When falling in love, if a boy doesn’t take the initiative, the relationship will still last for a long time. Who said that when it comes to dating, boys must be proactive and girls must be passive. That refers to what I said before. In the past, when men and women were dating, girls were usually very shy and would blush even if they held hands.
Today, with the rapid development of society, equality between men and women is not only reflected in life, but also in relationships. As long as each other truly loves each other, what does it matter who takes more initiative and who takes less initiative? When we fall in love, we don’t talk about it for others to see, but for ourselves to see. Just because a person takes the initiative with you doesn't mean he loves you.
If a girl really loves this boy, then the girl will be more likely to take the initiative than the boy, because she loves him and she wants to be with this boy all her life. Men all like girls who take the initiative. Taking initiative is no longer just for boys. In a boy's mind, when a girl takes the initiative towards him, it proves that the girl loves him very much. In turn, the boy will love the girl even more.
Those conservative and old ideas in the past should also be changed. As the times progress, people's thoughts should also progress together, instead of staying in the old ideas. In a relationship, a girl taking the initiative can sustain the relationship longer than a boy taking the initiative. This is a law that has not changed since ancient times. Some girls let boys do everything by themselves when they are in love, and they just want to sit back and enjoy the results. In the beginning, boys may enjoy it, but once time goes by, boys will become impatient.
They will feel that love is a matter between two people, so why should they take the initiative in everything? Over time, it will not be conducive to the development of the relationship. Therefore, it is time for women to change their thinking. It is not a shame to take the initiative with their lover. Don't think that if you take the initiative, boys will not care about you. Think about it on the other hand, if a boy always takes the initiative, will he have the same idea as you?
So, as long as you truly love each other, whoever takes the initiative can have a long-lasting relationship.