We often hear women say that they want to find a solid arm to lean on for comfort and stability. Actually, I need a man. He is not looking for an arm stronger than himself, but looking for a soft, weak but warm perch so that he can rest safely.
The dependence of men is different from that of women. His dependence comes from a gentle greeting, a simple intimacy, a woman's delicate coquetry, and a woman's comfort of caring and complaining.
Sometimes a man needs a woman's nagging, a woman's complaining and a woman's endless talk about her day's experience. You may see a big man lying in a woman's arms, listening to her story, just like a child listening to his mother's story so seriously and so sleepy. They listen to women, not to know anything, but to listen to music and enjoy an expression of their lover.
Men need to know a little and care a little, even trivial problems are also a kind of beauty.
Some people say that they hate their women's nagging, which is true, because this woman's nagging is a topic that annoys men, which really makes men feel that they are not listening to their women's nagging, but listening to a kind of noise.
Men are afraid of loneliness. Scared than a woman. They are afraid that their women will stop talking and saying what they think. They are afraid that their women will leave, even if they leave for a short time.
Men's dependence also comes from attachment and loyalty to feelings. They think attachment and loyalty to feelings are more important than anything else, because they are most afraid of backyard fire, because it will make them lose a belief that life is the meaning. The meaning of life comes from loyalty to human nature. Once a person feels the lack of humanity, he will feel that there is nothing worthy of trust in this world, and then he will become a walking corpse, and there will be no happiness from then on.
Men's dependence also comes from respect. They believe that mutual emotional respect is second only to loyalty and attachment to feelings. They believe that all feelings come from persistent loyalty and mutual respect. This respect comes from obscure words, but what is lacking is a sense of grand ceremony. Maybe it's a simple birthday present, maybe it's a simple act, all to respect yourself. Sometimes they don't need anything so specific, they just need a heartfelt concern. This man is vain and pragmatic.
Men cry like women when they are most sad and frustrated. This is just an exit. At this time, there is only one action for a woman-touch her head, say a few words of comfort, don't go away, and enjoy silence with him is enough.
Men are sometimes very troublesome, but they are not as real as women. They all do it in secret and say nothing.
Men are also fragile, because they bear more than women, even women who are stronger than men will not bear more than men, because men are the carriers created by God to bear, and you can't escape!