At present, there is no clear definition of "sexual harassment in the workplace" in China's current laws and regulations, which means that it is difficult to define its nature if we want to solve the problem through legal channels. We should also consider the impact and bear the consequences. After all, once this matter is made public, it is not what the company wants to see and tolerate. This involves the "image and face" of the company. So it will not be a good ending for both sides, and it will have a great negative impact. The relationship between men and women is a very sensitive topic in the workplace. Generally speaking, the company and the parties absolutely don't want more people to "watch the fun", so it goes without saying. Opposites attract, and everyone likes beautiful things. It seems that beauty is one of them. Eating and desire are human nature. Through the ages, these things can never be removed. How many people can achieve nothing?
Most men still respect women in the workplace. They have high professional quality and self-cultivation, but there will always be a small number of men who sexually harass women in words and even actions. This phenomenon is not uncommon in the workplace, so how do women deal with sexual harassment in the workplace? Don't cause too much psychological pressure, and don't feel too passive or fierce resistance because of humiliation. We should not look at the problem from the behavior, but should go deep into human nature and find the essential reason. Imagine how ordinary a female friend is if she doesn't have a male eye to "appreciate" her. Everyone has a love of beauty; A beautiful and virtuous woman is a good spouse of a gentleman. So there are many ways to solve this problem. The key is to raise awareness in essence, that is, what you can't change is to let men "stay away from you", because that is attracted by your unique charm, and human nature is fundamental. After you understand it, you must face it positively.
When I was an assistant to the chairman of a group company, I hired seven beer beauty promoters, with an average height of 170. After they came to the company, they suffered unbearable sexual harassment. They can't stand it. They came to me and wanted to leave. I told them this and gave them a "bad idea". I said to them: Do you think you are beautiful women? If you think it's a big beauty, naturally, being sexually harassed is a patented product of beauty and a "privilege" of beauty. Unless you stay away from the world and people, you can't avoid it, or your attraction will never attract them. Well, I'll tell you a fact. Sexual harassment in the workplace exists and no one has the right to completely eliminate it. The key is that smart people know how to protect themselves and make good changes. You should do as I say in the future. You say to the person who harasses you: Do you know the difference between male and female handwriting? What's the difference between them? Our neighbor has a puppy.
Seeing the puppy next door, we made out with each other to see if there was anyone at the scene. If you are alone, you won't disregard your face in public, you only know that it is appropriate to do so. Vulgar and shallow; Male, elegant and steady. Which one you want to be depends on yourself. In this way, they not only solved their own problems and reduced unnecessary troubles, but also people who used to be rude to them became awed and dared not cross them. Because sometimes big customers come to the company and need some entertainment, girls from the company will attend some dinners. At this time, there will always be people who "worship" the beautiful women in our company and try to persuade them to drink. I give two opinions to the girls in the company: girls should be reserved and self-respecting. If you lose your temper because you drink too much, or even let yourself be "bullied", this is not my subordinate. I feel ashamed, which shows that you have no social experience and no coordination ability. You should have your own personality and personality. Don't be influenced by worldly things. I will support you. Customers are God, and the interests of the company are maximized and will never change. On the basis of not offending customers, it is your professional ability that makes customers respect you, dare not cross the line, and let customers admire you from the heart.
Specific measures are as follows. I asked them to say: Hello, Mr. Zhang, I really don't want to embarrass you. Well, there is a rule in our company that girls can't drink too much, because drinking wine is easy to lose their temper and involves the image of our company. Once discovered, we will be fired; In addition, girls go home after drinking, and the company is very uneasy. The company has special protection for each of our girls, and the company is very good to us girls. Have you found that in the face of sexual harassment in the workplace, from the company's point of view, with the company as the background, customers really don't refute at the moment, because they are all for the good of the company, so they can't violate the company's regulations. At the same time, the most direct sentence is the last sentence: if Mr. Zhang doesn't enjoy himself, our boss has made it very clear that the customer is God. You call him, and he will come to drink with you right away. Since I have feelings for other girls, how can they tolerate it? I'm a big man. I'm here to drink and be a headlight. As the saying goes, the meaning of drunkenness is not wine. This not only clarifies the company's point of view, but also highlights the wisdom of girls. Excuse me, does such a girl dare to surpass it easily?
In fact, the key to solving sexual harassment in the workplace is not the method, but the essence behind it: sexual harassment in the workplace is everywhere, which is a fact that we can't change. Such a smart person should affirm its existence from the heart and make good use of it. This is the basis for women in the workplace to protect themselves forever: don't make a big deal out of the problem and let everyone know; At the same time, it also makes those who really have ideas for you "retreat", but they can't get what they like and dare not go. Here I quote the original painting of Tao Te Ching to share the core idea with you: As we all know, beauty is beauty, and evil has been done. Everyone knows that the good is good and the bad has been done. Everything is "two sides of one body". Just like a copper coin, it has two sides. The pros and cons are the unity of opposites. The key to solving sexual harassment in the workplace is not to take "tough" measures, but to have good guidance. Maybe this kind of thing will turn into a good thing, so that more male friends in the office can see and get in touch with it, but the company is full of vitality.
The key to solving the problem lies in yourself: can you understand this is an inevitable truth from psychology and accept this existence, that is, sexual harassment in the workplace is everywhere, not only during working hours and workplaces, but also during commuting, shopping, car maintenance and riding; Being sexually harassed; More importantly, it also indirectly shows your charm. Which girl doesn't like beauty? Like my old friend's daughter, she likes to practice yoga. It is an indisputable fact that she is tall and attractive. However, girls should not be afraid of bad behavior. Remember, after all, there are still many good people. In this case, it is the best policy to learn to use everyone's strength, that is, to let everyone stand on your side and condemn the bad guys. Don't be rash, you are tit for tat with others. After all, women are still vulnerable groups in front of men, so you should learn to protect your own safety.