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I talked to my family about child sexual abuse yesterday. As a result, my mother and my sister both said, "I have had this experience." Of course, it is sexual harassment, not sexual assault. And myself, I am also a victim of sexual harassment.
At that time, there was a doctor and son-in-law in the village. Among a group of farmers, he looked good-looking and decent. However, no one thought that he slept with countless village women in the name of seeing a doctor.
what is even more outrageous is that he has a special preference for young girls.
My sister went to see a doctor, and he touched her nakedness.
when I have a cold and a fever, he can listen to the name of heart rate with a stethoscope in front of my father, and his hand has been groping on my chest. Once is not enough, say, "I haven't heard you clearly!" " I repeated it again.
My father was sitting next to me at that time, but he didn't make a sound-how can I put it? Don't let the doctor auscultate? I'm afraid it's unreasonable. Therefore, this beast harassed me again and again in front of my father.
I won't talk about more tragic violations.
On the one hand, it is useless to the theme of this article, and on the other hand, it's really uncomfortable (it's been many years, and it's painful for my family to bring it up again). All in all, it has been in the shadow so far.
Of course, he is not the only one in the village. How many seemingly simple and honest elders, in places where people are behind their backs, smile and stretch out their claws one by one. People who haven't lived in riff-raff won't deeply understand how evil prevailed in those villages.
In a word, what you think of as a poetic pastoral is actually into the badlands; What you think of as a simple country is actually a wilderness.
However, the degree of aggression like ours is not worth mentioning in the face of real girl sexual assault cases.
Those children who have suffered heavy physical and mental injuries have become the lambs of sin under the control of criminals, ignorance, weakness and silence of their families, and the coldness of onlookers, and they can't get out of the shadows all their lives.
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I have seen many cases of left-behind children being sexually assaulted.
every pile is horribly painful.
From 211 to 213, an 11-year-old girl left behind in Guangxi was sexually assaulted by the elderly in the village.
just reading the above 2 words is shocking.
What's more, the cruelty of the details and the long time of suffering have ruined the girl's whole life.
The victim girl was less than 11 years old when she was sexually assaulted.
At the beginning of 211, Huang Moumou, a criminal suspect in his seventies, saw the child picking up snails alone, covered her mouth and dragged her to the foot of the mountain to commit rape. Later, he repeatedly raped the 11-year-old child by means of intimidation and threats.
and this is just the beginning.
Then, all the men in the village, old and young, began to commit adultery. Some give a few dollars, some threaten with violence, and some use temptation to commit rape against children.
In the past two years, at least 16 girls were abused and sexually assaulted at least 5 times.
among the 16 suspects whose identities have been identified, there are 2 people born in 198s, 4 people born in 196s, 5 people born in 195s, 3 people born in 4s and 2 people born in 193s.
That is to say, among the identified suspects, 14 are middle-aged and elderly people, and the oldest is over 7 years old.
The cruelest thing is that the child was abused too much. Instead of being pitied, she was abused by the whole village, calling her a prostitute and a bitch.
An 11-year-old child is physically and mentally abused by a group, and she is helpless, helpless and has no light in her eyes ... How do you expect her to trust others? How do you ask her to save herself and call for help? How do you let her face the evil and indifference of this world? How do you tell her to heal her wounds, how to love, how to believe and how to live actively?
impossible.
All the wonderful things in her life were killed by an old man in that early spring field.
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Left-behind children in rural areas have always been the favorite targets of sexual assault offenders.
I once saw a news. In 26, a man named Wang Jie set up a website in his own name, called Baise Student Aid Network, saying that it was to raise scholarships for poor students in the old Baise area.
However, in this process-1. He called it helping students, but in fact he used the website to collect money; 2. In the name of donation, he sexually assaulted countless children.
Not only that, Wang Jie even filmed the process of raping a girl and uploaded it to the Internet to show off.
"This is a virgin I made ..."
"I ate this girl from the fifth grade of primary school to now, when she was about 12 years old ..."
"I once ate three girls ..."
The even more amazing truth is that Wang Jie's so-called "donation" came from fundraising.
he told the children: funding is ok, but there are conditions.
The condition is to let children provide "special" services to bosses with "special" needs.
Wang Jie has become a sex agency for girls, not only peddling girls' sexual services to funders, but also selling girls' virginity at a price of more than 1, yuan, and using it as bait to attract investment from businessmen.
In this way, poor rural children have become his tools for releasing desires and making money. The word "charity" became a cover for his crime.
No one knows that those poor children, in the rest of their lives, suffered from mental illness one after another-depression, suicidal tendency, obsessive-compulsive disorder, often hallucinating, and finally even started to hurt themselves ...
No one helped them.
no one gives sympathy.
A girl who participated in the report was even scolded by her mother as shameless.
You might say: Someone will always help them ...
Don't be too optimistic.
Enter "Baise Student Aid" in the search engine, and the pop-up prompts are: indecent video of Baise Student Aid Network, video seed of Baise Student Aid Network, video download of Baise Student Aid Network ...
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We all thought we were living in a prosperous time.
the mountains and rivers are quiet, the material is abundant, and life is full of sunshine everywhere.
However, we don't think how many evils are lurking in places where the sun can't shine.
Male teachers in Youxian County, Hunan Province molested many girls; Zhang Mou, a rural teacher in yiliang county, Yunnan, was arrested for seven girls; The headmaster of a township school in Yongshun, Hunan Province was prosecuted for molesting six girls; The headmaster of Wanning Primary School in Hainan took girls to open a house; Wei, a primary school teacher in Sichuan, was sentenced to death for repeatedly committing adultery against 11 children; A 12-year-old girl from Zhenjiang, Jiangsu Province was raped by her stepfather and got pregnant ... < P > You may think this is a case.
but I tell you, there are many cases of sexual abuse of young children than we thought.
In 26, the Institute of Oriental and Western Sexology conducted a questionnaire survey on 2 teenagers in China.
the survey results show:
3 years!
thousands of child victims!
7%-9% commit crimes for acquaintances!
the civil compensation was only 198 yuan!
......
In this year's symposium of representatives of the National People's Congress on "Girl Protection", the Report on Statistics of Child Sexual Abuse Cases in 216 and the Investigation Report on Child Sexual Abuse Prevention Education was published.
According to the report, in 216 alone, the number of recorded cases of child sexual abuse was 433, with 778 victims, an increase of 93 cases over 215.
The official rate of child sexual assault is 1:7.
In other words, behind a child sexual assault case that was exposed, there must be 7 cases that are unknown.
More victims are as dumb as the deaf-mute children in The Melting Pot.
They watched the devil coming and taking off their clothes. They couldn't escape, escape or resist, and they called it "daily disobedience" and "the ground was ineffective".
In the childhood of repeated humiliation, I gradually became desperate and gradually broke down.
It is worth noting that the number of cases in which boys are violated is increasing day by day. Gay adult men will take advantage of boys' lack of understanding of sex, usually using deception or threats to molest boys, and boys will feel bad, but out of fear or ignorance, they will not refuse, resulting in boys becoming victims of sexual assault.
among the 34 public cases in 215 counted by "girl protection", at least 2 cases involved the sexual assault of boys, with more than 6 victims.
Therefore, protecting children from sexual abuse is not only the patent of girls, but also the parents of boys.
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Because there are many left-behind children and parents' supervision is not in place, rural areas have naturally become the hardest hit areas for child sexual abuse.
and these cases are not unique to rural areas.
In cities, cases of child sexual abuse are also high.
For example, in Beijing, the political and cultural center of China, we can see that the number of cases is equally amazing.
from January 27 to December 212, Chaoyang court concluded 47 cases of child molestation. Victims under the age of 1 account for 8.9%, of which the youngest victim is only 3 years old, and 2% of the victims have been violated more than twice.
Not only that, according to statistics, child sexual assault cases are on the rise.
In 27, the proportion of child sexual assault cases was 4.1%, but in 212, the proportion rose to 14.5%.
That is to say, in cities with better justice, more information, better parental supervision and stronger legal awareness and protection system, children have not escaped the clutches of criminals.
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Children were sexually assaulted and bloodied.
and what you see is just the tip of the iceberg.
how to break the dilemma?
do you go to court? Sure. But more parents choose silence.
reject all strangers? It's useless Because nearly 9% of the murderers of child sexual assault cases are acquaintances.
So, away from all relatives, teachers and neighbors? Not very realistic. You can't let your child be a caged person and a flower in a bottle.
The key lies in the strengthening of safety awareness and the awakening of sex education.
It is strongly recommended that every parent watch this video
If you think your children know how to resist adults, I tell you, you think too much.
If children have not received a very good sex education, they will be very obedient and take off their clothes in front of acquaintances.
Dear parents, do you still want to talk about sex change?
Do you still think sex education is too early?
Do you still think that children will know those things sooner or later?
do you still think that sex education is not elegant, so you have been hiding it and not talking about it?
If you say "should", then I tell you: children who are well-behaved, docile, ignorant and have no sense of self-protection are criminals' favorite targets.
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Ignorance and silence are the fundamental reasons why children are exposed to sin.
Prejudice and ignorance are the ultimate killers of children who are repeatedly victimized and unable to recover.
To prevent children from being sexually abused, every parent should wake up.
1 don't let your children become left-behind children
If you have children, you are the children's day.
Please do your duty as a parent to protect him, accompany him, nurture him and care for him. Become his powerful mountain and umbrella, let him know that no matter what happens in life, he is safe and protected by someone.
don't let him feel abandoned at an early age.
Don't leave him with his grandparents and raise him from generation to generation. Not only will he be neglected physically, but also psychologically, and his safety will be in danger.
Don't even turn a deaf ear when your child tells you the fact of the murder, submit to humiliation, or even accuse and ridicule in turn.
this will ruin his last hope for the world.
2 Tell children not to take off their clothes in front of strangers
There are only two kinds of people who can see the place surrounded by small vests and shorts:
But parents and doctors can't see it at any time. You can only watch it in two situations:
no one else can watch it at other times.
In addition, tell your child the name of the reproductive organ and where it comes from.
In this process, adults should never be shy, shy, blushing, awkward and coy.
You know, these things have no color at all for children.
But your strange attitude will directly affect him: Oh, it seems that this is a bad thing.
3 Tell your child that when someone does something to you that you don't like, please shout
and you must pay attention to this at home: respect your child's physical boundaries.
For example, sometimes you go over and hug him, and the child struggles and wants to get rid of it. Please stop immediately and take this opportunity to educate him and tell him, "If you don't like me touching you, ok, I won't touch you."
tell your child that if you don't agree and you don't like it, no one can kiss, hug or touch you.
At the same time, tell him: "If someone wants to hold the baby and touch it, if you don't like it, be sure to say it out loud."
It is from parents that children have a sense of body boundaries.
parents respect their children's bodies, and children will respect their own bodies.
If parents always hug, kiss and touch their children compulsively and seductively regardless of their wishes, in the long run, they will make their children think that even if I don't like it, I should accept the touch of adults.
4 parents and children can exercise at home
parents and children can exercise at home. Let a person play the bad guy, and then let the children say the words of refusal loudly.
If the child is afraid, encourage him to say "no" loudly and practice several times until he can refuse loudly, decisively and quickly.
And teach children to look for opportunities to call for help and escape after refusing.
You know, most criminals of sexual assault cases are acquaintances. If a child refuses sternly, there is a high probability that he will stop.
In daily life, parents should also respect their children's "no".
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