A composition on the topic of "reminder"?

Remind happiness. We have been used to living by reminding since childhood. At the first sign of trouble, my mother said, don't forget to put on more clothes. I just met a friend, and my father said, be careful that he is a liar. You have achieved a little success, but you haven't been able to laugh out loud. All the people who care about you say together, don't be proud! When you are immersed in joy, you keep saying to yourself: Don't be too happy, suffering may come soon ... We are used to reminding, and the suffix of reminding is always disaster. Disaster seems to have become the patent of reminder, and the reminder is also dyed with a touch of derogatory meaning. We are used to living with reminders. Visible fear and invisible fear always hover overhead like crows. On a bright night in the bright moon, the reminder will come out and say to you: pay attention to the storm. So we ignored the bright moonlight and hurried to make all the preparations for storm warning. When our eyes are wide open, the storm is like a sheep coming home late, and I don't know where to wander. When we really can't stand waiting for the disaster, we even maliciously hope that the storm will come earlier. On many nights, the storm never came. We failed to live up to the cold silver moonlight. The storm finally came quietly. We were disappointed to find that most of the preparations were useless. After all, the risks that can be resisted in advance are limited, but the unpredictable disasters in the world are infinite. Overcoming the disaster depends more on one step at the door, and the previous anxiety can't help. When the tail of the storm finally goes away, we hold the messy home. Before we can breathe, a new reminder rings intelligently, and we begin to look forward to the future with fear. There are always disasters in life. In fact, most people have already learned to be calm about disasters, but we just haven't learned to be happy between disasters. We pay too much attention to our awareness of suffering. We neglect to remind happiness too much. Please pay attention to happiness from now on! Does happiness also need to be reminded? Remind you to be careful when you fall ... Remind you to pay attention to slippery roads ... Remind you not to be cheated ... Remind you not to be shocked by honor or disgrace ... The sages reminded us 11 times, but they didn't remind us of happiness. Maybe they think that happiness can't run without reminding. Maybe they think that you will cherish the good things, rather than earnestly admonish them. Maybe they admire blood and fire too much and feel that happiness is not worth mentioning. They always stand on the precipice and show us how to escape from the future suffering. But what is the time after avoiding suffering? That is happiness! It is necessary to learn to enjoy happiness, and to be reminded when happiness is coming. People can naturally learn the pleasures of the senses, but people can't naturally master the rhythm of happiness. The pleasure of the soul and the comfort of the organs are like twin brothers, sometimes dependent on each other, and sometimes diametrically opposed. Happiness is a tremor of the soul. It needs constant training like an ear that can listen to music. In short, happiness is a moment without pain. It does not appear as infrequently as we thought. People often just pick up the golden mane on the ground when the happy golden carriage has sailed far away and say, I have seen her before. People like to reminisce about happy specimens, but ignore the moment when happiness is covered with dew and gives off fragrance. At that time, we were often in a hurry, looking back and wondering what we were busy with. There are people who forecast typhoons, locusts, plagues and earthquakes. No one predicts happiness. In fact, happiness, like everything in the world, has its signs. Happiness is often hazy, and showers us with rain in moderation. Don't always hope for vigorous happiness, it just comes quietly. Don't try to turn the tap bigger, so that happiness will be lost quickly. You need to quietly experience the true meaning of happiness with peace of mind. Happiness is mostly simple. It won't flash red light in the high sky like a signal flare. It is wrapped in its natural coat and wrapped us warmly. Happiness doesn't like noise and glitz, it often comes in gloom. A cake in poverty, a soulmate's eyes in trouble, a rough touch from my father, a warm note from my girlfriend … all these are happiness that can't be bought for thousands of dollars. Like a ruby on an old silk, it is more and more dazzling in the desolation. Happiness sometimes plays a joke on us and comes in disguise. Opportunity, friendship, success, reunion ... They all resemble happiness, but they are not the same as happiness. Happiness is sometimes short-lived, and it doesn't cover the sky like suffering. If the suffering and happiness of life are separated at the two ends of the scale, the suffering is huge and happiness may be just a small ore. But the pointer must be tilted to the side of happiness, because it has the gold of life. Happiness has a trapezoidal section, which can be expanded or reduced, depending on whether you cherish it or not. We should be alert to happiness and enjoy every minute passionately when it comes. According to the research of scientists, the result of intentional attention is much better than that of unintentional attention. When spring comes, we should say to ourselves, it's spring! My heart will flush with green. When we are happy, we should say to ourselves, please remember this moment! Happiness will be with us for a long time. Then we have more happiness! Therefore, in the harvest season, don't think about the possible disaster year, we still have a long winter to think about it. We are going to dance and sing with our friends to render joy. Now that the seeds have repaid the sweat, we have the right to immerse ourselves in happiness. Never mind the wind, frost, rain and snow in the future, let's grind the wheat into flour and bake a delicious bread first. Therefore, when we get together from the ends of the earth, please don't hesitate to leave after a while. In the long years to come, there will be countless lonely nights to taste the sadness alone. Now every minute, let it burn like pure alcohol into a happy light blue flame, leaving no residue. Let's raise our glasses and say: We are happy. Therefore, when we are waiting at the knees of our elderly parents, you should have the courage to say to yourself: I am very happy, even if their temples are gray and even if they are old. Because heaven and earth are impermanent, one day you will lose them and regret this moment infinitely. Happiness is not synchronized with wealth, status, prestige and marriage, it is just the feeling of your heart. So, when we have nothing, we can also say that I am happy. Because we still have healthy bodies. When we no longer enjoy health, the bravest people can still smile and say: I am very happy. Because I still have a healthy heart. Even when our hearts no longer exist, the best human molecules can still say loudly to the universe: I am very happy. Because I used to live. Always remind yourself to pay attention to happiness, just like looking at the sun often on a cold day, your heart is unconsciously warm.