Introduction: Do men care about women’s past? Many women will ask this, and many men will answer of course, I love you now, of course not. But in fact this is not the case. Men care more about each other's past than women. Let me help you understand the truth immediately! Do men care about women’s past?
Many men say to women: It doesn’t matter, I love you now and don’t care about your past. ?Actually, this is a completely self-deceiving lie. Men always care about their girlfriend's past. There is a plot in the novel "The Tree of Life" by Japanese modern writer Takami Shun: a barmaid made a boyfriend, who tried every means to learn that she had a lover in the past and was cut on the face by him. So, when this person dreamed that she was sleeping in the same bed with her old lover at night, he rudely shook her awake and asked: "You have been thinking about him, there must be something special about him that attracts you!" The waitress said sadly: "He just cut my face, but you are more cruel than him!"
Many men will ask this question after the relationship with their love partner develops to a certain extent: ?Who did you like before you started dating me? What did he do and how long ago did it happen? How far has your relationship developed? This questioning tone is sometimes as powerful as "distinguish the complicated and clarify the confusion" The confused detective who handles the case is sometimes as gentle as a kind grandmother. This is a man! Where does this habit of obsessing over a woman’s past come from? Analysis of the reasons why men care about a woman’s past
1. Men are more jealous than women.
Some people think that jealousy is a female exclusive. This is really a wrong view. Many men are more jealous than women. There is a famous play by Shakespeare called "Othello". The protagonist Othello strangled his wife to death because he suspected that he was having an affair with another man.
2. Men’s desire for exclusivity is extremely strong
If she is now his girlfriend, but the man is still not satisfied with the exclusivity in front of him, even her past? They also want to take possession of themselves, even if they know that this is unrealistic, but insist on doing so. If this desire reaches the point of excessive expansion, some abnormal phenomena will occur. In other words, she is only allowed to care about him, and it is best not to care about anyone except him at all. The results of this almost abnormal psychology are sometimes terrifying. Many contemporary young intellectuals are very afraid of having children after starting a family. They believe that once they have children, their wives will transfer most of their feelings to them, which they are unwilling to do. Many men actually think that children are the "third party" that affects the relationship between husband and wife. This shows how possessive men are to an astonishing degree.
3. Men think it is a right to explore their girlfriend’s past.
They interrogate women in every possible way without feeling that they are narrow-minded or embarrassed. There are many men like this. yes. Women are different. They only pay attention to their boyfriend's present and future. Although they are also interested in their past, they are not the only ones who like to inquire about it as much as men. They may think this way: Even if he has had some romantic affairs in the past, what will happen if he takes it to heart? Isn’t it a waste of effort!? The reason why women can have this kind of tolerance is mainly because of society’s tolerance for men. affected them.
Summary: When asking about a woman’s past, whether to ask a few questions lightly or pursue her relentlessly depends on the man’s character. A man with an insidious personality and a narrow mind will probably be nagging and nagging endlessly. When the woman confesses one thing, he will immediately ask about the second one. After she makes the second confession, he will force her to make the third confession. Three pieces of "Confession", so one step at a time, the pressure never stops. How do men feel about inquiring into women's past? It is a right for them. If this is the case, then it is also a right for women to hide their past from men and not tell the truth.