1. Cultivate children's sense of responsibility
Responsibility is the prerequisite for doing something well. Cultivating children's sense of responsibility must rely on daily habits. Parents should let their children do things within their capabilities from an early age. When they are young, let them put away their own toys, and when they are older, let them help wash the dishes. Let him be responsible for sweeping the floor or washing dishes. This is his responsibility. If he does well, he should be encouraged or rewarded. If he does not do well, parents should not be polite. They should ask him to do it again until he does it well.
Parents should let their children face up to the disadvantages of carelessness, let them experience the benefits of being careful in life, and let their children bear the consequences of "carelessness" if necessary. Parents can also ask their children to do more "fine work", such as writing calligraphy, sewing buttons, etc., which can train their children's attentiveness. In short, let him take responsibility for his own affairs. In this way, the child's sense of responsibility can be gradually cultivated, and the child will not be perfunctory when encountering problems.
Poor self-care ability and lack of sense of responsibility lead to children being sloppy and careless in doing things. Carelessness in learning is a manifestation of children's bad living habits. It is recommended that parents abandon past inappropriate education methods such as overprotection and arranging, start with the little things around them, cultivate orderliness in children's lives, and improve their ability to take care of themselves; train children to do more detailed work, and cultivate children's sense of responsibility and patience.
2. Cultivate children’s neat and orderly living habits
Children’s “carelessness” often manifests itself in many aspects of life. If children live in a disorganized home, they will develop careless, sloppy, and disorderly living habits. Therefore, it is recommended that parents create an orderly living environment for their children at home and cultivate their children's orderly living habits. Slowly, the children will gradually become more attentive in their studies.
When studying, it is necessary to create a quiet environment for children. Parents should avoid doing things that disturb their children's attention while they are studying. Parents should guide their children to develop neat and orderly living habits.
In life, let children develop a good habit of keeping their own belongings. Not only school supplies, but also clothes, shoes, etc. should be put in their own cabinets and kept by themselves.
In terms of learning, it is necessary to cultivate children to develop good habits such as completing the day's homework on the same day, checking the homework after completing it, previewing before class, and reviewing after class.
3. To keep children mentally healthy, give them more careful psychological hints
If a child makes a mistake, parents will simply attribute it to carelessness, lack of effort, or even making a fuss out of a molehill. Criticize a pass. If parents repeatedly emphasize that their children are careless, the children will really think that they are careless.
On the contrary, if parents can observe their children's carefulness in time and praise them, the children will have a psychological hint that they are "careful".
At the same time, let children see the benefits of being careful, so that they can have the subjective initiative to overcome carelessness, so that the problem can be fundamentally solved.
4. Let the child formulate his own measures to punish carelessness
If the child's carelessness affects his homework or exam performance, then you can give him a small punishment. For example: cancel the original outing plan, or watch less TV for a while...
5. Cultivate children to have a regular life
Require children to do things in a regular way, first do it in life , and then implement it in learning. You can ask your children to start by tidying up their own room.
6. Let your children do more "fine work"
You can let your children practice writing calligraphy, tying shoelaces, peeling edamame, etc. to improve their meticulousness.
The opposite of "careful" is carelessness and sloppiness. This problem is more common among children. When you are young, you don't feel it. The bigger it is, the more troublesome it is. It is not conducive to learning and success, and it is not conducive to learning and success. Most of the careless adults are developed since childhood. It can be seen that the cultivation in childhood is very important.
"Carefulness" is a habit, which is related to personality, but it is not innate. All habits are acquired.
We must cultivate the habit of "focusing", work seriously and attentively, be able to concentrate quickly, be able to control ourselves to calm down, and not be half-hearted or complete.
We must cultivate the habit of "checking" and get used to checking after we finish something. For example, after working, check how well we did? After cleaning up, check whether there is anything missing? When we finish our homework, Check for errors... Develop the habit of "checking" and it will benefit you throughout your life.
We must develop the habit of "orderliness" and "organization", behave in an orderly manner, have orderly items, do not be irritable, and do not lose things.
The formation of habits is not something that happens overnight, but is the result of perseverance. Children cannot develop it by themselves. It depends on the role of environment and education. Adults should set an example of being careful and infect children with adult care. If the whole environment is careful, children will naturally become careful.