The first five years of entering society are the first five years of your life. Therefore, how to get through these first five years is crucial for everyone.
1. Goals and directions
As the saying goes: Education is a bronze medal, ability is a silver medal, connections are a gold medal, and thinking is a trump card. From this point of view, life is a mess.
Tang Jun, a typical representative of our contemporary working class, once said: "I think there are two types of people who should not compete with others for interests and value returns." The first type of people are those who have just entered the society and entered the enterprise. Don't say anything in the first five years---can you give me a little more salary? During these five years, what should you be most concerned about and what is most important? What can you learn in the company? Is it beneficial to development? ?
From this we can see how important these five are. In these five years, the most important thing is to practice internal strength first, and it is precisely these five years that are the best period to practice internal strength. Only by practicing internal strength well will it be possible to climb higher in the future.
Then why is it five? Strange! Why isn't it from 1938? This is just like the "Twelfth Five-Year Plan" issued by the country. Each stage uses five as a time period. Therefore, this time has a scientific basis, and you do not need to use any theories or laws to prove it.
We all like to ask ourselves: Where is the way out? Ideas are the way out! ?
People have no money, no experience, no experience, and no social connections. These are not terrible. If you don’t have money, you can earn it through hard work. If you don’t have experience, you can accumulate it step by step. If you don’t have experience, you can summarize it through practical operations. There is no social relationship, so you can weave it bit by bit.
However, the most terrifying thing is that people have no ideas! Therefore, we must have a correct direction and clear goals.
Otherwise, no matter how high-spirited you are, no matter how resourceful you are, no matter how much effort you spend, if you don’t have a clear direction, you will live at a loss, and you will gradually lose your fighting spirit and forget about it. The initial dream will lead to twists and turns, wasting your intelligence and your youth.
If you still live in confusion during these 5 years, it will cause the panic of those born in 10s, the struggle of those born in 20s, and even mediocrity for a lifetime. In other words, if you can't break out of confusion and get out of the fog as soon as possible in these 5 years, you really won't be able to face yourself after 10 or 20 years.
But in these 5 years, we also have a lot of uncertainties and a lot of possibilities. There are a lot of undecideds and a lot of decisions. Just like everyone will experience confusion and confusion, everyone has experienced fear and escape, but confusion and confusion cannot be used as an excuse to give up on oneself and settle for mediocrity, let alone turn it into a bitter drink of self-pity and remembrance of frustration. .
Life needs to be borne by oneself, and destiny needs to be controlled by oneself. In these 5 days, the sooner you find your direction and get out of confusion, the easier it will be to achieve success and create excitement on the road of life.
Otherwise, we will become like headless flies who cannot find the direction, hit the wall everywhere, we will not be able to find a way out, we will be confused, and we will be afraid.
In life, when faced with difficulties, we often feel that we have no way out. Don't be discouraged, persevere, and believe that there is no dead end in young life, difficulties are ahead, and hope is around the corner. As long as we have a clear idea, we will be able to avoid detours and find a way out!
Therefore, successful people do not win at the starting point, but at the turning point.
Work hard! Use these five days to make a good transition in this miscellaneous life! Choose the right direction and set clear goals. If you stick to it, you will definitely benefit a lot.
2. Behavior and Habits
Many young people who have just started working always hope to find their ideal job right away. However, many good jobs cannot wait. You must choose a job as experience. The first job in your career journey is undoubtedly the starting point for entering the university of society. Maybe you have found an unsatisfactory job, so start from here, settle yourself well, draw valuable nutrients from this job, and accumulate a lot of experience. A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step. As long as you start, you will hopefully reach the end.
In the first few years of work, there are many uncertain factors in our lives, relationships, careers, etc., and the future is also full of various possibilities. At this time, you must learn to choose, know how to give up, give yourself a clear position, and stabilize yourself. If you don't take the initiative to position yourself, you will be "positioned" by others and society.
It can be said that the behavioral habits a person develops in these 5 years will determine the height of his life. Whether we can succeed depends to some extent on our own evaluation of ourselves. This is positioning. You are what you position yourself to be. Positioning can determine life, and positioning can change destiny.
A person's life is determined by nature for three parts, and hard work for seven parts. Only if you have a dream can you become famous, and if you love to work hard can you win. As long as you don't tie yourself in the cage of your soul, no one can restrain you from spreading your wings and flying high.
But the reality is often far from what we think. Therefore, when the sense of superiority gradually turns into a sense of loss or even frustration, when the belief that oneself is a piece of "gold" becomes the suspicion that oneself is a grain of "sand", anger, confusion, and low self-esteem begin to increase day by day.
In fact, you should carefully consider yourself, are you really gold? It is real gold. You must have unique skills in your hands and be outstanding in your talents. In a word: Real gold must be proven by strength. Only by cultivating your own skills can you be qualified to consider Bole's affairs.
Every pearl is originally a grain of sand, but not every grain of sand can become a pearl.
If you want to stand out from the crowd, you must have the capital to stand out from the crowd. If you can't bear blows and setbacks, and can't bear neglect and mediocrity, it will be difficult to achieve glory. If young people want to be reused and succeed, they must transform themselves from a grain of sand into a priceless pearl.
The sea has its ebb and flow, and people have their peaks and troughs.
Don’t let the floating clouds obscure your vision, instead look forward to the long wind and waves.
As long as the haze is removed, the sky will be clear and clear. If you are somewhat unsatisfied at work, you must believe that you will not always be at a low point in your life, and that one day you will be able to break through the clouds. Tell yourself: I have not failed, I just haven’t succeeded yet! As long as you light a lamp of hope in your heart, you will be able to dispel the haze in the darkness and usher in the light.
Indeed, in terms of qualifications, we are out-and-out novices in the workplace. We are not deeply involved in the business, have few connections, and often encounter obstacles at work. Their pressure is not necessarily like a mountain of pressure, but like the sky before a heavy rain. It is gray and low. There is obviously space, but every gap is filled with gray. They can only wait for the clear sky after the heavy rain.
?Get up earlier than a chicken, go to bed later than a dog, work more than a donkey, and eat worse than a pig. ?This is a saying that many people who have just entered the workplace like to use to joke about their living conditions. Although it is a bit exaggerated, many of us are indeed always shrouded in gray moods. Our hearts are always cloudy and turn to gloomy.
I remember a philosopher once said: Our pain is not caused by the problems themselves, but by the fear caused by our anticipation of these problems. From another perspective, if we take it calmly, all the problems in life will be a new breakthrough, a new transcendence, a high-level indifference and tranquility, thereby obtaining freedom and happiness.
A philosopher said: "Life is a series of choices. Everyone's future and destiny are completely in their own hands. As long as they work hard, they will eventually succeed." Whether it is employment, choosing a career, or starting a business, as long as you work hard, you will succeed. Is there anyone willing to give all the commitment of life to others?
These 5 years are the golden period to change your destiny. If you are not sure of the time that best determines your destiny, then when will you wait?
Work hard! Use these five days to make a good transition in this miscellaneous life! Hold your own ideals and work hard to cultivate yourself, so as to form many good behavioral habits. If you stick to it, you will definitely benefit a lot.
3. Ability and Morality
Don’t live in other people’s mouths, don’t live in other people’s eyes, but hold your destiny in your own hands. Don't say you have no background, you are the biggest background.
American writer Jack Kerouac once said: "I am still young, and I am eager to hit the road."
In the journey of life, we are always young people and should be full of desire every day.
Everyone has deep potential. The key is to discover your own potential, correctly understand your talents, and find a stage where you can fully realize your potential, instead of just being unhappy because the stage is inappropriate.
You must look at your abilities objectively and fairly, make calm choices based on your actual situation and hobbies, and try your best to go where you are most needed and suitable for you.
In the field of human resources management, there is a particularly popular saying, that is, the theory of "horse riding, leading cattle, driving pigs, and beating dogs": Those with good character and strong abilities are thousand-mile horses, and we must ride them. Hold him; those with good character but average ability are old scalpers, and we must hold them; those with average character and ability are "pig", and we must drive them away; those with poor character and strong ability, That's the "dog" and we're going to hit him.
I think you, who have just been working for a few years, have the same ambitions and want to travel thousands of miles, right? Then, let yourself settle down. Being one level below does not mean being inferior to others. Today's surrender is for tomorrow's advancement. The so-called value of life means that our existence is valuable to others. It's a good thing to be used by others, but it's really sad to have no one take advantage of you!
Being able to do your job and doing your job well is the basic guarantee for survival in the workplace. The prerequisite for anyone to do a job is that he or she is qualified for the job. Competence is the most basic criterion for qualified employees, while willingness to work is an attitude. Many people are qualified for a position and have the basic ability to do the job well. However, whether they can do a better job depends on whether they have a work attitude of being down-to-earth and hardworking.
Work hard based on your ability. At work, you do more work than others, and you feel that you suffer a loss; you get less money than others, and you feel that you suffer a loss; and you often work overtime, and you feel that you suffer a loss? In fact, there is no need to worry about it like this. Loss is not a disaster or a failure. It is also a loss. a philosophy of life. Taking a small loss now is to pave the way for success. The process of suffering a loss is the process of accumulating strength.
Being able to suffer losses is a state of being a human being and a kind of wisdom in dealing with the world.
At work, it doesn’t mean you will suffer if you do more or do more work for others. If your boss asks you to work overtime and catch up on tasks, don't think that you have suffered a big loss. Instead, you should feel lucky, because the boss only asked you and not anyone else, which means that he trusts you and appreciates you. Loss is a kind of contribution. The more you contribute, the more rewards you get.
If you are willing to give up, you will gain something; those who learn to take some losses when appropriate are definitely not weak-minded, but have great wisdom.
To leave room for others is to leave room for yourself, to give convenience to others is to give convenience to yourself, and to be kind to others is to be kind to yourself. Fools are blessed because fools have no plans. With such people, you can relax physically and mentally and get close to each other without too much vigilance. Silly often means persistence and loyalty, as well as generosity and honesty, which makes people unknowingly side with him. A fool gets more by accident than a wise man gets by all his efforts.
In these few days of work, there are only a few snowflakes floating in your sky. Are you satisfied? Success requires persistence and accumulation. Instead of focusing on collecting snowflakes, it is better to save your energy and roll snowballs. Buffett said: "Life is like a snowball. The most important thing is to find very wet snow and a long slope." Let yourself settle down, learn to find "very wet snow", and try to find "very long slopes".
Remember: scattered snowflakes will melt quickly and turn into nothing. Only snowballs are more solid and last longer.
Work hard! Use these five days to make a good transition in this miscellaneous life! To become a leader, you must have the ability and character to make people bow to you. Just like being buried in the sand of the sea, sink yourself, allowing the salt and suffering of the sea to be well accumulated in your bone marrow. Five's perseverance will definitely pay off a lot.
4. Opportunities and Wisdom
In these days, if you can make more efforts than others, it means accumulating more capital than others, and you will be better than others. Others have one more chance to succeed. So you have to train yourself to become professional.
What is professionalism? Professionalization is the standardization, normalization and institutionalization of work status, that is, saying the right words and doing the right things in the right way at the right time, at the right place, so that knowledge, skills, concepts, thinking, attitude, psychology, etc. are in line with the profession. Norms and standards.
In every industry, there are many outstanding talents. The reason why these people exist is because they work harder, are smarter, and are more mature than others. But, most importantly, they are more professional than the average person! That's why someone is your boss now. It is not enough for a person to be professional only. Only professional people can fly ahead of others and make it difficult for others to surpass them!
Don’t think that we are living in a stable situation now. For graduates, they must recognize the five major challenges they are about to face.
1. Support parents; 2. Marry and have children; 3. Promotion and salary increase; 4. Work pressure; 5. Quality of life.
Some people are excited for survival, but their eyes always stay behind them. They spend three days fishing and two days drying the net, with no end in sight.
Some people strive for development, always keep their eyes straight ahead, make a little progress every day, and persevere.
Graduation cannot be without pursuit and exploration, as well as ideals and goals. Life is like sailing against the current, if you don't advance, you will retreat. A life that is content with the status quo is like a ship that is no longer moving forward, and can no longer keep up with the pace of the times. You must seize every second to study, and you must understand that learning is not the exclusive domain of students. Because when you are studying, you carry only a small schoolbag, but when you work, you carry a big schoolbag.
What smart people are most proud of is: What have they done? What a man of great wisdom longs for most is: What else should he do? Little cleverness is tactics, great wisdom is strategy; little cleverness sees sesame seeds, great wisdom sees watermelons.
In this world, there are both big people and small people. The big people live like big people, and the small people live like small people. Everyone has his own way of life, and no one can force anyone else. However, small cleverness can only achieve small achievements and small vision, while great wisdom can achieve great achievements and realms. Small companies look at their bosses, medium-sized companies look at their systems, and large companies look at their culture.
Both small companies and large enterprises have ways to survive. There is no good or bad distinction, but the impact on a person at different stages will be different. Small companies definitely want to develop into large enterprises. This is a goal, and young people should also set goals for their careers. As a recent graduate, do you often suffer from stage fright or feel unsure? Being prepared for danger in times of peace is definitely not alarmist talk! If you take a nap now, you will dream; if you study now, you will realize your dream. In the fiercely competitive battlefield of life, those who nap are losers!
Everyone seems to be passionate and fearless when they are young, but as they grow older, they think about mundane things such as house, work, and raising a family every day, and they no longer have the same enthusiasm as when they were young. I have the courage to go to the sky to explore the stars and go to the sea to find the moon. Do we change our lives, or does life change us? Our thoughts are becoming more and more complex, because we have more and more reluctance and concerns, and we are always wandering and hesitating.
A few days after graduation, the burden of life will weigh us down, and setbacks and obstacles will block the passage from all directions. We often can only break out of the siege after being oppressed to realize our potential. Find a way out. But after two or three days, the burden on us began to lighten and the work began to go smoothly. We relaxed and gradually forgot about the potential dangers.
Until one day a crisis suddenly comes and we are defeated at a loss? These days after graduation, we are still in a dangerous period. We must have the awareness of being prepared for danger in times of peace and work hard, so that we can have a truly safe life!
Work hard! Use these five days to make a good transition in this miscellaneous life! Be a wise person for once, strive to become professional, and get rid of many mundane things before they are entangled. Five's persistence will definitely benefit people a lot.
5. Thought and Growth
Born in sorrow, died in happiness. If you want to surpass your current achievements, you must not limit yourself but be willing to accept challenges. For the timid, the real danger lies in not taking risks!
Under the heavy pressure of society, young people's adaptability has become stronger and stronger, but they are unconsciously accustomed to being pushed by the environment. They dare not take risks for fear of bringing lifelong regrets to themselves, so they comfort themselves: "I am worthy of myself and my family, because I have tried my best." In fact, people can only grow gradually if they continue to challenge and make breakthroughs. If you stick to the existing sense of security for a long time, you will be like a frog in warm water and eventually lose the instinct to jump.
After experiencing these social lives, you should understand: There are rich and poor, dark and bright, ugly and beautiful in this world. What you see depends on whether you are positive or negative. Learn to work diligently when you are young and treat life with a bright mind. Then, as long as you open your palm, you will find that there is a brilliant life inside.
Carve gratitude on the stone, deeply thank others for helping you, and remember it forever. This is the state that life should have; write hatred on the beach, and lightly forget that others have hurt you. Learn to be tolerant and let all resentment disappear forever with the tide. This is also a state of life.
Only by learning how to pour water can you hold more water. Starting from the day you graduate, learn to treat every day as a new starting point and start every job from scratch. If you know how to regard "return to zero" as a normal state of life, as a continuation of excellence, and as something to be done at all times, then in just a few days, you can complete the correct planning and comprehensive planning of your career. Beyond.
On the short road to starting a career, if you want to achieve better, faster, and more beneficial growth, you must face the world with a zero-minded mindset. Don't flaunt yourself by being high in school, don't think that you are particularly good, but put down your attitude, lower your frame, let yourself settle, adapt to the environment and accept challenges with a learning attitude. Only by letting go of your "status" can you increase your worth. Temporary surrender will eventually lead to future achievements.
When young people enter a new environment from campus or from one environment, they must have the courage to put down the things they are familiar with, accustomed to, and like in the original environment, and then start from scratch. If we want to be successful in the workplace, we must first develop adaptability. Transforming from a natural person to an employee is a basic condition for integrating into the workplace. A person's low starting point is not scary, what is scary is his low realm. The more he cares about himself, the less development prospects he has; on the contrary, the more he takes the initiative to give, the faster he will develop. Many people who have achieved certain achievements today started from scratch in the early stages of their careers, settling themselves down again, emptying themselves out again, returning to zero again, and returning to zero again. Because of this, their lives have been singing and flying all the way. .
In the few days after graduation, we have to reset the past so that we will not become a snail crawling with a heavy shell on its back in the workplace, but can fly as lightly as a bird in the sky. Please savor what Jack Welch said: "Correct your behavior, recognize yourself, and start from scratch, and you will be on a smooth road to the workplace again. Only by letting go of the past can you learn new things, and only by calming the mind can the body be cool. Only when you give up can you gain something, when the cup is empty can you be filled with water, and when you let go can you transcend. Young people inevitably have a bit of arrogance, thinking that they are omnipotent and invincible. In fact, this is not the case. Newcomers who have just entered the workplace are still "babies" and are in the stage of growth from crawling to walking. During the few years after graduation, they must do everything. Let yourself gradually develop apprentice thinking, sponge thinking, and empty cup thinking. People with such thinking are always open-minded and can accept revelations and anything that can inspire. They can always feel the call of the goddess of success. < /p>
Work hard! Use these five years to make a good turning point in this mess of life! Break your thoughts, clear yourself, and reshape your life.