"The Little Prince" said: "The sense of ceremony is to make one day different from other days and one moment different from other moments!"
Wang Xiaobo said: "It is not enough for a person to have this life. He should also have a poetic world. Our life needs a sense of ritual. It is a kind of awe, a kind of beauty, a kind of exquisiteness and an attitude. You don't need to show it to others. You only need your heart from the inside out to make ordinary life full of unique touches. "
In fact, the sense of ceremony is not far away from us. It is where you can turn around in daily life, just to see if you are willing to do it. When cooking, pay more attention to making a delicate setting; A warm hug after a hard day; Hold weddings and banquets for relatives and friends when getting married, so that everyone can witness their happiness; Please invite three or five friends to hold a birthday party to celebrate your birthday and share happiness with you ... These behaviors, big or small, belong to the sense of ceremony.
Why does life need a sense of ceremony?
In real life, many times we repeat the activities of two points and one line, repeating the monotonous work of machinery, and life is gradually like a stagnant pool without waves. We need a sense of ceremony and "flowing water from the source" to inject vitality into our boring life and reshape the vivid life of "the sky is high and the clouds are light".
In ordinary trivial days, the sense of ceremony is to please your own cash withdrawal. It can make you look forward to life, add interest to your boring life, make you feel comfortable and get rid of boredom.
Many times, we live ourselves into a "clown", accustomed to complaining about the boring life, but unwilling to make any changes.
In fact, it's not that life is too boring, but that you don't try to make life interesting.
Doudou, a junior, is a pavilion designer. It is normal to stay up late at her place. But no matter how tired you are at work, you should dress up and go to work. When colleagues complain about their work, she never takes part.
After work, she loves life and has a full schedule every day. She studied street dance, English, baking and signed up for various outdoor sports. Constantly enrich yourself and strive to make your life full of ritual and fun. If you want to ask her out, it depends on her schedule. It is recognized that it is difficult for a friend to ask the number 1.
Sister Nian sometimes feels that she is too tired to live, spinning like a robot, and has no time to rest. She advised her to have a good rest, but she didn't agree.
She said: "Work can be tiring and boring sometimes, but life is my own. I want to face life beautifully every day, make life full of ritual, spend every day fully, live up to myself, never complain blindly and never waste time. "
Children are not fish, how do you know the happiness of fish? Although she has a sense of ceremony in her life, she lives more fully and interestingly than we do. She has determined her own vision and is a delicate pig girl.
The sense of ritual is not only to please yourself, but also to please others. For the sake of your so-called sense of ceremony, it is against our initial intention to make ourselves and the people around us very tired, so we must grasp the degree.