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A woman's "badness" is a provocative state, a seasoning in a dull relationship, and a spark in the emotional life of two people.
The "bad" mentioned here is not a problem with a woman's quality, but a style, a way of behavior that breaks the rules.
Bai Wei has been married to Wu Hao for ten years, and she is still as old as new. Her husband has always doted on her, making others envious.
Many women have said to her with envy: "You are so lucky to have married a good man." But Bai Wei said: "Actually, love is the same, I just won't leave you. "The ordinary way."
What Bai Wei said about "not taking the ordinary way" is actually being a "bad" woman.
Men hope that a woman can be "good", that she can be diligent and thrifty, take care of her family, support her husband and raise children; but at the same time, they hope that she can be "bad", that she can be humorous and full of sentiment.
The boundary between "good" and "bad" needs to be grasped by women themselves.
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When they are together, a woman only sees that a man wants her to be "good", so she puts all her energy into running the household, but neglects the management of relationships. , and this is precisely the flaw.
If a woman is "bad", a man will love her more seriously. To make a man love you more deeply, a woman needs to be bad in four places.
First, don’t be too "nice" and break the rules of getting along
Many women have been taught to be gentle and obedient since childhood, so whether in front of their parents or in front of men, they inevitably have to let go of themselves. In a low position, obey the other person obediently.
But this kind of "behaving well" makes the relationship lose the sense of surprise, and over time, the other person feels that he is boring.
Bai Wei is a woman who is not very "obedient" and often breaks the rules of getting along, which makes Wu Hao feel sweet and happy.
Of course, Wu Hao would occasionally be frightened and worried, but no matter what Wu Hao received was surprise or panic, because of Bai Wei's existence, the marriage had a special flavor.
When you are in love, don’t be too obedient. Only unexpected life will surprise men.
A woman should be good at breaking the rules of getting along, and throw a rock that can cause waves from time to time in a peaceful life, so that he can feel that he has many sides and a sense of freshness that is endless for people to explore.
Second, when chatting, be "bad" but also playful.
Women usually think that talking about love is a man's patent, so they wait for men to take the initiative to flirt with them. But I am stupid and ignorant.
Bai Wei is a woman who likes to talk about love. She likes to make her husband shy or embarrassed because of her love words.
Although Wu Hao often heard Bai Wei's "bad" love words in front of everyone, which made him feel at a loss, he felt sweet in his heart.
In fact, men, like women, need to be filled with sweet love words. In relationships, they also need to passively accept love and receive care and care.
Therefore, when a woman is chatting, she might as well be a little "bad", a little playful, get rid of the dullness, be more humorous, and occasionally say some love words to make him feel that he is needed and cared for.
Shyness and reserve are stumbling blocks on the road to love. Lovers have already revealed their feelings to each other, and there is no need to hide their love. You might as well be bolder, men will be happier.
Third, being "wilder" will make men care more
After women enter the palace of marriage, they are used to focusing on their family, and even abandon their friends for the sake of their family. and social circles, staying at home all day.
But it is precisely because of this that women have lost themselves unconsciously, and it also makes men feel that you can't live without him.
When a man feels secure, he will gradually become indifferent towards women. Wu Hao has always lacked some sense of security in his marriage. He always felt that if he didn't cherish Bai Wei, she would leave him.
After getting married, Bai Wei still maintained her own lifestyle, giving Wu Hao seven points of security and leaving three points to love herself.
Occasionally she would gather with friends and go on casual trips with her best friends. Her life was so wonderful that Wu Hao was often moved and admired.
A woman who is more "wild" will make a man less "wild" and more concerned.
Even if a woman gets married, she should have her own life. Don't stay at home all day long. Marriage is not everything in life. You should preserve your own lifestyle and your circle of friends.
Fourth, have a bit of a "bad" temper and express your emotions bravely
Marriage needs to complement each other, but it should not give in blindly and unilaterally. A woman may feel that by being patient, she can prevent a family dispute.
However, when a woman loses her temper, a man will become even more aggressive. He will never know that he is hurting you, and it will be difficult for him to learn to respect you.
Bai Wei and Wu Hao actually quarrel occasionally. She never tolerates it blindly. She feels that every time she loses her temper, there should be the value of communication and mutual understanding.
Facts have proved that when Bai Wei loses her temper once in a while, Wu Hao understands better which of her bottom lines cannot be violated, and thus respects her better.
Women should have a bit of a "bad" temper and be brave enough to express their emotions.
A woman should love someone in her most authentic way, with her own thorns. That way, he can fall in love with everything about you.
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A woman's "badness" is a means of maintaining love, which should be used with the right person and on the right occasion.
At home, Bai Wei knows how to act coquettishly and be "bad", but outside, she is completely different, giving her husband full face and maintaining his dignity and image.
And Wu Hao's sincerity was all given to this "ever-changing" wife.
Every marriage requires some effort to manage and preserve love.
It doesn’t matter if a woman is “bad”, because that is a kind of “funny” and a unique way of expressing herself.
A little thought can make love sweeter and longer. A woman must achieve the combination of "good" and "bad" to make a man fall in love more and more crazy.