If I can manage myself, I can fly. I read the book "You can fly if you manage yourself" the other day. Among them, what impressed me the most was the viewpoint and story of "Smart people work harder".
The phrase "the wise should work harder" was said by the famous writer and philosopher Mr. Hu Shi. The author Wu Mutian quoted this sentence to tell the story of his first arrival in America. When she first came to the United States as an exchange student, Wu Mutian's English was not very good, but in order to improve her English, Wu Mutian kept reading all kinds of English books, looking up dictionaries and consulting others. Through continuous efforts, he has made remarkable progress in English.
After reading this story, I pondered for a long time: Wu Mutian's brother is so smart and excellent, but he has to make such a "stupid" effort. It seems that only by studying hard can he be called really smart! Thinking of this, I secretly made up my mind: "In the future, I will learn from my brother Wu Mutian and be a really smart person!"
In fact, there are many people in this world who have made many "stupid" efforts like Wu Mutian, such as former US Secretary of State Condoleezza Rice. When Rice was young, the whole family went sightseeing in Washington. Because of her dark skin, the whole family was blocked from the White House and could not go in to visit like others. Feeling humiliated, Rice told her father, "One day, I will walk into that house aboveboard!" " "From that day on, in order to achieve her goal, Rice studied hard, finally admitted to Harvard University and got a doctorate, becoming the youngest female professor at Stanford University. Since then, she has worked eight times harder than others and tried her best to do everything well. She succeeded, finally walked into the White House and became the first black female secretary of state in American history!
I will always remember a sentence: "intelligence is worthless, and only by studying hard can you be really smart!" " "I want to always remind myself that there are no students smarter than you, only students who work harder than you!
Take care of yourself and you will feel it after reading it. When I first entered middle school life, like most of my friends around me, it was difficult to control myself, just like a puppet, smiling and giving precious time to useless things with both hands. When I was at a loss, a book recommended by the school, I can fly if I manage myself, gave me a self-management method.
When I read the preface of "Only a fool wants to take care of himself, but it's really cool after learning", this book seems to have two legs, jumping out of the vast number of general education books and entering my brain. The author Wu Mutian wrote down his self-management experience, so that we can learn from others' experience. I saw how he changed from hatred and restraint to love self-management, as if a light was on, telling me to follow in front and mind my own business.
What impressed me most was the idea of "smart people work harder" and the story that happened. When he first arrived in the United States, in order to improve his English level, Wu Mutian insisted on reading pure English books, carrying a dictionary with him, and constantly asking others for advice, and his English made a remarkable leap. He has always been clever and excellent, but his weakness is still "stupid" Only by doing things in a down-to-earth manner can he be really smart. He told me a truth: no matter what level, we must really strive to improve ourselves.
The words in the book "Eat other people's mistakes and grow your own wisdom" also helped me a lot. When shopping at an art booth in his hometown, the boss saw a sister who was a foreign tourist, raised the price on the spot and defrauded the original price by several hundred yuan on the grounds of touching the art. In Shenzhen, my sister was attracted by toys on the roadside, so I reached out and tried to play. I remembered the lesson I learned in my hometown and caught her at once.
The sentences summarized by the author in the book left a deep impression on me, such as: "more sweat on the training ground and less blood on the battlefield"; "A good knife cannot be sharpened in a cotton pile" and so on.
When I waste time, I often think of these words and the benefits of the author's self-management, and immediately have the motivation to learn, which inspires me to move forward.
Take care of yourself so that you can fly. Take care of yourself and you can fly is a book suitable for all students at school. My child is now in the fourth grade of primary school, and is about to enter the gate of middle school, and the rebellious period is coming soon. Therefore, I bought this book for my son, hoping that he can read it carefully and understand its contents, which will help him in the future.
In my spare time, I read this book first. This book mainly tells the story of a middle school student's process from hating discipline to loving self-management, through which he has made various achievements. Nowadays, teenagers lack self-management ability, so how to improve their management ability has become an urgent problem to be solved. Facing the reality that teenagers lack self-management, this book summarizes the methods of students' self-management from seven aspects:
1, mind your attitude and beg me to learn for me.
2. Manage safety and stay away from danger at any time.
3. Manage your emotions and bid farewell to bad emotions.
4. Manage your desires and dare to say no to bad temptations.
5. Manage the language well and learn to think twice before you act.
6. Manage behavior and learn to be the master of action.
7. Managing interpersonal relationships well, the more you can understand human nature, the more you can win people's hearts.
Today's children, regardless of their age, are a little rebellious, and they hate their parents' control very much. They think that their parents' actions and words are preventing them from flying to the blue sky of freedom, and they should take care of them everywhere, which limits their freedom. However, they don't understand their parents' good intentions and have been complaining, and so has my son. Every time I take care of him, he is always unwilling. Even though I communicate with him patiently every time, the child shows impatience. I hope he can be inspired by reading this book and make changes with his age.
This book changed me and taught me how to think from the perspective of a child. At the same time, I also hope that my son can change himself by reading this book, make himself better and more fulfilling, and lead himself to a new life path.
If I can manage myself, I can fly. At the beginning of the summer vacation, because I was in a bad state and my time was irregular, I stayed up late and got up late every day, so my dear mother picked up this book "I can fly if I manage myself" and read it with me. I hope I can learn positive energy from the book again and be a regular and self-managed person.
What benefited me most was an article "Self-polishing of Learning to Overcome Sleeping in", which described that Wu Mutian's father made a "overlord clause" for him during the summer vacation, and he had to get up at 6: 30 every morning to do morning exercises. Wu Mutian didn't accept this "overlord clause" at first, but he still went his own way. Later, after my father's various tricks, I slowly changed and gradually tasted the sweetness of getting up early and doing morning exercises. What enabled him to completely change himself and fully accept the "overlord clause" was an article about Franklin he saw in New Oriental, "Polishing Yourself". He is determined to polish himself like Franklin, manage himself well without parental supervision, get up early every day, get rid of the bad habit of staying up late, gradually learn to control those indulgent thoughts, and feel the charm of self-management more and more. Through this article, I also made up my mind not to sleep late in the summer vacation, insist on getting up at 6: 30 in the morning, get up at 5: 30 every Sunday morning, and go to the botanical garden with my mother to attend a book club, rain or shine, and never let go of a book club activity. During the whole holiday, I unconsciously recited traditional cultural classics such as University, Filial Piety, Heart Sutra, Song Zhengqi and Teacher's Watch. This is something I never dreamed of before. In the days after the summer vacation, I will continue to maintain this good habit and good state, insist on getting up early, read classics and change myself.
The book "Mind Your Fly" is worth recommending to every friend around me to read and practice. Let's all become self-managed teenagers who really reassure parents and teachers, let's keep growing and progressing, and fly higher and farther in the vast sky.
If I can manage myself, I can fly. After reading Wu Mutian's "I can fly if I manage myself", I have a lot of feelings, reflections and gains.
This book has taught me many methods of self-management and inspired me greatly. After practice, I have tasted a lot of sweetness of "self-responsibility and self-management". Take the simplest example: I always "broke my word" and said that I would eat less snacks and junk food, but I rarely did it, so that my weight "increased day by day". After reading this book, I first made a self-management attempt in my behavior, that is, I kept my mouth shut. This also played a great role, let me taste the sweetness brought by "self-management". It can be seen that the effect is very great.
Wu Mutian wrote such a sentence: In dealing with people, we should not only learn to give, but also know how to receive. This sentence impressed me deeply. In the past, in the process of interpersonal communication, I always gave gifts to others, but I never accepted them. This not only brushes people's hearts, but also makes others feel humiliated, which is very bad. Another sentence impressed me deeply: failure is the mother of success, and summary is the father of success. This is also the reason why some students' grades have been unsatisfactory. If they fail, they don't make a summary. Next time, if they fall down twice in one place, wouldn't it be a great loss? Therefore, only by summing up after failure can we reap success.
After reading this book, I found that I still have many shortcomings, such as sometimes my attitude towards others is incorrect, sometimes I can't control myself, and sometimes I can't solve some things calmly. In a word, I still have a lot to correct, and I will learn from Wu Mutian. It is because of his good self-management that he is so popular and admitted to Purdue University, the "mother of American aerospace".
The book "Take care of yourself, you can fly" gives us a profound truth: self-management and self-discipline are not unfathomable, but actually a happy and relaxed thing, so as long as we persist in self-management, we will certainly succeed!
Take care of yourself and you can fly after reading it. Yesterday, the day before yesterday was originally the weekend of March 8, and the spring was beautiful. I could have gone out to play, but my husband went to class and Ding Ding went to a martial arts class. After cleaning and cooking, in my spare time, I read a book "Mind My Own Business" at home. I feel very touched and enjoy it with you.
This book was bought in Joyo. To cover the postage in 49 yuan. The author is Wu Mutian, a teenager currently studying at Purdue University in the United States. It is not so much an inspirational book as a book about life and study. This book was originally bought for Tintin, but Tintin seldom reads books I haven't read. Besides, he is now in a rebellious period. The more books his parents and teachers ask him to read, the less he will read. In this way, I can only set an example, read it to him and read him wonderful places. Because this is a book written by a child, it is closer to life and reality in language. So it looks, quite wonderful.
It can be said that I am in my thirties, and there are many reasons, which are not as thorough as the little author's, so reading this book has gained a lot. I also know why I have made no achievements in my career in this life, and I have learned a lot about dealing with people in family life and society. If I had known this truth 30 years earlier, maybe I would be very different today. So it is especially suitable for children.
My biggest experience from reading this book is that it is easy to manage yourself well, but it is really difficult to do it well. But if you do, you are a trustworthy person.
A hundred rivers are full of tolerance. If you can study for a lifetime, you can know a lot of truth. I liked reading very much when I was young, but I didn't read much after I graduated from college. I like TV movies, computer games and mahjong. Now because I want my children to love books, I want to read them. Only then did I find that reading is actually a very pleasant thing. If a person can study all his life, then he won't feel bored in life, and he won't find something to kill time. At this level, I resisted the temptation of other entertainment. In order to educate my son well, I picked up books and managed myself.
If I can manage myself, I can fly. I can fly if I manage myself well is a good book for primary and middle school students. The author of this book is Wu Mutian Wu Ge, an excellent college student. This book is a summary of his years of experience. In this book, Wu Ge tells readers the truth in life with his own personal experience.
In this book, I like this story best: when the author is studying abroad, he will go home to visit his parents. When he was on the plane, because the ticket he bought from his friend was cheap online, he couldn't board the plane and was driven away by the security guard. After he panicked, Wu Ge chose to face it calmly. He called the manager to explain the situation: he bought the ticket from a friend, and he didn't know it was a cheap ticket. As a student, I don't have any more money to make up the ticket. Under the instruction of Angkor, the administrator let him board the plane. From this incident, I understand a truth: face things calmly, face them bravely, and only when you see things can you calm down and think carefully will you have a good result!
There is also a story that I like very much: Mr. Wu, the father of Brother Wu, is going on a business trip. Before going on a business trip, he got a bank card and said it would be delivered in half a month. However, more than half a month has passed, and he is about to travel, but his card has not arrived. Mr. Wu wanted to go to the bank to inquire about it. Brother Wu took pains to say, "Dad! Maybe the card is not ready yet. Don't ask. How troublesome! " But Mr. Wu insisted on going. Only after checking did I know that Mr. Wu's card had already been made, but the postman couldn't find the address and no one answered the phone call to Mr. Wu, so I sent the card back to the bank. Thanks to Mr. Wu's inquiry, otherwise the bank would treat it as a waste card. This incident taught Mr. Wu and his brother a lesson, and also made me understand a truth: it is meaningful not to be lazy in doing things, but to work hard!
There are many reasons in the book: for example, to try boldly. Absorb the advantages of others and make up for your own shortcomings. Keep your manners. Learn to be modest. Learn to put yourself in others' shoes. Diligence and curiosity. Observe more and record more. Learn to be grateful and learn to manage yourself.
After reading this book, I immediately felt fruitful!
Take care of yourself and you can fly. I had a feeling of resistance as soon as I saw this topic-this is not asking for it! I pursed my lips and opened the book, only to find that the author actually has the same psychology as me. Suddenly I have a bottom in my heart, and my mood is inexplicably better. My hand, involuntarily turned down from page to page.
The first time I came into contact with this book was when I went out to eat. Because I have the habit of taking books out, I stand in front of my big bookcase. My eyes passed through rows of books, and only the bright color of this book attracted me. Time was running out, so I took out my book and left.
At the dinner table, others are talking and laughing, and I am reading quietly. "Take care of yourself and you can fly" is not a complete boring truth, but many interesting stories. It was not until I finished reading it that I found that the author's ingenious little story was more useful than the truth, which made me understand a lot of truth at once.
In these short stories, there are many real examples of the author himself, such as this one:
One day, the author was inspired to write a composition spontaneously and gave it to his father for correction with great joy. Waiting for praise, my father poured a bucket of cold water and asked me to change it again. Six times, the night is already deep. Father finally satisfied, the author finally heaved a sigh of relief. My cousin invited him to play basketball, but he turned him down. Finally, he published this composition, which caused a little scene.
This not only makes me understand that "if you want to stay ahead of others, you must suffer from others first", but also redefines the meaning of the idiom "perseverance". As long as I give, I will persist, and luck will eventually come to me. Others are like this, the author is like this, why can't I do it?
Success is not the patent of celebrities and great men, we can do it, as long as we persevere and work hard, you can also enjoy it.
Now, this book has been well collected by me in the bookcase, and I have read it more than four times.
If I can manage myself, I can fly. This summer vacation, the school recommended a good book-manage yourself and you can fly. As soon as I saw the title, my book addiction came up and I started reading.
Holding a book in my hand, I finished it quickly. Wu Mutian, a middle school student, has been a self-managed student since he was a child. /kloc-published her works at the age of 0/0, and went to a middle school in the United States in senior three. She is currently studying at Purdue University, the "mother of American space". In this book, Wu Mutian achieved one wonderful moment after another in his growth with his super self-management ability, showing us the self-management realm of "I can do well without being forced by others" and enjoying the happiness and sweetness of growth.
Before reading this book, I was still a girl who couldn't manage, and I was lazy from time to time. But now, I have learned a lot from Wu Mutian about self-management and achieved good results. I can arrange my time consciously, and I can finish everything my parents say with high quality. The bad habit of laziness has also been corrected, so that now I can study all day!
I remember that before reading this book in summer vacation, I was always addicted to playing computer and mobile phone, didn't do my homework and read books on time, always indulged myself, didn't restrain myself, and didn't have the consciousness of self-management. Until one day, I found myself doing something wrong. I should not indulge in the online world every day, nor should I contradict my parents, nor should I listen to them. But after reading this book, I understand a lot of truth.
In fact, after reading this book, not only my study has changed, but even my impetuous personality in Mao Mao has changed. I used to fight with my brother all the time, but Rui, these things don't happen often. I also learned to put myself in my brother's shoes and always think about things from his point of view. 、
I used to be a little rebellious and hated my parents' control very much. I thought my parents were preventing us from "flying to the free blue sky" Of course, these are my previous thoughts. Now I understand that my parents are all for my own good. I want to recommend this book to you, because it tells us: "I can become better without being forced."
If I can manage myself, I can fly. I picked up the book "I can fly if I manage myself" some time ago. After careful tasting, I found that this book has brought me great inspiration and made me understand many ways and means of self-management.
Wu Mutian, the author of this book, used his own experience to reproduce the vivid process from hating being disciplined to loving self-management. The author summarizes seven aspects of self-management such as attitude, safety, emotion, desire, language, behavior and interpersonal relationship, which gives readers operable and implementable reference and enlightenment.
"It takes only one second to give up, but it takes a lifetime to persist" and "I don't know how to succeed, but I know the only thing I can do is to persist". I think it's right. Only persistence can achieve the goal. Persistence is like climbing a towering rock wall step by step. It must be very tiring and requires a lot of time and energy. It is easy to give up, just let go. But the price you pay is not only that you climbed so high for nothing, but more likely that you will fall to the bottom. Since we have chosen this road, we must go forward bravely. Perhaps it is not the looming dawn in front of us, but the abyss behind us.
"One minute you don't despair, the next minute you have hope." "When you want to give up most, you can't give up the most." I once saw a picture: two people were digging for treasures at the same time. One man has dug a place only one step away from the treasure, but he came back in frustration, while the other man is still a long way from the treasure, but he never gave up until he dug it. There is a passage at the bottom of the picture: "When you want to give up, why don't you think about what your original intention is and what keeps you going?"
Some dreams need to last a lifetime. Maybe you haven't reached them yet, but at least it proves that you are getting closer and closer to your goal. And if you choose to give up, you will never achieve your goal.
For me, the dream may still be far away, but "life is not just the present, but also distant poems and fields", and the road is long, but I will search up and down.
What is "not forgetting your initiative, you can achieve your ultimate goal" and "initial heart"? The initial heart needs us to take care of everything. When I want to give up most, the more I can't give up. Only by persistence can you succeed.