The proposal of "polygamy" put forward by Mongolia has sufficient historical reasons and practical significance. The changes and pros and cons of polygamy.
Polygamy is a product of male-dominated society. China has always practiced this system in its feudal society for two thousand years before the Republic of China.
However, after the feudal dynasty was overthrown, various stereotypes and bad habits were eradicated, and the "polygamy" system existed in name only.
After the founding of New China, the polygamy system came to an end, officially withdrawing from the stage of history and swept into the garbage heap of history.
The reason why it is belittled is first of all because it discriminates against women and creates inequality between men and women.
In fact, which man doesn’t want to have a group of wives and concubines, just like the emperor, who spends all day looking for concubines, and going around Qin and dusk is no longer a dream.
But for most people who can’t even find a wife, polygamy is not a gospel, but a nightmare.
Because this system is too unfair to most of us at the grassroots level, because the rich and powerful people can make a few mistakes and marry many beauties; but we who do the bricks and mortar can’t Because of the lack of resources, it takes several carrots to grab a pit.
Although the system of polygamy has been abolished, we can notice that some wealthy people and officials are still able to occupy N pits with one carrot, but due to the law, they can only have one wife in name. There can only be one spouse in the household registration book.
When they get tired of using it, they may unload their baggage and give away some opportunities for singles to get a wife, but single people often cannot grasp it.
If the polygamy system is really implemented, every time a successful person has a spouse, there will be one more single in the world without a spouse; for hundreds of millions of us at the grassroots level, it will be deprived of the right to a spouse every life or even The subsequent reproductive rights are really too cruel.
So if we want to restore the polygamy system, ten thousand of us singles will not agree.
However, after careful study, we found that the people who proposed this system were not our people, but people from Mongolia. Why did Mongolian women propose polygamy?
And it is not Mongolian men who have this intention, but Mongolian women.
Mongolian men also like polygamy, but that is also the exclusive preserve of the powerful, and is nothing less than a disaster for most herdsmen.
Because I can’t even maintain food and clothing, how can I support so many wives with food, clothing, and cosmetics, let alone one more child who needs to eat milk powder, go to school, get married, and start a family.
Although Genghis Khan had dozens of concubines, they spent taxpayers’ money and did not have to pay out of their own pockets. Therefore, let alone dozens of wives, people can afford to support even 10,000 wives.
As we all know, the Mongolian people were originally a people on horseback, living as nomads. Their nature towards matters between men and women is somewhat different from that of the farming people. In history, the status of women was equivalent to that of cattle and sheep. It is one of the symbols of wealth for men.
The Mongols worshiped Genghis Khan, and Genghis Khan had 44 wives.
Mongolia closely followed the Soviet Union and also established collective farms for a few days, taking the road of common prosperity. After the implementation of the market economy, the gap between the rich and the poor has widened, and wealth has gone into the pockets of a few people.
What is even worse is that after the enterprises were privately owned, a large number of workers were laid off, the unemployment rate remained high, and the level of education of the people was greatly reduced.
Some people say that there are only two houses in Mongolia - one hell and one paradise; there are only two kinds of people in Mongolia - a few rich people with higher education and a large number of illiterate poor people!
Under such circumstances, many men in Mongolia have little wealth, lack of jobs, and no wives.
It’s not that there are few women in Mongolia, but that no one wants to marry them.
In sharp contrast, Mongolian women live a very nourishing life.
Because women are scarce resources wherever they go, especially beautiful women. Someone pays for schooling, someone arranges work, it is easy to find a job, and it is easy to achieve success in career.
Moreover, Mongolian women also have high salaries, large bonuses, houses and cars.
If you really want to be honest, if you were a company boss or a senior official of a state-owned enterprise, would you rather have a woman or a man work in your company?
For example, a well-known e-commerce company in a certain country selects many young and beautiful female college students every year like a beauty pageant. They receive pre-job "training" from their bosses, and then go to the UK, France or the United States for further training before returning to the company. Receive high salaries and hold important positions.
If you don’t believe me, take a look at the employment situation of women in Mongolia. Mongolia currently has a total population of 2.96 million, of which 50.11 are women. However, a staggering 52.35% work in state agencies, and the number of women who are teachers is even more incredible. , there are actually 73.44, and the number of women working in the health department is incredible, accounting for 81.31.
In contrast, we are still happy.
There are so many outstanding Mongolian women with culture, skills and wealth. Of course they are not willing to marry a herdsman who smells like sheep. Not only do they have less money, but they also have many companions. He has a bad habit of drinking, and it is not unusual at all to beat his wife after drinking too much. Many women would rather be a phoenix tail than a chicken head, even if they work as backup tires or mistresses for rich men and officials.
But no matter how many pitfalls there are, if there is only one carrot, the ending will be very tragic. Many young women do not marry poor people, preferring to have relationships with rich and successful people, or simply carry out pregnancy by themselves and pursue celibacy.
But since flowers are about to bear fruit, you can’t tell whose child it is after giving birth. Of course, it’s better if you can support yourself. If you lose your job, your child’s growth will be a big problem. Successful people often mention Trousers refuses to admit it, because extramarital affairs are scandals after all.
So Mongolian women are calling for the implementation of polygamy in Mongolia, so that women can marry successful men, gain status, have financial security, and have their children have a legitimate father, Baili. No harm done.
But to say this is to stand up and talk without pain in the back, because in this way, ordinary Mongolian men or ordinary herdsmen will be miserable, and they can only vent their grievances in the open wilderness and drink wine in depression. , hurting one's own body in numbness, reducing the overall life span of men, and society continues to fall into a cycle of more men than women, and women demanding polygamy.