Once people reach middle age, they are especially afraid of loneliness. In fact, it is not just middle-aged and elderly people. After all, being born is closely related to loneliness, and loneliness is the normal state of life.
I remember that Zhang Ailing wrote in a book: When a person reaches middle age, he often feels lonely, because as soon as he opens his eyes, he is surrounded by people who want to help him, but there is no one he can help.
When people reach middle age, life is not satisfactory, and their age is still in an awkward critical period. Whether it is work, daily life, or children's education and marriage life, there are more or less shortcomings, and various work pressures are deposited and cannot be released, which makes adults feel tired and lonely.
Do you still remember the role played by Huang Lei in the TV series Little Joy? He is a business manager and works hard, but he is also one of them due to corporate mergers, layoffs and tragedies. He deals with senior three children and is afraid of endangering his career. Therefore, he goes out in a suit every day, pretends to go to work, and shakes alone in the shopping mall.
When I was drunk with my friend, I was hearing the news of the death of Mr. Jin Yong. I finally couldn't hold back sitting around the door. He cried and told his wife:
Do you know what time it is today? Mr. Jin Yong passed away. I'm particularly uncomfortable. Do you know that?/You know what? Why did Mr. Jin Yong suddenly leave? I wanted to be a martial arts Jianghu since I was a child and travel around the world with my sword.
how do I feel about Ling Huchong, Duan Yu and so on! Even if I almost, I am at least a Komi Guo! But how can I become Yue Buqun when I hit my head?
When I saw crying around, I said this, which caused a lot of people to sing. The daily life of adults is too difficult. There is no road that is not one after another.
Not just for Jin Yong's departure, but for himself.
There is a difficult question in Zhihu's question and answer: Why do boys like to smoke by car before going home?
A high praise responded:
Wearing a mask to work in an enterprise, and even cooperating with leading cadres and friends to act; Going home from work is all kinds of roles, facing all kinds of life calmly, and only in the car can we have our own space.
Take advantage of smoking time to give the tired human body a rest, even in the dark, there will be a brief relaxation.
In the era of rapid development, there are many temptations. Children's education, the connection of marriage life and the quality of daily life must be supported by adults.
Therefore, the pressure of work is increasing. Housing loans, car purchase loans, children's education and all normal expenses are like a rolling sea, which makes people unprepared.
There is a song called "Lonely as I Grow Up". When people grow up, their former friends, classmates and close friends are gradually evacuating and parting ways. They all have their own jobs and families, so they have their own social circles, and they are no longer the previous social circles.
The more you grow up, the more lonely you are, especially when you are in middle age. Under the tempering of daily life, you have no enthusiasm or pride, but you just take every step steadily, working hard for your family, yourself and daily life.
loneliness is the normal state of life.
As Zhou Guoping, a writer, said in his book "Life is Enriched by Loneliness",
Loneliness is the fate of human beings, which is based on the objective fact that everyone is an unintentional existence in this world, which comes from nothing and returns to nothing, and no one can change this fortune of everyone.
Everyone is afraid of loneliness, and everyone will feel depressed and sad, but fortunately, there are people who love us and things that make us feel warm and happy.
once people reach middle age, I am afraid of loneliness, but don't you feel lonely, too? May we all be treated well by the years, and may we all live a less lonely and glorious life.