We often hear women say that they want to find a solid arm to lean on and get a kind of comfort and sureness. In fact, men also need it. He is not looking for a more solid arm than himself, but looking for a soft, not solid, but warm habitat where he can rest safely.
? The dependence of men is different from that of women. His dependence comes from a gentle greeting, a simple intimacy, a woman's delicate coquetry, and the comfort brought by a woman's intimate complaint.
? Sometimes a man needs a woman's nagging, a woman's complaining and a woman's endless talk about her day's experience. You may see a big man lying in a woman's arms, listening to a woman's story, just like a child listening to his mother's story, and still having so many dozes. When they listen to women, they don't want to know anything, just like listening to music, enjoying an expression from the bottom of their loved ones. ? Men need to understand and care a little, even a trivial problem is a kind of beauty. Some people say that they hate their women's nagging, which is true, because this woman's nagging is a topic that annoys men, which really makes men feel that they are not listening to their women's complaints, but listening to a kind of noise.
Men are also afraid of loneliness. Scared than a woman. They are afraid that their women will stop talking, and they will stop saying what they think. They are afraid that their women will go far, even if they leave for a short time, they will be nervous.
Men's dependence also comes from attachment and loyalty to feelings. They feel that attachment and loyalty to feelings are more important than anything else, because what they fear most is the fire in the backyard, because it will make them lose a belief, that is, the meaning of losing their lives. The meaning of life comes from the loyalty of human nature. Once a man feels the lack of humanity, he will feel that there is nothing worthy of trust in this world, and then he will become a walking corpse, and there will be no happiness from then on.
Men's dependence also comes from respect. They think that mutual emotional respect is second only to loyalty and persistence. They believe that all feelings come from persistent loyalty and mutual respect. This respect comes from subtle words, but what is lacking is a grand ceremony. Maybe it's a simple birthday present, maybe it's a simple act, and it's all respect for yourself. Sometimes they don't need anything so specific, they just need a heartfelt care. This man is vain and practical.
Men cry like women when they are most sad and frustrated. It's just a catharsis. At this time, all he needs is a woman's action-touch her head, say a few words of comfort, don't go away and enjoy silence with him. That's enough.
? In fact, men are sometimes troublesome, but they are not as real as women. They are all made in secret. Men who can't even talk about it are also vulnerable, because they suffer more than women. Even a woman who is stronger than a man will not bear more than a man, because a man is a carrier that needs to be borne by God. You can't escape!