When it comes to men’s love of the new and dislike of the old, maybe it’s a bit unfair to them. Do you still remember Duan Zhengchun in "Dragon"? He is a well-known playboy. In addition to his wife Dao Baifeng, he also has mistresses such as Qin Hongmian, Ruan Xingzhu, Gan Baobao, Wang Aluo, and Kang Min. Watching his women being killed one by one by Murong Fu but unable to stop him, the playboy Duan Zhengchun would rather commit suicide than survive. It can be seen that he likes the new but never gets tired of the old. He cherishes every woman he has and every one of them. He was willing to lay down his life for her.
Duan Zhengchun is a prince. Although he cannot have as many women as the emperor, it is normal to have three wives and four concubines. But his wife, Dao Baifeng, couldn't tolerate it and insisted on monopolizing it. It's pitiful that a prince who wants to sleep with one more woman has to do it secretly, which shows how strictly Dao Baifeng monitors Duan Zhengchun. But which man is willing to "keep his wife in check"? Not to mention a prince with power and status.
Seeing his man cuckolding him one after another, Dao Baifeng lost his mind angrily and treated the other man with his own way, so he also cuckolded his man. Got a big cuckold. The sad thing is that Duan Zhengchun's cheating was because of his "fraternity". He loved those wild women as much as he loved his wife, while Dao Baifeng's cheating was purely to retaliate against his man. She did not love her and her husband. A man of wild harmony. Therefore, it is irrational for a woman to use her own cheating to retaliate for a man's cheating, unless she also falls deeply in love with that man to be even.
Oh, no, even if you fall in love, you can't be equal. Some people say that a man's love for a woman is more for sex, while a woman's love for a man is more for love. This is why men can fall in love with many women at the same time, but women can only fall in love with one man at a time. Even if a woman falls in love with several men at the same time, she will only choose to give her body and mind to the one she likes and feels the most. And a man will pick all the flowers whenever he can.
Perhaps, there are really many men like Duan Zhengchun, or most men think this way. They feel that they can give true love to every woman they love impartially. Men are all Nietzsche, thinking that they are the sun and can let every woman he loves enjoy the same sunshine. When he falls in love with another woman, it does not necessarily mean that his love for the original woman has deteriorated. Perhaps it is precisely because of men's fraternity that today's complicated emotional world has been created.
However, women cannot accept sharing a man with other women, even the emperor's concubines, such as those women in palace fights, such as those in Duan Zhengchun's Women, they often get into quarrels with each other and even fight to the death.
Is it a woman’s nature to want to dominate her man? If this is the case, why can Wei Xiaobao, who is also a character written by Jin Yong, enjoy the happiness of everyone? There are many wives and concubines, and they are not jealous of each other. Perhaps Wei Xiaobao, a scoundrel, has a superb skill in handling women.
In fact, women and men are the same in lust. Just because of the influence of thousands of years of feudal tradition, today's patriarchal society still has the same moral requirements for women. At least one marriage can only be with one man, otherwise they will be scolded as a broken shoe or something. If society could tolerate women's cheating as much as it tolerates men's cheating, women would be happy to have many faces, such as Wu Zetian. Because of the openness of the Tang Dynasty and the power of an emperor, she could be as arbitrary as a man. Just enjoy it that way.
This may be criticized, but there are many real examples in society to prove it. Aren't there reports on the Internet that some official wives couldn't bear the loneliness and went to foreign countries to find young girls? The Central Commission for Discipline Inspection once reported that some female officials not only had affairs with their superiors, but also had affairs with their subordinates. Men look for mistresses, and women look for mistresses. Women, like men, can do whatever they want with power, status and money. Morality, from ancient times to the present, has been used to restrain those who are powerless and honest.
Gaozi in "Mencius" said, "Eating and sex are also factors." Confucius also mentioned in "The Book of Rites" that "eating and drinking, men and women, are where people's great desires exist." Human life is nothing more than two major things: food, men and women, that is, life and sex. Please note that Confucius talked about "eating and drinking for men and women", so don't just say that men are lustful, women will do the same.
But one thing is not clear. A man can equally share his love with several women he loves, but can women do the same?
Everyone says that men like the new and hate the old. Maybe they are being unfairly accused. Do you still remember Duan Zhengchun in "Dragon"? He is a well-known playboy. In addition to his wife Dao Baifeng, he also has mistresses such as Qin Hongmian, Ruan Xingzhu, Gan Baobao, Wang Aluo, and Kang Min. Seeing his women being killed one by one by Murong Fu before his eyes but unable to stop him, the playboy Duan Zhengchun would rather commit suicide than live in this world. It can be seen that he likes the new but never gets tired of the old, and he cherishes every woman he has. Every time he is willing to give up his wealth and life for her.
Duan Zhengchun is a prince. Although he cannot have as many women as the emperor, it is normal to have three wives and four concubines. But his wife, Dao Baifeng, couldn't tolerate it and insisted on monopolizing it. It's pitiful that a prince who wants to sleep with one more woman has to do it secretly, which shows how strictly Dao Baifeng monitors Duan Zhengchun. But which man is willing to "keep his wife in check"? Not to mention a prince with power and status.
Seeing his man cuckolding him one after another, Dao Baifeng lost his mind angrily and treated the other man with his own way, so he also cuckolded his man. Got a big cuckold. The sad thing is that Duan Zhengchun's cheating was because of his "fraternity". He loved those wild women as much as he loved his wife, while Dao Baifeng's cheating was purely to retaliate against his man. She didn't love her and her husband. A man of wild harmony. Therefore, it is irrational for a woman to use her own cheating to retaliate against a man's cheating, unless she also falls deeply in love with that man to be even.
Oh, no, even if you fall in love, you can't be equal. Because the same thing is cheating, men and women have different feelings of guilt. Some people say that a man's love for a woman is more for sex, while a woman's love for a man is more for love. This is why men can fall in love with many women at the same time, but women can only fall in love with one man at a time. Even if a woman falls in love with several men at the same time, she will only choose to give her body and mind to the one she likes and feels the most. And a man will pick all the flowers whenever he can.
Perhaps, there are really many men like Duan Zhengchun. They feel like Nietzsche, thinking that they are the sun and can let every woman he loves enjoy the same sunshine. When he falls in love with another woman, it does not necessarily mean that his love for the original woman has deteriorated. This is the fraternity of men. Perhaps it is precisely because of men's fraternity that today's complicated emotional world has been created.
Modern social laws stipulate monogamy, but in ancient times men could have three wives and four concubines. However, even in ancient times, it was difficult for women to accept sharing a husband with another woman. Even the emperor's concubines were unwilling. For example, the women in the palace fight drama, such as the women in Duan Zhengchun, In order to let men pamper themselves, they often get into quarrels with each other and even fight to the death. Wanting to dominate her man, does this mean that a woman is deeply affectionate or too possessive?
Perhaps women are using actions to prove that the essence of marriage is loyalty and exclusivity, but women and men are the same in terms of human lust. Marriage demands fidelity, and the body demands honesty. Influenced by thousands of years of feudal tradition, today's patriarchal society has strict moral requirements for women. At least one marriage can only be with one man, otherwise they will be scolded as a broken shoe or something. Who has ever seen a man called a shabby shoe? This shows that realistic morality can tolerate men cheating, but it cannot tolerate women looking after men. If society could tolerate women's cheating as well as men's cheating, women would also be happy to have many celebrities, such as Wu Zetian and her daughter Princess Taiping. Because of the openness of the Tang Dynasty and the wealth in their hands, Royal power, so you can enjoy it like a man.
This may be criticized, but there are many real examples in society to prove it. Aren't there reports on the Internet that some official wives couldn't bear the loneliness and went to foreign countries to find young meat? The word "little fresh meat" obviously contains a sexual component, and it is exclusively used by women. The Central Commission for Discipline Inspection once reported that some female officials were not only having affairs with their superiors, but also having affairs with younger subordinates. Men look for mistresses, and women look for mistresses. Women, like men, may act boldly when they have power, status and money. Morality, from ancient times to the present, has been used to restrain those who are powerless and honest.
In primitive society, during the period of matrilineal clan society, would high-status women only sleep with one man? Obviously not, otherwise the child would not recognize its mother but not its father, because women would not be able to figure out which man the child was born to.
There is a saying in "Mencius", "Food and color are the nature of food." Confucius also mentioned in "Book of Rites" that "eating and drinking, men and women, are the main factors of human desire." What it means is human life, which is nothing more than two major things: diet, men and women, that is, life and sex. Please note that Confucius said "eating and drinking men and women." Apart from their different physical structures, men and women should be the same and connected in terms of human nature. So, don’t just say that men are lustful, women will be the same way. But one thing is not clear. A loving man can equally share his love with several women he loves, but can women do the same?