Positive statement: from the physiological characteristics, men are more likely to show initiative than women in many aspects, so they are more likely to be tired. For example, sitting in a chair, the average level of calories consumed by men per minute is much higher than that of women, and so is any other exercise. In fact, this is one of the reasons why men live shorter than women. Even in the second [this is a dirty word, filtered: classic forum], in most cases, men take the initiative. Moreover, it is more difficult for men to take the initiative than women in this respect. There is a saying: "Men chase women, 1 pay10; Women chasing men, 1 2. " What do you mean? It shows that the success rate of men chasing women is low, so if you make a bet, you have a better chance of winning. If boys want to catch up with girls, they must have charm and means, both rhetoric and warmth and romance. That's not enough. Sometimes, "men are not bad, women don't love", and you can't even be a good person. Comrades, we are either complaining or being tired! Even women themselves have become one of the reasons why men are tired.
Opponents may retort that women try their best to seek men's good feelings, but who says nothing is tiring?
Refute this positively: ask the other defense friend to consider the problem from the perspective of reciprocity; Men also want to please women and even take the initiative to pursue them, so men are willing to use whatever means women are willing to take. However, in the end, it was men who took the initiative, so it was men who were more tired.
Positive statement: As far as social identity is concerned, if a man wants to raise his head in front of everyone, he must have "ambition" ("male" heart, why not say "female" heart? It can be seen that this kind of social identity has penetrated into our language. Who wants to live with his head down all his life? Men must "fight for life" in order to realize their ambitions. It's not just about bringing home the bacon. Men must pursue career progress, successful love and beautiful family. ..... pursuing all kinds of things that social identity requires men to pursue, and also pursuing the balance between all kinds of pursuits. Men are tired.
Opponents may think that in modern society, women are also economically independent and need to earn money to support their families. Women are relatively weak, and women are more tired under the same conditions. What's more, there is gender discrimination at work, whether it's work or housework, and so on.
The positive side refutes this point: not only in modern society, since ancient times, men have played the role of the main practitioners of social production activities since the era of fishing, hunting and farming, so men replaced women in the matriarchal era and occupied the dominant position in society. Until modern society, people who have made great contributions in various fields or represented the highest level are mostly men. The objective root of this inequality between men and women is the contradiction between the gender difference of human ability and the demand of social development for human ability. It should be said that the needs of social development have arranged the respective destinies of men and women. Although the social division of labor between men and women tends to be neutral in modern society, men also do housework and women earn money to support their families. But people appreciate men's intelligence and women's beauty more, and the emphasis is still different. Cleverness depends on hard study and hard thinking, while beauty is an innate privilege or a masterpiece of transformation. The development of social productive forces depends more and more directly on people's creative labor. Therefore, fatigue has become the carrier of men's natural destiny. When most men are as keen on shopping as most women, the world will be completely neutral. Before that, men always have to bear more burdens.
The opponent may think that women are suffering from childbirth, and women are at a disadvantage in social competition, which reflects various phenomena in which women live in pain. ...
Positive retort: (It is very painful for women to have children, and it is also very hard for men to take care of the month. ) In modern society, men and women have their own hardships, so who is more bitter? Comrades, this is not the topic we are going to discuss today. I want to remind other debaters clearly that our debate today is about who is more tired, not who is more bitter! Fatigue and pain are two different categories. If the other party dares to take the relationship between bitterness and tiredness seriously, they are required to give a clear and detailed definition of these two concepts and explain their differences and connections. If the other party does not comply, accuse the other party of taking unclear questions as arguments; If the other party takes over, simply find out the flaw and try to point out that the other party is confusing some concepts, biting "death" and accusing the other party of digressing. 】 【 not only to dominate the topic, but also to create momentum. At least you can fish in troubled waters and successfully refute it. It's best to let the other person fall once. ]
Opponents may argue that men are capable and good at resolving stress. Therefore, although men are burdened, they are not tired. Good man ("model husband"? ) Willing to bear heavy burdens and not feeling tired.
The positive side retorts that only God can "dissolve" stress. With magical and supernatural power, the pressure is eliminated at once. We don't have the ability. As human beings, we can only "bear" pressure. Very few optimistic people may be very good at withstanding pressure. But such people are only a few after all, and cannot represent more than 3 billion men in the world. Our debate today should be aimed at most people, and such an extreme and individual example is simply not enough. Most men are still mediocre, and stress will make them feel tired. Men participate in more social and economic activities, so they bear more social pressure, which makes them more tired than women.
Opponents may argue that society provides fewer and fewer opportunities for women, and women are getting more and more tired in order to win opportunities.
Positive rebuttal: a person with few opportunities, we can say that he lives harder, but we can't assume that he lives more tired. Everyone in society, including men and women, strives for their own living space at different levels. But in fact, the so-called struggle is more about personal performance when opportunities come. If the opportunity doesn't exist at all, there is no way to play, no place to play, and no way to get tired. Some successful men like to show their busy, tired and proud in front of their friends. He is busy and tired, which shows that he is displaying his talents and his career is thriving. And a person who has no chance to be busy, whether male or female, can't get tired even if he wants to. Society gives men more reasons to be tired, rather than giving women such opportunities. Since there is no tired stage at all, how can you be tired?
The opponent may argue that women's feelings are fragile and they feel tired easily.
Refute this point head-on: the ideal man should be strong, and they can tolerate more fatigue without even admitting it. But do men feel slower than women? Men will also feel tired, but social identity requires men to be more forbearing and not to vent their fatigue. Women can enjoy more ways to vent. Spoiling and splashing water is a woman's patent, and crying is more handy. Men can't do this, so some worthless men turn to alcoholism and violence. Aren't they ashamed? Not really, but they need to vent. It can be seen that men are more tired
In modern society, women are tired and men are more tired. I believe that male compatriots have a deep understanding. Let's talk about the pain in our hearts.
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Compared with the traditional society, the modern society is different from the traditional society in the improvement of women's status and the expansion of women's power. The improvement of women's ability. An increase in women's income. Women walk out of the house and hold up half the sky. Men should be more relaxed. Communication blog-the correspondent's own blog! & ampK4H0y？ O5I
Actually, it is not. Because of the rise of women, men are squeezed into the cracks of Du Hui: on the one hand, the concept of modern society still advocates that men are strong and women are weak; On the other hand, it is a social reality that women pursue equality and stand up and compete with men everywhere. Men can do it today, and so can women; Women do well, but men can't stand it. It is difficult for a man to keep up with a woman, so he slaps his face and pretends that he is better than a woman. Are men tired? Communication blog-the correspondent's own blog! Pu-MA7b8@？
First, men have to face the pressure of family. Although it is a modern society, it is natural to earn money to support the family. Who has ever seen a wife earn more than her husband, and his husband is still smug outside? Communication blog-the correspondent's own blog! v，W }； ^,y/v
Second, men have to face social pressure. Men's ability is not necessarily stronger than women's, but the responsibility of doing things is often heavier than women's. It is obviously a knife, but it is difficult for a person to cut down a big tree. Are men tired? Communication blog-the correspondent's own blog! Ks|5}ks mwwU*k
Third, men have to face the competition of women, and men are not convinced when they lose to men. The man lost to the woman. Do you think he can take it orally? Even in the face of the same pressure, women can cry, can men cry? Will you cry? As the saying goes, men don't cry lightly. Even if a man has pain, he can only swallow it in his stomach. Communication blog-the correspondent's own blog! j3B5OC9D
Keller, a contemporary (foreign) sociologist, tells us a fact: because men are not good at discharging inner pressure, the smoking rate is many times that of women, the alcoholism rate is 14 times that of women, and the suicide rate is three times that of women; As the great writer Liang Qichao said, it is subjective, not objective.
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You don't have to be tired in the face of difficulties, nor do you have to be tired in the face of pressure. Tired that you can't solve this kind of pressure. In modern society, men are in such an embarrassing situation. Women can demand something from men, but at the same time they also put forward higher requirements for men. Men have less power, but they do a lot of work, and all the rough and dirty work must be done ... communication blog-correspondent's own blog! O * jq # Little Az
Look at these people in the office today. I'm exhausted and more tired. But when I said "men are more tired in modern society", they immediately refuted me. I have to rack my brains to shout for women. Are they tired? If you still don't believe me. It depends on whether men will stand up and show that "men in modern society are more tired."