To tell you the truth, son, I have been reluctant to write this letter to you. It's not that my mother has nothing to say to her son who is about to grow up, but that I have been rejecting the reality that you are about to grow up.
Because this means that your plump wings will no longer be satisfied with the narrow nest I built for you, which means that my limited ability can no longer satisfy your endless exploration of the future. For eighteen years, I have been used to having you around me and you in my nest. Accustomed to our mother's filial piety, life is sweet.
Well, I admit that you have grown up now. You have begun to handle your own affairs independently with your own will and wisdom to meet the first severe test in the coming life journey. This will be a comprehensive measure of all your intelligence and physical strength over the past eight years. I believe you will succeed!
Son, I don't want to talk about responsibility, independence, gratitude or even love with you here. Because as nouns, you are already familiar with them. It takes a lifetime to understand the true meaning of these nouns. Mom is gratified that up to today, you are a good boy, a little man, responsible, independent and loving the world. He will be a real man in the future. I believe that in the future, no matter in society, organization or family, you can shoulder the moral burden and hold up a brilliant sky for the people behind you. I have never doubted this!
But you have shortcomings, and fragility exists in some corners of your heart. Maybe love is too deep to care about, maybe responsibility is contrary to perfection. You know, many times, too much consideration for others will also affect the cooperation process, and it is easy to miss the chance of success if you expect it.
So when you are an adult, I will give you six words from Gang Qilian: "Don't abandon, don't give up". May they accompany you through the long years to come.
Finally, mother said to you: Son, mother loves you.
Letters written by parents to their children at bar mitzvah.
From today, you will step into the ranks of adults, and your parents sincerely wish you! Youth and happiness coexist in Qi Fei, while ambition and struggle coexist. 18 years old, in the prime of life, is also a new milestone in life. You have stepped into the ranks of adults, which means that you will take on greater responsibilities from now on, and continue to mature and practice your glory and dreams on the stage of social life in the new century of 2 1.
Birds can't fly high and don't know the width of the blue sky; People don't travel far and don't know the size of the world. 18 years old, young and beautiful, like a poem and a dream, with infinite scenery. It's up to you to raise your ideal wings and fly high. But it is parents' greatest wish to live a stable and happy life on their own. My parents wrote this letter to you on the important day of your eighteenth birthday. I believe you have seen it clearly. You have reached a very important stage on the road to rich life. The scenery of life in the future will gradually increase, and the stories will gradually increase. The road of life in the future will be long and rich.
Mom still wants to tell you the truth of our predecessors, which may help you in your later life. Grateful return: this is the basic principle of being a man. Remember: "The grace of dripping water is the reward of spring." At every moment of your life, anyone around you will be kind to you.
More or less helpful. Positive, even negative, learn to thank those who have hurt you, at least it can let you learn from setbacks and learn to protect yourself. Helping others and being kind to others: this is the basic morality of being a man. As the saying goes, "Give someone a rose, leave a lingering fragrance in your hand". Keep a kind heart and try your best to help others, and you will be happy while helping others.
Tolerance and understanding: this is the basic quality of being a man. We should consider the problem from each other's point of view, instead of taking ourselves as the center, we should take care of the overall situation, especially when we get along with friends, and we should carefully understand that suffering is the meaning of happiness. Be content: This is a good way to do things. Don't go to extremes in everything, no matter what, you will find something satisfactory, and that is contentment.
Giving up is the dialectical relationship between giving up and getting. Firmly believe: "He who does nothing will do anything". Taste the true meaning of "getting is a blessing, being willing to give up is a blessing, and contentment is the happiest"! Modesty and sincerity: this is the virtue of being a man. There must be a teacher in a threesome. An inch long, a foot short. No matter what you do, you must be humble first, move people with your feelings and move people with your heart.
Caution: This is the philosophy of doing things. "If you talk too much, you will lose." Remember to exaggerate and be honest. Think twice before you do something and avoid reckless behavior. Strong and persistent: this is the secret of success. In the long journey of life, you may experience unexpected bumps and thorns, and those who can split the thorns and reach the other side of the ideal must be strong and persistent. Son, you are only a few days away from the college entrance examination. Dad really wants you to meditate.
Peace of mind, care and concentration, complete the last wonderful journey of high school study and life, and draw a perfect end to 15' s course of studying hard and pursuing his learning dream!
Letters written by parents to their children at bar mitzvah.
Time flies, time flies. The baby who once studied English has grown into a slim girl in a blink of an eye. In six days, you will usher in an important day in your life-your eighteenth birthday. From this day on, you will gradually bid farewell to shyness and move forward generously; Say goodbye to naivety and move towards maturity; Say goodbye to femininity and meet responsibility; Say goodbye to middle school and enter the university; Gradually leave your parents and move towards independence.
You are a sensible child, with a little feminine taste of an only child, and you have never let your parents worry more since childhood. Some of the cleverness you played when you were a child is often found because your father is too clever and makes you feel depressed. Three years of high school life made me understand that the little girl in our family is also very independent.
In the past three years, the biting cold wind and hot summer at the top of Dongshan Mountain have made us worry about whether you can persist. Time has proved that you are as good as your classmates. Who said that the only child is only delicate? You are also strong. During the three years in Guiyang Experimental No.3 Middle School, the teachers' selfless and noble professionalism showed us that you gained confidence in learning, happiness in growth and healthy happiness while gaining knowledge. We made the right choice in Guiyang Experimental No.3 Middle School.
/kloc-after 0/8 years old, in another month, you will meet the big exam in June with your classmates and accept the selection of colleges and universities. Three years of high school career, although there is a gap with outstanding students, but you work hard to make progress. At this time, if we work harder, we will be satisfied with the result.
Your parents just gave you material conditions to study. No matter how you develop in the future, you should thank the principal for creating a good style of study and the teachers for their careful training. You know, the young Guiyang Experimental No.3 Middle School has become a first-class prestigious school in the province in just a few years. You should thank Experiment 3 for giving you three precious years. Remember and proudly tell people that you are students of Guiyang Experimental No.3 Middle School.
After I am eighteen, I will bid farewell to my high school days and cherish the profound friendship I have forged with my teachers and classmates in high school for three years. No matter where you go and what you do in the future, you will miss your alma mater, eternal teacher and former classmates at the top of Dongshan Mountain.
Dad spent his middle school days in a county middle school. After more than 20 years, students love their alma mater, respect their teachers and care about their classmates. The times and environment in which we live are not the same as today, and it is much more difficult than yours, but the pressure we suffered at that time was less than yours. Both my parents have gone through the college entrance examination and received a good higher education. They know that higher education has a far-reaching impact on people's lives. We don't expect much from you. Just let nature take its course, do your best, learn what you want to learn and do what you are interested in. Dad will always support you and move on easily!
Some words, you may not understand at the age of eighteen, you need to absorb knowledge and enrich it in the future, you need to improve your experience and experience, and you need rich experience and constant understanding. Dad believes that his daughter will be happier, healthier, more sunny and more motivated after she is eighteen!
Letters written by parents to their children at bar mitzvah.
Looking at your childish and mature smiling face, we are surprised that the baby who croaked 18 years ago has grown into a big girl of 18 years old, and we lament the hard work and happiness of nearly 19 spring and autumn!
Up to now, you were born seven days ago, and you fought with your mother because you didn't take medicine. You played cats in Songwu for six months and learned English for eight months. 1 year-old toddler. You must not remember these things, but we will never forget them. Because you are our baby, after a busy day, you have brought us infinite happiness. ...
We don't think our daughter is a genius, but we have a clear conscience to say that we have made efforts to cultivate our daughter into a good child who studies consciously and develops in an all-round way
In order to keep you from falling behind when you are sick, your mother will be your teacher and help you with your homework. I remember you had a fever in primary school and asked for three days off. Under the guidance of your mother, you got the only double percentage in the school on the first day of school. In order to get you into a good junior high school, dad went to various middle schools for consultation; In order to let you exercise your ability to live independently and see the world independently, mom and dad took out a large sum of money to send you to study in the United States for one year. After a year of exercise, we got a more mature, self-reliant, grateful and considerate daughter, and we feel happier!
Mom and dad are both intellectuals, and we have also seen the growth of young intellectuals around us. Our social experience tells us that "intelligence" is very important, but "emotional intelligence" is more important. Without high emotional intelligence, no matter how high the IQ is, it will not get along with people and will not play a role. We don't need our daughter to become an insensitive "bookworm".
We support you to participate in various public welfare activities: we support you to participate in the school choir, that is, to learn vocal music and establish a broader communication platform; We support you as a class cadre to serve more students; We also support you to apply for a national invention patent and publish your own diary of studying abroad ... I hope you will become a useful person to society in the future through these exercises!
Baby, you have grown up, 18 years old, and you are an adult. We've said everything we need to say. * * * lived together for eighteen years. Needless to say, you can guess what we think. I hope you can finish your studies according to your own ideals, go out to the society with the rights and responsibilities of adults acquired at the age of 18, meet every challenge and experience in life with perseverance, and create your own world!
Letters written by parents to their children at bar mitzvah.
To tell the truth, I was a little caught off guard when I wrote this letter today, and I felt very suddenly, although I always said that I hope you will grow up healthily soon. For the growth of children, every parent has a very contradictory mentality. On the one hand, I always treat you as a child, for fear of not caring enough and caring enough, and subconsciously cover my wings tighter; On the other hand, I hope you will grow up faster and better, mature at an early date and face the society independently.
Recalling that I haven't seen you yet, the first thing I saw was the small footprints brought by the medical staff to my father. When you were born, your little footprints were so small that my father could hardly believe it. However, it has started a series of clear, gradually growing and raising footprints, which are printed on the growth path of home, kindergarten, primary school and middle school.
Once such a tiny foot, today it is steadily stepping into the ranks of adults, and tomorrow it will surely cross one mile after another on the journey of life and move towards another new high point. If my parents were both surprised and scared when they saw such a small footprint, then when I look back at this series of footprints today, I am gratified, proud and proud.
When these have been enriched physically and spiritually (knowledge and thoughts), they are steady and powerful. When marching towards a new journey, what the elders who used to be there want to say to you is that their experiences, experiences, advice and suggestions are inaccurate. In a word, they are moving towards the right goal and direction for this series of footprints, full of parents' hopes and blessings. What I want to say can be summed up in eight words: responsibility, courage, love and tolerance.
/kloc-a full-term baby who was sick 0/8 years ago has now grown into a healthy, smart, beautiful and lovely girl. She is very happy to be a mother and a father and full of confidence in your future. But I also hope that while you are confident, you will be fully prepared for the diversity and complexity of the new strange adult world in the future. No road will be straight and flat, and there will be many unexpected sharp bends, steep slopes, bumps and even traps in the future life journey.
This needs everyone to face and deal with, and no one can escape or escape. The most effective and correct way is to face it bravely and rationally and overcome it with wisdom and ability. We must firmly believe that we should be optimistic about the bright future of our life journey, the colorful process, and all the difficulties are part of a temporary and colorful life. Coping with difficulties and setbacks is the best opportunity and place for you to sharpen your faith, confidence and use your wisdom and knowledge. The rainbow is the brightest and the dangerous peak is the most beautiful after the rain.
Remember the old "Ode to a Wanderer": "She mended it carefully and thoroughly, fearing that the delay would make him go home late." Mom and dad are now saying to their daughter who is about to embark on the road to adulthood: I want to say a lot before I leave. I wish you a long-distance relationship.
Letters from parents to children at the bar mitzvah, composition 6
From today, you will step into the ranks of adults, and your parents sincerely wish you!
Youth and happiness coexist in Qi Fei, while ambition and struggle coexist. 18 years old, in the prime of life, is also a new milestone in life. You have stepped into the ranks of adults, which means that you will take on greater responsibilities from now on and continue to mature and practice your glory and dreams on the stage of social life in the 2 1 century.
My parents wrote this letter to you on this important day when you 18 years old. I believe you have read the meaning, but I still want to tell you the truth about the lives of my predecessors, which may help you in the future.
Grateful return: this is the basic principle of being a man. Remember: "The grace of dripping water is the reward of spring." In addition, you should learn to thank those who have hurt you. At least it can help you learn from setbacks and learn to protect yourself.
Helping others and being kind to others: this is the basic morality of being a man. As the saying goes, "Give someone a rose, leave a lingering fragrance in your hand". Keep a kind heart and try your best to help others, and you will be happy while helping others.
Tolerance and understanding: this is the basic quality of being a man. We should consider the problem from each other's point of view, instead of taking ourselves as the center, we should take care of the overall situation, especially when we get along with friends, and we should carefully understand that suffering is the meaning of happiness.
Be content: This is a good way to do things. Don't go to extremes in everything, no matter what, you will find something satisfactory, and that is contentment. Giving up is the dialectical relationship between giving up and getting. Firmly believe: "He who does nothing will do anything". Taste the true meaning of "getting is a blessing, being willing to give up is a blessing, and contentment is the happiest"!
Modesty and sincerity: this is the virtue of being a man. A threesome requires a teacher. An inch long, a foot short. No matter what you do, you must be humble, move people with your feelings and move people with your heart.
Caution: This is the philosophy of doing things. "If you talk too much, you will lose." Remember to exaggerate and be honest. Think twice before you do something and avoid reckless behavior.
Strong and persistent: this is the secret of success. In the long journey of life, you may experience unexpected bumps and thorns, and those who can split the thorns and reach the other side of the ideal must be strong and persistent.
Son, the days when you are away from the third year of high school are numbered. Parents sincerely hope that you can be calm, comfortable, careful and focused, and finish the last wonderful journey of high school study and life, and draw a perfect end to 15' s hard study and pursuit of learning dreams!
Letters written by parents to their children at bar mitzvah.
Dear baby, a thousand words can't express mom's love for you. My mother has never written a love letter. Consider this her first love letter.
Eighteen years ago, your agitation came late and broke our quiet world of two people. I remember that morning, it was stormy outside and thunder rumbled. I struggled desperately in the delivery room, and a group of newborn babies announced their arrival in the next room, crying like frogs in the river, one after another. It also gave my mother confidence that she was eager to see you. Your father waited outside for mosquitoes all night. At that time, you were smart when you were still in your mother's belly. You know that you are distressed and didn't make us wait long, and didn't make us suffer too much.
As a newborn, you are chubby and weigh eight pounds. Round head, no eyes, only two seams under the eyebrows. The nurse pushes the stroller to let the mothers nurse, without looking at the card on your wrist. The fattest one is my baby daughter. Your arrival has added a lot of interesting things to our family of three, which really makes us anxious. At that time, dad went to work, and mom was alone at home, holding you in her arms. I don't know how to love you My mother has confessed to you the stupid thing she did. Please give me a break and don't make me say it again.
When you were very young, you liked reading, learning and listening to stories. Remember that plastic book? It is only a few pages. It is not afraid of tearing or water. Let you tear it off. When you were young, you had a strong ability to imitate. Your mother regrets that she didn't train you in this field and didn't leave any video materials. Also, when you were in the first grade, you came home from school once and told me excitedly that the teacher picked you to learn flute. It was really hard for my mother at that time. How can a family like ours learn musical instruments?
I really can't afford so much money for you to learn musical instruments. Fortunately, when you were in the third grade, your family conditions were a little better, and your mother made up for the original regrets. In order to avoid making similar mistakes, I will support you whatever you want to learn, or what your mother thinks you should learn in the future, even if her mother is not rich.
There is too much to say. This manuscript paper can hold it. Fortunately, we are friends and have a lot of self-confidence, which is also the envy of your classmates. Remember what I told you? No matter what happens to you, mom will always stand by and give you strength. Mom will always be your strong backing. When you are depressed, mom shares it with you, and when you are happy, mom shares it with you. It's just that the sky is falling and you have your mother to carry it with you.
Facing the college entrance examination, your efforts made my mother very happy. My mother believes that you will do your best to complete this great test of life. No matter what the result is, the process is beautiful, and you won't have any regrets. Anyway, in the eyes of my mother, you will always be the best, my mother's favorite, my mother's good baby and my mother's pride. Mom believes you, baby, come on!
Letters written by parents to their children at bar mitzvah.
How time flies! Suddenly you're eighteen. Mom and dad really don't want to believe this fact. Many memories remain in your childhood. You have been a real child since you were a child. You have a headache and a fever. You never cry or make trouble. Really worry-free.
I went to kindergarten with my mother when I was a child. Therefore, since childhood, you have been pestering your mother and holding your little hand wherever you go. You are like mom's little pet, her little tail. You are mom's pistachio, which brings her a lot of happy time.
During primary school, your mother left you temporarily due to work reasons, and you spent primary school at grandma's house and grandma's house. In the past six years, your mother's education has been blank. Before you entered middle school, my mother tried every means to bring you to her, just to make up for the lack of maternal love for you in the past six years. However, at the age of thirteen, you are no longer the little boy who sticks to his mother all day. Especially after puberty, your rebellious attitude is very strong. My mother regrets every time she is angry with you. My mother knows that there is something wrong with her behavior, but can you understand a mother's desire for success?
With your intelligence and wit, you could have been admitted to a better high school, but you barely got into an ordinary middle school. Fortunately, the school spirit is excellent, the teachers' teaching level is high and their sense of responsibility is strong. In these three years of high school study and life, my parents are very pleased to see your growth and progress bit by bit. From the beginning, you were an inferior and closed teenager, and you have grown into a teenager who talked about astronomy, geography and Kan Kan.
In the past three years, you won many awards and entered the student union, which is inseparable from your class teacher, Mr. Chen, and your personal efforts. Every time you stand in front of me and look down into my eyes and talk to me, I have to admit, son, you have really grown up.
Now, you are eighteen years old. Eighteen means that you have grown up; Eighteen years old means that you are already a citizen of China who has the right to vote. You will fly high in the sky of your life like a bird.
You should learn to be grateful. People who know how to be grateful must be very emotional. There is nothing wrong with rationality, but if a person is too rational, he will become ruthless. A cold person will definitely not be happy. "The kindness dropped by others has been rewarded by spring", grateful to parents, grateful to society, grateful to teachers, grateful to relatives and friends, grateful to all the blessings and misfortunes in life. Every experience is a life experience, an accumulation of social experience and a gift from God. Learn to be grateful, and life will be another color.
Son, you used to feel confused and confused about the meaning of life. Now mom and dad want to tell you that it is a meaningful life to do what you want happily and help the society and others. Looking forward to your wonderful life!
Finally, mom and dad want to say to you: Dear son, you have always been a sincere, kind, filial, clever, sensible and smart boy. You are the pride of mom and dad, and mom and dad will always love you!
Be a person who radiates the brilliance of human nature
-A letter to a child.
My child, today is June 1 day, and I won't buy you anything. Because I don't want to get into the habit of asking for you, even on your birthday. But my aunt bought you shoes and pants. Mom has a bad temper and professional habits, so she can't help being cruel to you. However, my baby is very considerate of her mother. Every time I scold you, she always comes to haunt her and says that she is good for me! In fact, I saw the tears in your eyes, turned and turned, and slowly disappeared after my mother smiled at you.
I want to say something to you that you may not understand, because this was originally what I wanted to say to my brother and sister who are going to college. However, it is ok to teach you slowly, but remember that you don't know how to do it.
First of all, son, don't feel inferior. No matter where you go in the future, remember that I am no worse than others! Perhaps, I am poorer, uglier and more plain, but I am simple, hardworking and introverted. Don't underestimate simplicity and hard work, they are the basis for making your life worry-free; Introversion will also win you more respect. Have confidence in yourself, have confidence in life, and don't lose a lot because of small things. Inferiority is a demon that devours itself and will casually lower its dignity, thus leading you to the direction where the black hole can't find its exit; It will make you complain and bury the seeds of hatred in your heart until one day it bears fruit and makes a big mistake.
No one looks down on you, as long as you show your true self, stride your own way and be open-minded to others, it may be just a temporary contempt; That's their fault. People who despise others casually are not worthy of your attention at all. Even if, my child, you will be sad, then be sad, but only temporarily, because you have to do what you should do. How can you disturb your life because of irrelevant people? Do what you should do, and you will reap what you deserve! This is an unchanging truth for thousands of years.
Secondly, son, don't compare with others. This will never be a virtue. A shallow and empty person will find his own life value by comparing with others. And a determined and indifferent person will not compare with others, let alone enjoy it; This absolute indifference comes from inner richness and spiritual support. Yesterday, you always showed off your little leather shoes to your children. Mom reminded you twice, and the third time, I hit your little arm. You don't really understand, just want you to get into the habit.
Comparing with others will lead people to the top of vanity, making them suddenly in the clouds and in the valley, because what I have, he may not have, what he has, and I may not have. People may have different things, but God never gives them nothing. In order to have more things than others, it will also make people greedy and possessive, which will ruin a person's life.
Third, be strong, son. Life is full of ups and downs, and there is always inevitable suffering. Don't be afraid, hold your head high and breathe deeply. As long as you don't fall, you still have chips to start over. I tell you, Hemingway once said: it can be destroyed, but it can't be defeated! It doesn't matter who Hemingway is, just remember this sentence.
Children, mothers are the children of farmers and the daughters of Dashan, and all the way depends on strength.
When the children in the district office showed off her thin stockings and laughed at me, I strongly said to myself, don't look at her, what's so strange? When an unknown boy pointed at me from a distance and said that his face was ok, that is, he was short and fat, I walked past them with my head held high and took no time. I was lying alone in a strange hospital. When the doctor asked me for food expenses, I took out my only 80 yuan and gave it to her with a strong smile, saying that if it wasn't enough, I would eat less. ……
What makes me so strong? Children are mom's parents and your grandparents. It is their deep love and concern for me, but when they are afraid that they can't take care of me, I will be wronged and will not live, so they always say, daughter, you must be strong!
I know that you still have a lot to do, but it would be pale to say that you should set an example. For example, it is my grandparents' enthusiasm for suffering, humble attitude towards power and positive optimism about difficulties that will make me develop the habit of not feeling inferior and not comparing with others; It is the kindness of my grandparents, supporting several old people and raising several children, which will make me full of care and responsibility.
Therefore, I will talk less and do more, and try to be a good mother worthy of your emulation.
I hope my daughter, when I am proud of you, is not because of your great achievements, but because you exude irresistible human brilliance!