In the autobiography of Russian President Vladimir Putin, Putin's wife Lyudmila Pujingna reveals why she chose to marry Putin, a strong-willed and taciturn little man, in surprisingly frank and simple language. Lyudmila, with blonde hair and bright blue eyes, was originally a flight attendant of the former Soviet Civil Aviation Company. She and Putin met and fell in love on the plane, but it was by no means "love at first sight". Lyudmila said in a very calm tone in the book:
"I didn't know what Putin did at the time. He only told me that he worked in the police station. Later, I learned from his friends that he was actually a KGB officer. I gradually fell in love with him, because I thought he was a real man, and I began to associate with him. I also love his introverted personality and uncompromising will, and even thought about giving up. But I soon found that I need him very much, because he is a trustworthy person, even a person who can leave everything to him.
1983, just three years after we met, he said to me, "Look, honey, you know my personality is too rigid. Now you must make a choice for your life." I was a little surprised at that time, thinking that Putin was going to break up with me, but later I learned that he was proposing to me in this way. I know he is a person who is not good at expressing himself. I asked if I could bear his personality in my future marriage. Finally, I accepted his proposal and made the proudest decision in my life. I married Putin and stayed with him at the peak of my power. "
2. robert lee
One of the most outstanding commanders in the American Civil War and the most respected and beloved general. Serving in various arms and services before the war enabled him to fully understand and coordinate the relations and arrangements between the arms and services in future command. His strategy is "attack", even in adversity, he dares to attack, and he is also good at grasping the weaknesses and loopholes in the deployment of the other side and launching an attack by surprise. He is also very sensitive to the observation of the situation and never lets go of the clues of the other party's mistakes easily. Li is good at distracting his opponent's attention, and then suddenly a wonderful action, shooting this down on the opponent's opponent. Of course, Li also has some shortcomings and deficiencies. Perhaps the most fatal thing is his introverted personality. Li is very bad at explaining his plans and ideas to his subordinates, which often leads to misunderstandings of his subordinates, especially after the death of Stonewall Jackson. The battle of Gettysburg is the best example. In his only failure, almost none of his subordinates could understand and carry out his orders well. In the whole war, every battle of Li was faced with troops far exceeding his northern army. Although he suffered heavy losses in Antietam and suffered a fiasco in Gettysburg, Li's troops never collapsed, and he always held his ground until the last moment. The North Virginia Army under his command is also the best army in American history.
3. Nobel Prize
Alfred bernhard Nobel, a Swedish chemist, engineer and industrialist, was the founder of the Nobel Prize. 183365438+1October 2 1 was born in Stockholm. Because of the hardships of life, Nobel was born weak and sick, and his poor health made him unable to be as lively and cheerful as other children. He often acts as a bystander when other children play together. The environment of his childhood made him withdrawn and introverted. Influenced by his father, Nobel showed a tenacious and brave character from an early age. He often went to do explosive experiments with his father, and almost spent his childhood in a loud explosion. Nobel didn't go to school until he was eight years old, but he only studied for one year, which was the only formal school education he received. Nobel made many inventions in his life and obtained 255 patents, including 129 kinds of explosives. His interest in invention is not limited to explosives. As an inventor and scientist, he has rich imagination and indomitable perseverance. Nobel is a veritable billionaire, and his wealth has accumulated to 3 billion Swedish dollars. But he is very different from many rich people. He despises money and property and ignores other people's dissuasion and opposition. In his will, he designated all his property as a fund, and used its interest as a bonus every year to distribute it to those who made contributions to mankind in the previous year. The prize money is divided into five parts: physics, chemistry, biology or medicine, literature and supporting the cause of peace. In memory of this great inventor, the Nobel Prize will be awarded every year from the day he died 190 1, that is, 65438+February 10. He made generous donations to various humanitarian and scientific charities, entrusted most of his property to trust funds, and set up awards that later became the highest international honor? -Nobel Prize, that is, Nobel Peace Prize, Literature Prize, Physics Prize, Chemistry Prize, Physiology Prize or Medicine Prize (the Nobel Prize in Economics was added with the funds provided by the Swedish National Bank 1968).
4. abraham lincoln
5. Gandhi
6. Mandela
..... Former US President abraham lincoln, Indian Mahatma Gandhi, South African black leader Nelson Mandela and many other historical celebrities are extremely introverted. If their personalities are different, they may achieve less. Among writers, there will be more such examples. Kagan said: "In my opinion, Eliot, the great poet, is undoubtedly a shy child. Despite this, he is still the winner of the Nobel Prize in Literature. "
7. Chen Yun
..... In the * * * leadership core, Chen Yun, Deng Xiaoping and Lin Biao are more introverted and taciturn.
8. Deng Xiaoping
Deng Xiaoping is also an introverted, calm and taciturn politician. After more than 50 years of revolutionary career, I have developed the style of being fearless in times of crisis, especially in dealing with personal destiny.
Deng Xiaoping's personality quality mainly includes: First, he has a broad mind and tolerance. He is good at dealing with people. Never care about personal grievances. The second is calm and steady. Deng Xiaoping is introverted, taciturn, fearless in times of crisis, and has strong self-discipline and restraint. Third, the will is tough and tenacious. The fourth is the innovative spirit of daring to think and do and dare to experiment.
Zhou Enlai once talked about his feelings about the working methods of Liu Bocheng and Deng Xiaoping. He said that according to my years of observation, their working methods have their own characteristics. Comrade Xiaoping is "as easy as lifting weights" and Comrade Bocheng is "as easy as lifting weights". Liu Deng was an excellent partner during the war. Liu Bocheng is cautious and well-planned; Deng Xiaoping is magnificent and well managed. Deng Xiaoping generally doesn't take a stand easily, but once the situation requires a clear choice, he can make a decisive decision and never relent. His genius is that he can quickly and accurately grasp the main contradiction or the main aspect of the contradiction and solve it decisively in many complicated and confusing clues. As Mao Zedong commented on him, it has the characteristics of "softness with rigidity, needles hidden in cotton".
9. Lin Biao
Lin Biao, like the founding fathers of China, has its own characteristics. He is quick-thinking, introverted and deep, and he is not good at words. Have their own stubborn stubborn, elusive inner world. He doesn't express his intentions frankly like Chen Yi and Peng, nor does he express his intentions by persuasion like Liu Bocheng. He is even more puzzling.
Liu Shaoqi 10
Li Weixin recalled the feeling when he first met Liu Shaoqi, and described it this way: "He didn't like activities, he didn't like talking, he never mentioned any personal requirements, and he didn't like appearing in public. He seems to have no other hobbies except work ... yes, he likes to smoke one after another. "
The guard who had more access to Liu Shaoqi described me as: "He was quiet and introverted. He gives the impression that he is amiable and old, and he never loses his temper with others or plays jokes on you. He is characterized by hard work and doing his work silently all day. His hobbies are smoking and walking. When walking, if it is cold, he wears a scarf or puts up his coat collar, and rarely chats with people when walking. He is just thoughtful and taciturn. "
1 1, Su Yu
Su Yu, a military commander all his life, has commanded numerous battles and is famous for being good at commanding large corps. He directed seven battles in the Soviet Union and won seven victories. Mao Zedong personally drafted a telegram, demanding that "all districts should follow suit". After the meeting of the two field armies in Shandong and Central China, the Central Committee decided: under the leadership of Chen Yi, the major policies were agreed, and "Li (Yu) was in charge of combat command". Su Yu's superb command art won the admiration of Mao Zedong.
Su Yu is introverted, not empty talk. However, he is very opinionated in military command. During the War of Liberation, Mao Zedong and the Central Military Commission had several major strategic plans, all of which were changed because of Su Yu's disagreement. Mao Zedong likes to listen to his opinions on some major strategic issues first. At the end of many cables and telegrams sent to Su Yu on operational issues, it was indicated that Su Yu was invited to "get acquainted".
Takeshi Kaneshiro 12
..... Want to see Takeshi Kaneshiro, originally is not an easy thing. In several publicity activities before If Love, this handsome guy didn't show up. I heard that it is because he is introverted and doesn't like to meet too many strangers. No wonder when interviewed by reporters at Shangri-La Hotel yesterday, Takeshi Kaneshiro was surprised to see a dozen reporters sitting in the room, turned around and plunged into the bathroom. Who wants to bump into the female staff cleaning? It's really embarrassing! Takeshi Kaneshiro even cried sorry and quit. After the staff left the bathroom, he couldn't wait to go in, which lasted for five minutes.
After coming out of the bathroom, Takeshi Kaneshiro seems to find his composure and calmness as the most beautiful man in Asia. He leaned back on the sofa and was interviewed by the reporter. He is dressed in a black suit, a white shirt collar and curly hair, and looks refreshed. Takeshi Kaneshiro's voice is very magnetic. When answering reporters' questions, he will stare at each other closely or occasionally look out of the window. He said that he never deliberately kept mysterious, but he was really introverted and didn't like to go out. Zhou Xun even broke the news that once the crew had a seven-day holiday, Takeshi Kaneshiro never left home.
13, Zhang Chaoyang
..... Contrary to the vigorous image in business activities, the real Zhang Chaoyang is naturally silent. Zhang himself explained: "The reason why I talk less is because I pursue the truth. I think it's hypocritical to say something useless. I am a quiet person and very introverted. If you have to talk for entertainment, you will often tell yourself: this is just entertainment. The biggest feature of my personality is that the pursuit of truth has reached a cruel level. Whether for yourself or for others. Can't stand the slightest bit of unreality. I ask myself to be honest with others and not to lie. What some people say may not be a lie, but there is a kind of psychology behind his words. When his mental state is at work, I can't stand it and will strip him naked. The pursuit of truth stems from the concern for people and their inner world, and is also related to learning physics. When studying physics, we must always explore the roots of things and explore what is happening in the world. "
14, Chai Jing
At the end of 2005, Time Weekly and sina women Channel jointly selected 50 candidates for "The Most Beautiful Woman in China in 2005", and Chai Jing, the host of CCTV's Oriental Time and Space and News Survey, was among them. Previously, Chai Jing was awarded the title of "the most enviable woman in China" by Rainbow magazine, and became a household name for her first in-depth interview with the designated hospital of SARS.
Chai Jing was introverted and spent his childhood and adolescence in unhappiness. At that time, her clothes were dark and she hid in the faint sea of people. She silently boycotted everything except books and radio. ……