Speaking of fear, people are afraid of many things. Women are afraid of old age, old people are afraid of death, heroes are afraid of illness, and children are afraid of the dark. Have you had so many terrible experiences? In fact, you can be afraid of nothing in the world, but people are most afraid of people. Is it terrible to disturb your supervisor? Isn't it terrible to give you bureaucratic airs? Is it terrible to cheat friends? Isn't it terrible to marry a dragon? Isn't it terrible to marry a man who gambles and drinks?
Don't say that people are afraid of people. Many people are afraid of animals. Some people are afraid of mice, snakes, cockroaches, earthworms, spiders, caterpillars and tiger bees. Some people are timid and fearless, others are proud and fearless. However, being brave is not necessarily strong. There are many things in the world that are better than people. Not afraid of fire and water? Aren't you afraid to shake the earth? There are really seven lords and eight lords, black and white impermanence standing by your side, aren't you afraid?
Confucianism has encouraged scholars to respect heaven and fear God since ancient times, while Buddhism teaches believers to be afraid of karma. The so-called bodhisattva is afraid of career, even bodhisattva is afraid of bugs on lions, so truth is afraid of rumors, rumors are afraid of wise men, fools are afraid of wisdom, and evil is afraid of integrity.
There is nothing in the world except those who are afraid. Every animal and plant has something to be afraid of. Mice are afraid of cats, cats are afraid of dogs, elephants are afraid of mice, frogs are afraid of snakes, snakes are afraid of centipedes, centipedes are afraid of roosters, trees are afraid of moths, and computers are afraid of hackers.
Fear is not the monopoly of the weak. Sometimes, no matter how powerful a country is, it is afraid of foreign invasion. No matter how powerful the group is, it is also afraid of infighting. No matter how prosperous the family is, it is also afraid that the prodigal son will turn back. Brothers who kiss again are also afraid of walls. In addition, thieves are afraid of the police, emperors are afraid of loyal ministers, treacherous court officials are afraid of martyrs, people with high martial arts are afraid of stabbing in the back, wicked people are afraid of the law, travelers are afraid of getting lost, sailors are afraid of getting lost, and they are afraid of highway traffic jams when they go home.
With this statement, people are most afraid of pain and sadness, and trees are most afraid of peeling and digging roots.
He also said that he was not afraid of being invited, but that his art was not refined and that he was not afraid of young people suffering. He is worried that he will be poor when he is old.
What people fear most is laziness, and lazy people will eventually accomplish nothing, so "Foguang Caigen Tan" is late: lazy people will lose their fortune; Diligence can increase merit.
Someone once criticized that a man who is afraid of his wife has no future. In fact, a man who is afraid of his wife must be a good husband. What's wrong with being afraid
Classic quotations of love: love is afraid of fraud.
1. The best feeling is to find a partner to chat with. Various topics can never be finished; I don't feel tired if I repeat the language. Companionship is two of a kind's habit; Knowing is an attachment between two hearts.
2. What you need to love someone is to talk, not to blame; It is unforgettable, not forgotten; Communicate with each other, not explain everything; Pray for each other silently, instead of making many demands on each other; Can be romantic, but don't waste it; Don't hold hands casually, let alone let go. Please remember to cherish the immediate happiness.
In order to maintain feelings, it is always necessary to find a form of existence for feelings in real life. Maybe it is an ideology, such as spiritual love. It doesn't matter if you can't see each other, as long as there is that person in your heart, he has become a warm cloud in your heart; Maybe it's a form of daily life. If you can see each other's smiling face when you wake up in the morning, you can smell her hair when you open the door after work. Food is on the table and people are around you.
4. Two people have been together for a long time, just like the left hand and the right hand. Even if they no longer love each other, they will choose to be together, because it takes a lot of courage to give up for so many years. Maybe there will be someone you love in your life, but it will be a passer-by, and you will still walk with your left hand or right hand. Happiness really has nothing to do with love.
It's easy to fall in love with someone, but it's not easy to stick to that promise after being dull. Love is never pandering. No quarrel, no scolding, is true love. True love comes to the end. If there is no result, it can only be called love. In fact, if you really love someone, you will fall into an uncontrollable whirlpool. He made you cry and let you down. Even so, when he stood there, you would still go over and hold his hand, involuntarily.
6. The hardest thing about feelings is not that two people really love each other. Love is hard to maintain and last, because life is not just a day. After all, life is realistic, and people have to go through such a test, not just saying I love you. There will be many unexpected things in life, so be patient enough to face them. You have to go through some things to understand some truth. Experience has changed a lot.
7. People who really love you will accompany you to the future; True love is not a moment's commitment and confession, but the years we have passed together afterwards; The true fate is not predestined arrangement, but the determination of two people to recognize each other.
8. Love is afraid of fraud. True love may not be so smooth, colorful, beautifully packaged and boasted by advertisements, but it has inherent quality assurance. True love is not without short circuit and injury, but with a guarantee, a promise of two hearts, written between heaven and earth.
9. Love is the most beautiful feeling of human beings. When two hearts finally come together after a long journey, they look after each other like mirrors and have no doubt about each other. When they say to each other every beat: I will never leave you! Then, love has come quietly, and no force can separate them!
10. You know, everyone is looking forward to a sincere love, a partner who will accompany you through the long road of life. Love is like a fleeting time, many things will be consumed in time, only love is eternal; Only love is the warmest place in your heart and mine.
1 1. No matter how difficult the road is and how the environment changes, love can't be changed, or you can say you don't love, say you love, be sincere, be firm, be tolerant in understanding, deepen in tolerance, not be influenced by the world, not fall into the clouds, and not change your original intention, in order to reach a happy future.
12. Now I don't blame anyone, laugh at anyone and envy anyone. Sometimes I really don't know if everything I insist on for you is worth it, when you are sad. I wish I could be by your side. Try to make you laugh. Love in your eyes is just a selfish insistence, but I love you all my life.
13. Love is just one of the contents of life. There is also affection, friendship, sense of accomplishment, artistic appreciation, and various hobbies bring you great pleasure. Only the sum of these is a rich life. If love outshines others, it is like a chair with long legs and unstable sitting.
14. If you love someone, you always think he is stupid, and you should take care of him everywhere. But when you don't like someone, you must be smart, don't bother anyone and make good use of it. Be kind to yourself. You don't have to wait for hard work and sacrifice to get love. You can love yourself first. Love yourself and others, and love will not dry up.
15. Love is not a sale, and you don't need to bear a conscience debt. Every girl has the right to pursue happiness. Why did she lose herself in a man she despised? You can't live together if you want different things. If you let go, you will be happier.
16. Love is like debt. We are willing to accept the uncertainty of what we owe others, hand ourselves over to the other party for disposal, and let the other party decide how and when to pay it back. Its happiness comes from our own fiery emotions, and in this way, we fell in love with love.
Classic Quotations: If you are not afraid of being blocked by ten thousand people, you are afraid of surrendering yourself.
Introduction: Happiness is a feeling and a realm. Life is a kaleidoscope, in which all the ups and downs are hidden. Life is still a state of mind. People who value are bitter, while those who look down on them are free and easy; Persistent people are fascinated, enlightened people are empty; People who want more are tired, and those who don't want more are idle. When the heart is weak, there will be more happiness.
1, like a song, often not because I like it, but because I miss someone in a way!
You like her, and she likes you very much. You all know that one day one of you will speak first, but I don't know which day you will say you like each other first. This is the best time.
People who can see through three aspects of you are trustworthy: the sadness behind your smile, the love hidden in your anger, and the reason for your silence.
Some troubles are imaginary, but we feel they are real.
An unacceptable love needs not sadness, but time, a time to forget. A deeply broken heart needs not sympathy, but understanding.
6, the direction of the headwind, more suitable for flying, not afraid of thousands of people stop, afraid of surrender.
7. If you love someone deeply, you should learn to stop yourself, don't take him as everything, don't tell him everything, and don't share all your secrets with him. The more you invest, the more you will forget yourself. People who have no self can't find their place in love. The only ending, the tighter you hold on to love, the farther you run, and finally you can only crush your dreams and let the once promises drift away like flying flowers.
8. There will always be times when others say what is in our hearts, but we are unwilling to admit it.
9. Being single does not represent an identity, but a word to describe a person who is strong enough to live independently of others and will enjoy life very much.
10, don't be afraid to change, you may lose some good things, but you may also get some better things.
1 1. Travel is spiritual reading, and reading is spiritual travel.
12, true love is not to let go when you feel tired, not to leave when you feel inappropriate, but to stay together even if you are tired and fight for it even if it is inappropriate. Tired because I care, inappropriate because I don't love enough. True love doesn't have so many excuses.
13, friends rarely talk about the future, but the future is often together; Lovers are always talking about the future, but often there is no future.
14, everyone has an incomplete story and every story has an unforgettable person.
15, the past can't be rewritten, but it makes me stronger. Thank you for every change, every heartbreak and every scar.
16. In countless sleepless nights, I believe many people will habitually close their eyes, miss a person quietly, and miss a face. In their hearts, it may be enough to have such a person to miss.
17, men's love is born from overlooking while women's love is born from looking up. If love is like a mountain, the more men go up, the more women they can look down on, while the more women go up, the less men they can look up on.
18, if a person has nothing to rely on, he will often become strong.
19, in the journey of life, everyone is busy getting to know all kinds of people, thinking that this is to enrich life. But the most valuable meeting is to meet yourself again at a certain moment, and then you will understand that traveling around the world is just to find a way back to your heart.
20, because I like it, I am willing, there is not so much why.
2 1, the so-called growth is to look down on what was originally valued and value what was originally underestimated.
22. What I fear most about distance is that you don't know whether that person is thinking of you or has forgotten you.
23, the wings of imagination can not be opened, because of the imprisonment of thought; The ideal wings can't fly high because the mind is numb.
24. How far is it from birth to death? How far is it from mystery to enlightenment? How far is it from love to hate, between impermanence; How far is it from ancient times to the present, between laughing and not laughing; How far is it from you to me, between understanding; How far is it between heart and heart, between heaven and earth; Life, how impermanent it is to wake up!
25. The earth is round because God wants those who are lost or lost to meet again.
26. Many times, because there is no choice, people tend to take the right path.
27. Sometimes you are angry, angry and sad. In fact, it is only because the result you get is far from what you think, and you have been fighting with yourself.
28. If you give him more time, he will give you more time to talk about a leisurely love.
29. Once any question is asked, the answer is already there. The reason why I have to ask everywhere is just because I don't like that answer.
Although books can't help you solve problems directly, they can give you a better perspective.
3 1, we have a natural inertia, always thinking about eating the least suffering, taking the shortest detour and getting the maximum benefit. There are some things that others can do for you, but they can't feel for you. Without this mental journey, even if you succeed again, the spiritual field is still barren. The happiness of success and the satisfaction of harvest are not at the end of the struggle, but in the process of struggle, the road must be taken by itself and cannot be replaced by others.
32. When you change a person from missing to remembering, it means that he has evaporated in your life.
33. People can be close to each other, but no one can open each other's hearts and see what they are thinking. Therefore, they are likely to rely on their own guesses and inferences to act. Therefore, misunderstanding is the main theme of life.
When we have tasted the ups and downs, we will realize that "light" is the most mellow and lasting spiritual taste in life.
35. I like grateful women who travel alone. Know how to thank your parents, but don't follow blindly; Know how to thank heaven and earth, but not narcissism; Know how to thank your friends, but don't rely on them; I know to thank every seed, every breeze, and I know to get up early to sow and walk against the wind. -Bi Shumin
36. Hold on as fast as possible before letting go. Because love, once missed, will never come back.
37. Happiness is a feeling and a realm. Life is a kaleidoscope, in which all the ups and downs are hidden. Life is still a state of mind. People who value are bitter, while those who look down on them are free and easy; Persistent people are fascinated, enlightened people are empty; People who want more are tired, and those who don't want more are idle. When the heart is weak, there will be more happiness.
38. We always remember those who have forgotten us, and those who have been forgotten by us are also commemorating us.
39. No matter whether your life is bitter or sweet, you are the spice of your own life; Whether you are sad or happy, you are the Andhadhun of your own life.
40, true love, will not complain because of injury; Will not let go because of difficulties; And I won't hate it because I let go.
Editor's note: If you love someone deeply, you should learn to stop yourself, don't take him as everything, don't tell him everything, and don't share all the secrets with him. The more you invest, the more you will forget yourself. People who have no self can't find their place in love. The only ending, the tighter you hold on to love, the farther you run, and finally you can only crush your dreams and let the once promises drift away like flying flowers.
Classic Quotations: I'm afraid I'll never see you again and I'm afraid I'll meet you again.
Introduction: Those enviable feelings are actually not so much vows of eternal love. The so-called vigorous, just after they have experienced many tests and hardships, they can stand side by side and hold hands.
1. My predecessors and predecessors were great. One of them taught me to be a gentle woman and the other taught me to be a mature woman, but I like this one best because he taught me to be a child again. May you meet that person, too, and be a child again.
2. When you love someone dearly, love has already lived in your heart. Only love is a feeling from the deep heart, tenderness can be disguised, romance can be made, beauty can be decorated, and only love is the most primitive emotion.
3, either money, love, or a strong heart, at least one, will not live so hard.
If a man really loves you, he will only work hard because he is afraid that he can't take care of you. If he cares about everything about you and loses his temper with you casually, it just shows that he loves himself and has no ability and ability to love you.
Every night, you have to put up with thinking of you with an empty stomach.
6. The more people grow up, the more they can understand that love is the second and getting along is the most important.
7. Never doubt yourself because of what others say, and never look down on yourself because of who you like. All your strengths and weaknesses are ready to accept you now. You know, everyone wants to be a better self, but it doesn't mean that you don't deserve to be loved now.
8. When you are in a bad mood, you should learn to solve it by yourself, not by talking. Because, once you pour out what you don't want, you will feel even worse. Just like a lucky draw, most of the time all you get is thanks for your patronage.
9. The best fate in the world is to have a chatting partner. I don't mind that you talk too much, and I won't get tired of it for a long time. I will always be with you, thinking about your warmth and understanding your joys and sorrows.
10, remember, never lose the person who has been with you because of novelty.
1 1, never, never, never guess that you have a certain position in others' hearts, and you will be embarrassed as a result.
12, you should make yourself beautiful at all costs, even in those bad days.
13, you can't decide whether it will be sunny or rainy tomorrow, whether your lover will stay, and what can you get from this moment's persistence? But you can decide whether to take an umbrella, whether to love someone well, and whether to work hard enough. Don't forget why you came here in the first place because you were afraid of the endless road ahead. Today's suffering is to see the gift of the future!
14, although I am careless, my heart is like a mirror. Who is a bitch, who is a good person, who takes part in accidental amusement, who is everywhere, and each radish has a corresponding pit. Smiles and words can't move me, nor can flattery and enthusiasm. A person is really insincere and can't be shown by acting.
15. When you are old and look back on your life, you will find that when you study abroad, when you decide on your first job, when you choose a person to fall in love, and when you get married, it is actually a great change of fate. It's just that you were standing at a fork in the road and saw the wind and clouds. The day you made your choice was quite dull and ordinary in your diary. At that time, you thought it was an ordinary day in your life.
16. True love is not without differences and quarrels, but as long as you are willing to tolerate, I am willing to persist.
17, I don't like to please "friends" who don't have much overlap. Everyone has different circles and different ideas. The ideas and practices of many things are inconsistent. Then you miss yours, I'll do mine, and everyone has limited energy and is comfortable.
18, the best sense of security is to know that every dislike is based on liking.
19, you can do anything, but only if you don't feel sad about the result. A man's strength depends not on what he can do, but on what he can bear.
20. Are you the same? If you love, you will despair; if you hate, you will have no choice.
2 1, waiting is not stubborn, but I am also curious to see how much I like you.
At first, we pretended to be confused to understand. Later, we played dumb and understood. It is not that we want to live in ignorance. However, a lot of things, with hard work, will be exposed, exposed and lost. The world of adults is always so fragile.
23. Give up what you can't get. Doesn't it hurt to think of it every day?
24. The biggest sorrow is that I have always liked you, but I have never owned you.
25. I can't associate with people who like to take advantage of small things for a long time, not because I care about that little money, but because I feel like a fool for a long time. It's really disgusting!
26. You should understand that you like the other person, not the other person likes you. Since you took the initiative, you can't blame anyone You have the courage to pursue your love, and you also have the courage to accept your tears. You have to bear the consequences yourself. Who told you that you have the ability to like others, but you can't make others like you?
27. I'm afraid I'll never see you again. I'm afraid I'll meet you again.
I thought you would like me if I could make you laugh, but I didn't expect that I lost to someone who made you cry.
29. If it is dangerous to make a sound, then keep silent; If you feel unable to shine, don't illuminate others. However, don't get used to defending the darkness, don't be complacent about your reluctance, and don't ridicule those who are braver and more enthusiastic than yourself. Can be humble as dust, not twisted as maggots.
30. The antonym of love is not hate, but boredom. The antonym of life is not death, but the life of others.
3 1, really love someone, you don't need to force it. But naturally, I want to love forever.
32. Some people choose to be alert first and be friendly after receiving enough care; I am naturally enthusiastic, eager to please, and will pay blindly until I get hurt. It's hard to say which way is better. They may have ended the unknown sadness, but I met you.
33. I am doing two things now. One is to be excellent, and the other is to wait for you.
34. I think others respect me because I am excellent. I gradually understand that others respect me because others are excellent. Excellent people know how to respect others. Respecting others is actually respecting yourself.
I only hope that next time, you can put down your pride and be as crazy as me?
36. It is really the most precious thing in our youth to be able to memorize an exam desperately, simply by making friends and doing interesting things in time and freely. As for love, just let it be, we will meet you anyway, and we can't live up to ourselves when we are alone.
37. At present, both fear and worry are due to lack of ability and experience. Ten years later, everything is just a snack we should have.
38. I heard that once you forgive, you will get it, and twice you will betray it.
39. The first person you think of when you are happy must be the one you love most. The first person you think of when you are sad must be the one who loves you the most. If you think of the same person, cherish it. If you miss TA, it may be difficult to meet the second one.
40. Don't talk about face, don't talk about feelings.
Editor's note: The so-called love for yourself means not to give up on yourself because of the harsh external environment, and not to punish yourself because of other people's mistakes. Don't take it out on your fate just because you have a bad deck of cards, and be decadent to the end.