If you have a heart, you can know, if you have feelings, you can love, if you have fate, you can gather, and if you have a dream, you can realize it. What do we live for - to be happy? What kind of person is the most beautiful - a confident person; so we are not only happy, but also confident. When a man sees how circuitous his voyage is, it is best for him to rely on his own conscience as his navigator. Only those who know how to automatically control themselves at the appropriate time can achieve true mental balance and have a happy home. Friends who tolerate each other will be in the same boat for a hundred years; couples who tolerate each other will be together for a hundred years; a world that tolerates each other will be peaceful and beautiful. There is nothing wrong with the youthful feelings of liking a person or a flower. As we grow up, as long as we have loved and loved something, it is beautiful. The gatherings in life are a kind of fate, and sometimes separation is also a blessing of love. The most important thing about loving someone may not be the eternal vows and sweet words. Some trivial things in life can better reflect his affection for you, and that is the code of love. Opportunity is like clear water, it can flow everywhere; Opportunity is like moonlight, it can survive wherever there is a gap. Life is yours and you should live it according to your wishes. Money can promote virtue, but it can also destroy virtue. If we all help those in need with a kind heart. Then we will find that there are many things in the world that are much nobler and more precious than money. You might as well let what has been lost be lost, at least don't wait any longer. You only have one time in your life when you can make a difference. That is now, and yet many people waste their time regretting the past and worrying about the future. Murphy's theorem: As long as anything can develop in a bad direction, it will definitely develop in that direction. I can mention the law: some things only need to be mentioned. . . . . . If it is a good thing, it will definitely be missed; if it is a bad thing, it will definitely happen. The non-reciprocal law of expectations: things you don’t want to happen will not happen, and things you hope to happen will not come true. Ettore's Law: When two teams run in parallel (you are on one of the teams), the other team is always faster. The Law of Selective Fall: An object will fall in the way that causes the greatest harm. Jinning theorized: When the bread falls on the floor, the probability of the butter side facing down is directly proportional to the price of the carpet. A person should know his position, just like a person knows his face. This is the most sober consciousness. It is always more beautiful to wash away all the brilliance than to apply makeup and powder casually. So do what you can and do it the best, this is the most important thing in life. When you are in the most pain, there are birds singing happily outside the window; when you are the happiest, there are people who are suffering from illness, fighting and struggling with death. The world is always the same, it's just that our moods and experiences are different. Everyone is looking forward to a relationship that lasts until death. But you must understand that relationships are like a house. If you cut corners during construction, it will become dangerous; if it is in disrepair for a long time, wall cancer will appear for no reason; sometimes it will leak due to poor construction; sometimes a big typhoon will blow out the glass; sometimes it may Devastated by earthquakes. If there is no fire escape equipment, it is not easy to deal with it. . . . . . And all houses are the same, even prisons, there is a door that can be entered and exited. There is always something missing in life. Whatever you gain, you will also lose. The important thing is that you should know what you want. Anyone who chases two rabbits will inevitably get nothing. Life is not perfect, if you find something wrong. If you start over again, if others don’t forgive you, you can forgive yourself. Never use one mistake to cover up another mistake. The meaning of human life should be in the process, not the conclusion. Therefore, one person should not influence another person with his or her own experience and opinions, not to mention that he is not you, and you are not him. Everyone's growth process is different. You should taste the ups and downs of life for yourself. Trying is life. A river reaches its destination because it knows how to avoid obstacles. The best is not necessarily the most suitable; the most suitable is the truly best.
Thinking about others means giving you a pair of wings. In this world, in addition to power, money, prestige, violence, etc., there is another thing that gives people success; with it, a person's potential can be displayed exponentially, and it is - integrity! The truly unexpected is never predictable. One day you fall in love, you must keep it a secret, and you must not reveal your heart until you know the other person's true identity. If we can love bravely, forgive generously, express our gratification generously for the happiness of others, and cherish the love that surrounds us rationally, then we will achieve a perfection that other lives have never achieved. If a person is not handsome at the age of 20, strong at the age of 30, rich at the age of 40, and wise at the age of 50, then he will never be handsome, strong, rich, or wise in this life. At the age of 30, a person should know himself as well as the palm of his hand, should know exactly what his shortcomings and advantages are, should know how far he can go, can foresee who he will become in the future, and more importantly, accept All this. At the age of 20, people are known for their willpower, at the age of 30, they win with wisdom, and at the age of 40, they rely on rational judgment. Always believe in this: everything will change. No matter how traumatized you are, how heavy your heart is, or how destitute you are, you must persevere. The sun will rise again after it sets, and the days of misfortune will eventually come to an end. This has been the case in the past and will be the case in the future. Weigh whether the success you want to achieve is worth what you will lose in order to achieve it. Selflessly passing on one's best qualities and best skills to those who need him, this human virtue is more eternal than anything else. The failure of some people in marriage is not that they have found the wrong partner, but that they did not understand it from the beginning; when they choose love, they also choose a lifestyle. Remember, the best relationships are about mutual love, not mutual need. When you have a dispute with a loved one, limit it to that dispute and don't bring up old scores. You should remember that sometimes, if you don't get what you want, it may be a wonderful reward given to you by fate. Experience is what you get when you don’t get what you really want. If you laugh, the whole world will laugh with you; if you cry, you will be the only one crying in the whole world. Many times, there is a certain distance between goals and reality. We must learn to adjust at any time. No matter what, people should not live for unrealistic vows and wishes. You can't decide the length of life, but you can control its width; you can't control the weather, but you can change your mood; you can't change your appearance, but you can show a smile; you can't control others, but you can master yourself; you can't You can predict tomorrow, but you can take advantage of today; you can't have everything go smoothly, but you can do your best in everything. Life is not static, there will always be many unexpected things. It is very important to be able to cope with the sudden collapse of Mount Tai without changing the appearance of the mountain, and to deal with it calmly when the storm suddenly arises. Turning danger into safety often requires a superb mind and a good attitude. Think more and be less excited, have more kindness and less hatred, and life will become more beautiful. When you make the choice that suits you and bravely accept everything that comes with it in life, you gain your own self-esteem and confidence. Here you don’t have to use other people’s value orientation as the standard for your own success; you don’t have to base your self-esteem on others’ approval; you don’t have to weigh your confidence on the scale of money. Happiness does not distinguish between rich and poor, and self-confidence does not depend on others. At the beginning of the market economy, the embryo of value diversification was formed. We must be aware of the opportunities that come with freedom, but also the significant challenges to lower-line ethics. Do not kill, do not lie, do not cheat, do not commit adultery, and do not steal, which needs to be reiterated urgently in the market economy. You may not be able to sacrifice yourself for others, but you cannot benefit yourself at the expense of others; you may not be a sage, but you should be moral and humane; you cannot reach the highest level of morality, but you must stick to the lowest limit of morality. Work must be done well; family must be carefully cared for; wealth must be obtained in a proper manner; words and deeds must show taste; consumption must be restrained; time must be arranged reasonably; reading must be a habit; good hobbies must be cultivated; and charity activities must be participated in ; Sustainable development must be supported.
People are often unreasonable, illogical, and self-righteous; no matter what, forgive them. If you are kind-hearted, people may accuse you of having ulterior motives; no matter what, be kind-hearted. If you succeed, you will win some false friends and some real enemies; no matter what, strive for success. If you are honest and forthright, people may lie to you; be honest and forthright no matter what. What you have spent years building may be destroyed by someone; no matter what, build it. If you find peace and happiness, others may be jealous of you; enjoy your happiness no matter what. If you do good deeds today, people will often forget them tomorrow; no matter what, you should do good deeds and accumulate merit. Giving the world your best may never be enough; no matter what, give the world your best.