents suffered a lot in childhood and always want to make compensation for their children. They spoil their children blindly, so that the relationship between family members is reversed, and the children become the masters of the family, unconsciously forming a sense of "self-centeredness", thus forming a selfish and willful character. Judging from the interaction between husband and wife, women's willfulness is "used" by men. Generally speaking, a wife with a bad memory must have a husband with a good memory, and a husband who doesn't like cleanliness must have a wife who loves cleanliness too much. Similarly, behind a wayward and unruly wife, there must be a tolerant husband. Every time the wife is willful and loses her temper for no reason, the husband is patient and tolerant, and her willfulness is positively strengthened by her expected results, which invisibly intensifies her willfulness. Gradually, such a vicious interactive relationship pattern has been formed between husband and wife. Willfulness doesn't matter whether it's good or bad. It's normal for a woman to have a little temper, and there's nothing wrong with willfulness. A woman who skillfully uses willful tricks occasionally pouts and says, "No, that's what I want." This kind of little pride and cuteness will become a condiment for the relationship between the two sexes, adding a little interest to each other's lives and making men excited from the bones. However, the measure of women's willfulness must be within the tolerance of men. You know, men may tolerate you occasionally, but they will never accommodate you for a long time. For women, don't take willfulness as a killer weapon against men. Occasionally willful, women need to properly grasp the coquetry skills and the psychological endurance of the other party, and know which areas are safer and which ones are best avoided. As a man, when women are willful, we should have an insight into women's psychological needs and give them psychological satisfaction. However, there should be a limit to men's tolerance, and they should not give in blindly, so as not to give a positive reinforcement to women's willful behavior.