On the issue of safety, men and women have obviously different views. Women feel that this man has a sense of security, not because of his tall and handsome, rich economy and other external conditions, but because the other party has entrusted her with lifelong confidence, so she will be willing to be with the other party. External conditions may be the reason why she falls in love with you, but it is not the reason why a sense of security can be born. It is said that the more clothes women wear, the more secure they feel, but the more men women associate with, the less secure they feel, so security is actually a classic standard to measure whether there is love or not. Women's sense of security comes from their love for men, and women's love gives men a sense of security.
Therefore, on the topic of safety, men are the source and women are the masters.
When you want to establish a certain position in her heart, whether you can make her feel safe is actually the key to winning.
1. Know how to respect women.
Don't interfere with each other's choices too much. It's best to encourage her to develop her strengths, because everyone is the same. If you do something you don't like, you won't have passion and motivation. If you feel good, she may not think it's the best for you. An important criterion of a modern good man is to respect all women, including those who have only met once.
2. Warm physical contact
Why do women love to hold hands with men? Because it's so sweet, it makes people feel practical. In fact, everyone has a desire for physical contact, regardless of gender. The warmth of palms and arms is what impresses women the most, and it is far more memorable than any diamond. When she thinks of you, she usually thinks of your arm, so don't be stingy with hugs and twisted fingers.
3. Care for others when appropriate.
Caring and considerate every woman is frustrated, but too much care will only make her very tired. When she is upset, you can just play the role of trash can. Sometimes all a woman needs is an object to tell, and then she is released, without necessarily asking for results.
Try to remember the name of the friend she mentioned to you and give you the best advice you can think of when she is in trouble.
4. Let her family and friends appreciate you.
The elders are really fierce, and their eyes are super poisonous. If you can win the appreciation of her family and friends, you will survive half of it. Because women are usually easily influenced by people around them, and those who admire you will get a lot of help in many things.
5. Try to be broad-minded and tolerant.
Although many men now demand fairness in everything because they used to be the sunshine at home, after all, women need to be coaxed, so please don't be too impulsive. If it doesn't involve principles, give in first. Only by calming down your contradictions can the two of them calm down and seek a solution.
6. Be kind to each other's pets
Women all think that men who like small animals are kind-hearted, can take good care of their pets and will certainly take good care of their families. If you really don't like small animals, but don't want to be too obvious, you can tell her in a gentle way that you are allergic to hair, and other reasons are more acceptable.
7. Have a hobby of sports
A man with a certain sports hobby is more likely to find an outlet for his emotions. You make her feel that being with a passionate man will give her confidence in life. I don't think any woman likes to live with a man who only likes to drink and vent all day.
8. Make her feel safe talking to you.
If a woman can communicate openly with you, it means that you have a certain position in her heart. But you'd better know when to talk and when to shut up. Don't be afraid to express, you can share your feelings and thoughts with her appropriately, so that she will feel that you are on her side and depend on you more in her heart. Make sure you don't laugh at her because she expresses her inner thoughts.
9. Draw a line with female friends.
Both men and women should have their own circle of friends, but men who play ambiguous games are definitely what women hate most. If you are embarrassed to refuse another woman, then sooner or later she will refuse you without regrets. Regardless of vanity or insecurity, in short, they all hope that their men can always appear in their sight and hearing range. You can let her know who your friend is, but you can communicate well in advance, and everyone can give each other space on the basis of trust. When appropriate, give some sweet words. Many times, women are subject to you.